Hot wife but not a hotwife

[MikeCeeBee3]

Turns out she's going to a weddding out of state alone. With family, but not with me. Wow the things im imagining

 

[Eyelevel]

Turns out she's going to a weddding out of state alone. With family, but not with me. Wow the things im imagining

Ever seen the movie wedding crashers…..

 

[cubbies4vrs]

Turns out she's going to a weddding out of state alone. With family, but not with me. Wow the things im imagining

Tell us more is it a family or friend wedding

 

[Chridi]

You can start with some exhibitionism. That's how I got my wife started. It can be going without a bra or wearing a short skirt and giving some men an upskirt view of her panties and then her bare pussy. See-through dresses are nice too. My wife would do this when we were out of town where she felt more comfortable. Many room service waiters saw her in her sexy lingerie. We'd leave the hotel curtains open with the lights on. I'd undress her in front of the window and then we'd fuck. We had an audience a few times. She started modeling lingerie for me and a friend which eventually led to her fucking him. We felt more comfortable with someone we knew and trusted while other women might be more comfortable with a stranger. Alcohol always loosened her up too.

No idea if it was his plan, but that's how it started for me. Without knowing about it in advance, we were standing with our camper at the entrance of a nude resort. I had no idea what to think of it and actually wanted to turn around as fast as possible. But he convinced me to try it out for at least one day. I think that this adventure, because that's what it was for me, was the start of growing into who I am now, someone who doesn't say no to a nice fuck, even if it's with a different man than my boyfriend.

If you want to know the details, you should read my stories, starting with the four-part series about the nude resort and my experiences there.

 

[w1ebony]

You know, after I posted I was just coming back to ask any thoughts on first steps toward this direction. The sex club came to mind assuming we could find one that seemed safe and not scuzzy. I think she'd go if we could find this although I don't know. Open to all suggestions that are safe and respectful for her. And @Live4themoments thank you!

It's time to take her on vacation CB! Vacations & wine do wonders for a women's libido ~ Hedonism in Jamaica maybe? you don't have to do anything, you can just go topless or naked and get comfortable with others - there are two sides on the resort, prudes or nudes - pools & hot tubs - OR - go to Europe! Germany and Italy both have outstanding places (resorts), hot springs, places where you can get comfortable being naked, and plenty of (sex) clubs if she wishes to dive in "head" first... There's even swingers cruises but not for beginners. PM me for details but either way, it helps to get her out of town, and it doesn't always have to be full on (vaginal) sex - give her room to set boundaries.
Cheers Mate

 

[pace_purr]

We did the whole swinging hot wife scene for years we enjoyed it it worked for us but I didn’t push her into it it was mutual but we knew couples were the husband pushed the wife into it and it didn’t turn out well for the marriage so take care what you wish for.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I have shared mine in a swapping situation with other friends and would do it again. I admit it can be hard on the ego when you see her getting blasted by an 8" cock when you have 6 "
I just wished when we had done it I had the balls to lick her afterwards. Biggest fantasy that I didn't do.
I licked her bestie while she was riding cock reverse cowgirl and she would lift off him so I got a big lick of cock and I would look up and she would be smiling watching me

 

[Tom_Brown]

My wife and I also share the fantasy of her being fucked by another guy with me there too for a MFM threesome. We’ve never gone any further than our own bedroom with this. I don’t think she will ever actually cross that line. We do have many dildos to act out the fantasy. Larger than my cock for excitement and strangeness for her. When we do get to play this out it is some of the hottest sex I’ve ever had.

It took 15 years of me asking, before my wife finally agreed to at least meet another guy. She said that she wouldn’t fuck him but agreed to meet to maybe fondle and/or jack him off or perform oral on him.

She got so worked up that she asked for him to fuck her. Unfortunately, she just sucked him off and he couldn’t get hard again quickly (after he came in her mouth) to actually penetrate her, so he dressed and left.

A few months later we met another guy and he succeeded in fucking her. We met with him twice and he fucked her multiple times during those encounters but afterwards, refused to indulge again.

A year later she let a masseur fuck her, but he was the last extramarital fuck for her (that I know of).

In other words, never say never and never stop trying. She may give in one day.

 

[NCWSLvr]

So, I share my wife (Stag/Vixen dynamic). You got to the reason why someone might desire this. I am not into humiliation or feel beta or anything like that - actually we practice Master/slave a bit as well, so if anything, I am the Dom in the relationship.

The reason is I love my wife. I think she is hot. When guys are attracted to her, that means THEY think she is hot. They are affirming my choice (which I DONT need, but it IS nice). When guys are attracted to her, she feels hot. She feels beautiful. Yes, she gets that from me, and has for 25 years, but it is NICE to be wanted like that.

It also gives her experiences - she had only had sex with two people before she was doing this. She feels a sense of validation when she makes another guy orgasm. To feel like a slut. To be depraved.

It is hot for me to see that. It is also hot for me to "corrupt" her and have her do that for me. To turn me on. To make me aroused.

So, we had always done fantasy talk for years, and the theme always was on her being used/gangbanged - at some point she asked to be more submissive - so I took that as my calling to become her Master and I told her that I would be slut training her for real, and that we were going to actually do the things we talked about.

"Yes, please."

I take her to gloryholes now, we have had sex in front of people in an adult theater, she has been fucked by several different men (always with me there, always with me picking, actually), threesomes, etc. Our extremely strong relationship got even stronger, which I couldn't have seen how that was possible.

 

[joclfc]

I have to say, it's also funny that years ago I would talk to her about inviting a lady into our bed. She was not hostile to that idea but it was a bit of the same dynamic. I almost think I should go back to that! Would not be the worst thing(!)

You could try swapping with another like minded couple who want to experiment too

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

All good input, thanks everyone. I think caution is the best advice and sincerely appreciate this. I appreciate your not judging. She is shy, very shy, so even a few things of exhibitionism are a non-starter. She's hard to figure out but I've been at this a while and am pretty sure with the right (maybe unicorn) situation this could really be something, quite something. I don't want to provoke and be disrespectful to her, which leaves out the hail mary options. It's all good input tho so again thank you.

I have a similar situation.