Married Men - Online Affairs

[CuriousMature]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

 

[AllenJames]

I was briefly 'owned' online by a BBC - very seductive chat partner - but he left when that forum changed their rules and format

 

[mtsnowrider]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

It can be hot, fun and safe

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

I had one online where there was intimacy, romance and more, but due to COVID it never materialized into a real time meeting. I think we were close to the L word, and he wanted to be my partner and lover for what was missing in his marriage. We came very close to spending a weekend together halfway between our homes, but it never materialized. Great fantasy material thinking of spending a weekend naked in a nice hotel with someone you had intense feeling for. We convinced ourselves that two bottoms could still have a healthy sexual relationship complete with some girly dressing...

 

[KentBloke]

I have had a long relationship with another guy which started here. We live oon opposite sides of the Atlantic but Kik or Skype are great for "meeting up". The best couple of nights were when my wife was in hospital and we skyped live for hours... and came at least twice each as we talked and watched each other stroking ourselves.

 

[Nekidinaz]

I have had a long relationship with another guy which started here. We live oon opposite sides of the Atlantic but Kik or Skype are great for "meeting up". The best couple of nights were when my wife was in hospital and we skyped live for hours... and came at least twice each as we talked and watched each other stroking ourselves.

I do the same thing on Skype with an online friend in Europe only I'm an exhibitionist and he's more voyeur so he likes chatting and watching me stroke and cum...so much fun...wish I had more online voyeur friends to chat with and watch me

 

[KentBloke]

Nowadays video calls are not possible and sharing pics n videos via Kik is my preferred option.
PM me if you are interested...

 

[CuriousMature]

I have had a long relationship with another guy which started here. We live oon opposite sides of the Atlantic but Kik or Skype are great for "meeting up". The best couple of nights were when my wife was in hospital and we skyped live for hours... and came at least twice each as we talked and watched each other stroking ourselves.

I love vid sex with a guy over Skype. Especially a guy I have developed a relationship with.

 

[vidmin]

I've had a few affairs online with men, started on here or kik, progressed to skype. Some more satisfying than others. I want someone that can be open, share their feelings, fantasies with me as I share mie. Someone that won't run when I tell them how much I love them.

 

[cumuncut]

I have a friend I have chatted to forever. We are quite close, have played before but more into chat.

 

[DickandDoof]

I’d love to have a long on-line affair, but up to now all my sexual relationships with men have been one night stands. Sometimes it was me who didn’t pursue it, other times it was them. But I’m still looking for that one special guy who will want to fuck me every night.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I’d love to have a long on-line affair, but up to now all my sexual relationships with men have been one night stands. Sometimes it was me who didn’t pursue it, other times it was them. But I’m still looking for that one special guy who will want to fuck me every night.

Being fucked on a regular basis is a wonderful and addictive thing. The taste of his cum lingering in the back of your throat. The little rectal tingle that you're still aware of long after he's left and gone home to his wife. That smug self-satisfied feeling when you know with absolute certainty that he wants and desires you, that his cock is erect and ravenous just for you, and that only your mouth or bum-hole can drain it so sweetly. Then there's that feeling of devastation when he dumps you because his wife has begun to suspect he's having an 'affair', and you're like an addict enduring such a painful withdrawal...

 

[vidmin]

Being fucked on a regular basis is a wonderful and addictive thing. The taste of his cum lingering in the back of your throat. The little rectal tingle that you're still aware of long after he's left and gone home to his wife. That smug self-satisfied feeling when you know with absolute certainty that he wants and desires you, that his cock is erect and ravenous just for you, and that only your mouth or bum-hole can drain it so sweetly. Then there's that feeling of devastation when he dumps you because his wife has begun to suspect he's having an 'affair', and you're like an addict enduring such a painful withdrawal...

Some how we would make it work, maybe have to cool it for a while, but the love and lust for one another would overcome all obstacles, only we could satisfy each others physical and emotional desires,

 

[DickandDoof]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

I’m a man in a long-term (now sexless) marriage. I’ve had a number of intimate on-line relationships with women, but none with men. Men seem more interested in “wham, bam, on to the next man”. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I wasn’t happy and turned on by these one-night stands. But now that I’m drawn more to men than women, something a little more regular and reliable would be nice.

 

[CuriousMature]

I’m a man in a long-term (now sexless) marriage. I’ve had a number of intimate on-line relationships with women, but none with men. Men seem more interested in “wham, bam, on to the next man”. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I wasn’t happy and turned on by these one-night stands. But now that I’m drawn more to men than women, something a little more regular and reliable would be nice.

We are of a like mind.

 

[DickandDoof]

We are of a like mind.

I think we are of a like mind regarding a number of sexual matters. As we get older, we are becoming more and more preoccupied by gay sex. We are especially attracted to twinks. We both want intimacy in a relationship. I don’t do Skype, but maybe we should explore these matters via PM.

 

[KentBloke]

I've had a few affairs online with men, started on here or kik, progressed to skype. Some more satisfying than others. I want someone that can be open, share their feelings, fantasies with me as I share mie. Someone that won't run when I tell them how much I love them.

Some people are scared of that word... in my experience, the stronger the relationship, the better the "outcome" if you chat. I have a female friend who was happy when I admitted my feelings and the video chat/sex is now fucking amazing as a result LOK

 

[goldenknights54]

I am wondering how many of the married men, men with a long-term gf, or men who "identify" as straight out in the "real world" have had an on-line affair with another man? I don't just mean a long-term on-line JO buddy, but one where there was an intimacy, a romantic energy, and/or perhaps you used the "L" word with each other (and I don't mean lesbian).

I would love chatting with another married man to just share secrets with. Not done it yet but really want to suck a cock even though I have a great sex life with my wife. Seems to be a common thing here. Good to know I am not out of the ordinary with my thoughts.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

I'm glad there are others like me, I've never been intimate with a man but in the last few years, it seems I fantasize about sucking and being fucked all the time. I'd like to share my feelings with someone who understands and feels the same, seems this could be the right place.

 

[WhiskeyLvr]

I'd love a genuine online affair with a man......not gonna get much else besides that around here.....

 

[phreedom]

I've chatted with a few men who are perfect for me, all top, very romantic, also married to a woman as I am. They treat me the way I love to be treated and I've felt an intimate connection the way I love to feel with a man in real life. And yes, I've told them I love them mmmmm

 

[mtsnowrider]

Interesting posts. For those of us in this awkward spot the ideal is a safe and local partner. Random hooks ups do not fill the emotional void or provide the physical intimacy that we want - and the risks are unacceptable. An online "relationship" is a reasonable alternative that can give a way to deal with the frustration of a complicated situation

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'm glad there are others like me, I've never been intimate with a man but in the last few years, it seems I fantasize about sucking and being fucked all the time. I'd like to share my feelings with someone who understands and feels the same, seems this could be the right place.

What!?!?!
You've never been intimate with a man?
It's absolutely time you changed that status. You are simply missing so much pleasure...

 

[Dreamer110]

I would love chatting with another married man to just share secrets with. Not done it yet but really want to suck a cock even though I have a great sex life with my wife. Seems to be a common thing here. Good to know I am not out of the ordinary with my thoughts.

I agree completely. Not just getting off and gone. Longer term discussions is what I'd like.

 

[sundown1]

I chat sometimes, and it may go on days, or weeks depending how quick email gets responded too. The L word, I guess love, nah I could never see that. Maybe say oh how I love your cock, ooh I love the way you suck mine. Never could I see hey let's leave our wives, and by a house on the coast....lol. I mean I could see having a friend to do the dirty on the regular, may buy him coffee, but going hey dude let's start going out as a couple...nah. I'll admit I'm a perv, and have very dirty fantasies, but the L word ain't happening. Even if my wife left me, I wouldn't.