Marriage & Sex

[MorgaineLaFay]

Marriage is the Jack Kavorkian of sex...

forgive my rambling...not enough sleep, too much coffee... or was that too much tv and not enough sex?

 

[Texan]

Marriage is the Jack Kavorkian of sex...

forgive my rambling...not enough sleep, too much coffee... or was that too much tv and not enough sex?

as has been said many times... "if you want to stop a woman from having sex..... marry her"....

 

[Moridin187]

Marriage is the Jack Kavorkian of sex...

forgive my rambling...not enough sleep, too much coffee... or was that too much tv and not enough sex?

Sounds like the second to me..

Maybe you should come up to Moridin's Clinic, we also help with stress relief in addition to weight loss :-D

 

[*ladylove*]

definitely too much tv and not enough sex

and lack of sleep with still no sex?
That just ain't right!

Though i do have to say..been married for 7 years, sex is still awesome!
We just got more creative

get some fun toys babe and blow his mind.

kisses darlin
*ladylove*

 

[Rubyfruit]

How do you cure a nymphomaniac?

Marry her.

Sorry.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Re: Re: Marriage & Sex

as has been said many times... "if you want to stop a woman from having sex..... marry her"....

LMAO...its so true, and yet, I think I must masterbate more then any married woman in America...its a damn shame.

 

[*ladylove*]

Not more than any woman I bet

and I sure hope there isn't some sort of quota on it or something. You know, like when your little and you get told don't touch it or it will fall off. (lol) or that you'll go blind. Course that might explain why i need glasses!

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Re: Re: Marriage & Sex

LMAO...its so true, and yet, I think I must masterbate more then any married woman in America...its a damn shame.

No you don't. Trust me on this one! You're right.... it IS a damn shame.

 

[Desdemona]

OMG!!!!

Not more than any woman I bet

and I sure hope there isn't some sort of quota on it or something. You know, like when your little and you get told don't touch it or it will fall off. (lol) or that you'll go blind. Course that might explain why i need glasses!

THAT's why I had to get bifocals!

 

[*ladylove*]

Thank goodness for laser surgery! now as long as certain digits don't fall off we'll be ok!

 

[Desdemona]

LOL

I'm sure if the digits fell off, we'd figure out a way!

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I DO have terrible vision...lol...or maybe I was the devils mistress in my past life an di am being punished in this one

 

[Guest]

Marriage is the Jack Kavorkian of sex...

No, selfishness, self-centeredness, lack of empathy kill both marriage and a good sex life. Flirting with everyone but your husband will result in lack of sex.

 

[Desdemona]

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No, selfishness, self-centeredness, lack of empathy kill both marriage and a good sex life. Flirting with everyone but your husband will result in lack of sex.

Oh, look.... a cowardly troll. Unless you have the stones to register and participate openly, tell your sad tale to somebody who gives a shit.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

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No, selfishness, self-centeredness, lack of empathy kill both marriage and a good sex life. Flirting with everyone but your husband will result in lack of sex.

This could be true, but in my case it is not...I am sure it is in many though. And, looking around, I don't see myself flirting with anyone...I could go on here, but I don't see the need to defend myself

 

[Desdemona]

Nor should you defend yourself to a coward. What goes on in the privacy of your home is between you and your hubby.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

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Oh, look.... a cowardly troll. Unless you have the stones to register and participate openly, tell your sad tale to somebody who gives a shit.

LMAO...Thank You

 

[Desdemona]

Anytime, babe.

 

[estevie]

Come on girls, the trolls with integrity and morals are the best ones!

 

[SweetCherry]

Not more than any woman I bet

and I sure hope there isn't some sort of quota on it or something. You know, like when your little and you get told don't touch it or it will fall off. (lol) or that you'll go blind. Course that might explain why i need glasses!

Ha! I've got one up on ya. I really AM going blind. I think I should spend less time masturbating and more time eating my carrots.

*snickers*

 

[daughter]

Marriage makes for great sex

I believe a long-term, monogamous relationship can be a haven for satisfying sex.

Being with someone exclusively, long-term provides an atmosphere to nuture sexual intimacy. Granted, sex in a marriage might be absent or less than desired at times, but I don't think marriage in itself kills great sex. Familiarity, getting stuck in routines, and failure to rekindle physical desire and passion, feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities, suck sex out of a marriage.

I think marriage provides the opportunity to have things we can't have in transitory couplings: true intimacy, commitment, trust, devotion, loyalty, empathy, and love.

DCL once remarked about his wife and his marriage. He said they made a commitment early on never to degrade, disrespect or joke about one another or their marriage. He said that their relationship meant a great deal to them, and to talk about it in derogatory terms was disrespting the commitment they made to one another. That says to me they believe their union is sacred and they honor it.

This attitude seems so rare in our society today. While I don't know how his real life is, I value and share their view.

Peace,

daughter

 

[*ladylove*]

or just have carrots for a post-orgasmic snack!

*adding carrots to my shopping list*

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Re: Marriage makes for great sex

I believe a long-term, monogamous relationship can be a haven for satisfying sex.

Being with someone exclusively, long-term provides an atmosphere to nuture sexual intimacy. Granted, sex in a marriage might be absent or less than desired at times, but I don't think marriage in itself kills great sex.

I think marriage provides the opportunity to have things we can't have in transitory couplings: true intimacy, commitment, trust, devotion, loyalty, empathy, and love.

DCL once remarked about his wife and his marriage. He said they made a commitment early on never to degrade, disrespect or joke about one another or their marriage. He said that their relationship meant a great deal to them, and to talk about it in derogatory terms was disrespting the commitment they made to one another. That says to me they believe their union is sacred and they honor it.

This attitude seems so rare in our society today. While I don't know how his real life is, I value and share their view.

Peace,

daughter

Very very true. I like what you wrote, you have to excuse me...at times I try to find humor in my own unhappiness...

 

[*ladylove*]

btw...I haven't figured out how to use the quote option..yes I'm mentally slow when it comes to the whole internet thing.

I agree with you daughter, my marriage came very close to failing miserably. Then my hubby and I decided that alot more work was needed and our relationship was well worth it. We rekindled the love we had once had for each other, or unburied it from all the trivial "shit" I should say. We don't let the daily struggles of life drain our passion and caring for each other, and we can have a wonderful evening together even if the day has been terrible. Its such a rewarding change to be able to relax in the arms of the person you love. But you can only do it if both partners want it!

*ladylove*

 

[daughter]

Wish this wasn't your case

Morgaine--

I have been married twice. I know everything about what doesn't work and how painful marriage can be.
I still believe in it though. I trust that with better choices, maturity, and a willing partner, we can build or rebuild the relationships we desire.

Only speaking for myself, I had some changes to make on my part. Couldn't fix him, but I needed fixing. Part of it included moving on.

Hope things are less drastic for you.

Peace,

daughter