Litiquette

[PeteHulbert37]

1. Don't be an ass wipe. If a lady asks you to leave her alone then leave her alone. PERIOD!

2. I've had sigs off for years. If you're curious about someone click on their profile and you'll see the sig.

3. Don't be nasty to someone, laugh it off and then start a bullshit snarky thread so you can get off on what a glorified asshole you are.

4. Guys less is more. I've certainly bumped a "person above you" thread to be next up. However intentional skipping gets you noticed for the wrong reason. They see you as desperate or inconsiderate and you don't want that. Also, if all you do is hammer away on those threads all day long without contributing elsewhere.........again you'll be noticed for the wrong reasons.

5. Be respectful of others.

 

[jaded_lily]

1. Don't be an ass wipe. If a lady asks you to leave her alone then leave her alone. PERIOD!

This is right up there with the unsolicited PM.....

 

[Lord Pmann]

Not too close, not too far.

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This seriously has to be my favourite avatar here. I remember seeing that avatar when I first signed up and I did laughing every time I see it.

 

[viskalvaere]

If someone posts a pic of the self they can always remove it, but if someone quotes it, taking it down takes an act of God.

I guess that kind of makes it their own fault for posting it though? Don't post things online that you don't want out there forever!

 

[TomBoner]

That being said, it is annoying to have many quote the same pic. I mean, what's the point? We've seen it!

Yeppers. I hate going to an am pic thread and seeing guys have quoted and left the pics on for page after page after page. Get's really annoying, particularly with multiple pic posts.

I disagree with "no means no". It means try harder!

Yep ... cuz all the lit women are really horny ass sluts at heart that wanna believe they have shy vagina's ... but they're actually dripping wet and begging for an exhibition.

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Oh ... and one more pet peeve. Picture posters who post 50 plus pics in a row on a single thread. Threads need variety.

 

[vibes]

I guess that kind of makes it their own fault for posting it though? Don't post things online that you don't want out there forever!

That's good common sense, okay. But the unwritten (or maybe it's written, I'm not sure) rule goes it is really rude to quote a picture preventing the poster to delete it on a second thought (unless following the procedure Rainshine suggested above, which many may ignore)

 

[viskalvaere]

That's good common sense, okay. But the unwritten (or maybe it's written, I'm not sure) rule goes it is really rude to quote a picture preventing the poster to delete it on a second thought (unless following the procedure Rainshine suggested above, which many may ignore)

I wonder if there is some kind of BB code that prevents the quoting of pictures.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

I wonder if there is some kind of BB code that prevents the quoting of pictures.

I've seen posts on the GB of pics that can't be quoted. In other words when I quote the post, the image doesn't show up in my quote. Only he words if there are any. I don't know how they do that.

 

[Aquagal]

I've seen posts on the GB of pics that can't be quoted. In other words when I quote the post, the image doesn't show up in my quote. Only he words if there are any. I don't know how they do that.

It's attachments.

 

[viskalvaere]

I've seen posts on the GB of pics that can't be quoted. In other words when I quote the post, the image doesn't show up in my quote. Only he words if there are any. I don't know how they do that.

It's attachments.

Maybe if someone isn't really sure about posting, an attachment would be better? Or is it easier to download and keep an attachment?

 

[Aquagal]

Maybe if someone isn't really sure about posting, an attachment would be better? Or is it easier to download and keep an attachment?

Attachments are easier to post...if the size is correct. If not, it has to be resized or a host site does it.

 

[Lord Pmann]

My pet peeves are these things three:

1. Dirty rooms. If you're going to post pics of yourself showing how hot you are, then throw away the cans of soda and trash. I realize it's your pic thread and maybe there is an appeal to living in squalor and taking pics of it. I don't know.

2. I mostly lurk in the How To forum. It's annoying how people post threads asking advice, basically wanting us to reassure them of something. They aren't asking advice, they are asking for someone to blow smoke up their arse.

3. Run-on sentences. Many of us use tablets or phones and not proper computers. So I totally get how spelling mistakes are made and punctuation is not perfect. I think most can read between the lines. But there are some who just ignore ALL punctuation or capital letters. That's annoying.

Bonus- A grammar lesson:

Here is why capital letters are so important.

Sentence 1: I helped Jack off the horse.

Sentence 2: i helped jack off the horse

 

[NoMoreNoMore]

Just a few pet peeves

Lot's of good stuff. Actually read through the whole thread. I have to agree with a lot of posters on most things. Here is my view and experience. Some may have all ready been mentioned so just consider it another vote.

1. Super long signatures with pics and all. Like someone mentioned, sometimes you end up with only five or six items to a page because of the length of some sigs, which leads to part 2 on sigs.

2. Can the political snarkiness pics. If I want to look at political memes, I will go to Facebook. I come here to exchange ideas, rant, and talk about sex, not politics. There was one guys sig that was so overloaded with these pics, I had to block his posts. Sad because his posts were mostly worth looking at.

3. Jumping into a thread that you have no interest in, just to jump down the throats of others for their fetish. Okay, so you aren't into it, then why even go into the thread?

4. Jumping on bisexuals and trying to force your belief and labels on them. In one thread, a poster actually jumped on the guys posting and told them that they were really gay and just not accepting it. Believe it or not, science tells us that sexual preference isn't black or white, it is shades of gray. So a person CAN be attracted to both men and women, or to women mostly but crave a cock. Why do we have to force labels on people. Live and let live!

5. Bumping a long dead thread, just to get more comments. It died, start another. I hate when you have subscribed to a thread and it dies and then you see it in your CP and click on it to see what is new only to see just a bump.

6. Bumping your own thread. I have seen threads started and see six or more messages and clicked to see what was going on, only to find out it was some guy saying look at me, bump, bump, hey any one out there want to look at me, bump bump. No one responds, move on.

Well, that's my 2 centavos. Phew, it felt so good to get that off my chest. JK, I just take things in stride.

 

[NoMoreNoMore]

My pet peeve are these things three:

1. Dirty rooms. If you're going to post pics of yourself showing how hot you are, then throw away the cans of soda and trash. I realize it's your pic thread and maybe there is an appeal to living in squalor and taking pics of it. I don't know.

2. I mostly lurk in the How To forum. It's annoying how people post threads asking advice, basically wanting us to reassure them of something. They aren't asking advice, they are asking for someone to blow smoke up their arse.

3. Run-on sentences. Many of us use tablets or phones and not proper computers. So I totally get how spelling mistakes are made and punctuation is not perfect. I think most can read between the lines. But there are some who just ignore ALL punctuation or capital letters. That's annoying.

Bonus- A grammar lesson:

Here is why capital letters are so important.

Sentence 1: I helped Jack off the horse.

Sentence 2: i helped jack off the horse

Was the horse happy? Then all is well.

 

[ChainedUp]

This is right up there with the unsolicited PM.....

In principle I see your point but I think 99% of all initial PMs are unsolicited. I've never seen someone post and say "Hey, XXXXXX, please PM me." I get that it's helpful to have chatted in the threads with someone before PMing but I can honestly say that I have sent unsolicited PMs that have resulted in torrid affairs and great friendships.

 

[jaded_lily]

In principle I see your point but I think 99% of all initial PMs are unsolicited. I've never seen someone post and say "Hey, XXXXXX, please PM me." I get that it's helpful to have chatted in the threads with someone before PMing but I can honestly say that I have sent unsolicited PMs that have resulted in torrid affairs and great friendships.

Point taken...

and you are right.....there are a few exceptions. Just irks me when the very first thing I read in a pm is "Hey, baby" or Wanna do ?????" Bugs the shit outta me

 

[OxfordDon]

In principle I see your point but I think 99% of all initial PMs are unsolicited. I've never seen someone post and say "Hey, XXXXXX, please PM me." I get that it's helpful to have chatted in the threads with someone before PMing but I can honestly say that I have sent unsolicited PMs that have resulted in torrid affairs and great friendships.

I agree....but i will often say - "no need to reply" - which gives the lady a get-out i guess. All that annoys me is PMing someone I've chatted to before and just being ignored...or dropped half way through a convo with no explanation. i know we get called away or internet connection drops...but a quick "sorry about that"`later would be good...

 

[Thandi]

In principle I see your point but I think 99% of all initial PMs are unsolicited. I've never seen someone post and say "Hey, XXXXXX, please PM me." I get that it's helpful to have chatted in the threads with someone before PMing but I can honestly say that I have sent unsolicited PMs that have resulted in torrid affairs and great friendships.

It's very true....if you wait for an invitation, you'll never end up getting to know someone.

 

[jaded_lily]

I agree....but i will often say - "no need to reply" - which gives the lady a get-out i guess. All that annoys me is PMing someone I've chatted to before and just being ignored...or dropped half way through a convo with no explanation. i know we get called away or internet connection drops...but a quick "sorry about that"`later would be good...

Sorry about that, I know I've done that....



Guess the PM is just a "me" thing

 

[*Twisted*]

Great thread!

 

[AlysaNewport]

I agree....but i will often say - "no need to reply" - which gives the lady a get-out i guess. All that annoys me is PMing someone I've chatted to before and just being ignored...or dropped half way through a convo with no explanation. i know we get called away or internet connection drops...but a quick "sorry about that"`later would be good...

This is all good, but what upsets me is half the time after you answer the common questions of how are you or what are you doing, it goes to I think your av is sexy and would like to see what is under those clothes or something that goes to sex! What happen to the common dialog of just chatting. Yes it is a sex site but does that automatically give the okay to sex talk me when I don't initiate it? So I just don't respond..

 

[Lord Pmann]

I enjoy these kinds of threads. It's interesting to me to see what gets our collective goats. I think most of these things are behaviours that annoy me shitless in the real world too.

Was the horse happy? Then all is well.

I actually helped Jack jack off a horse. (No, I didn't stutter)

 

[OxfordDon]

This is all good, but what upsets me is half the time after you answer the common questions of how are you or what are you doing it goes to I think your av is sexy and would like to see what is under those clothes or something that does to sex! What happen to the common dialog of just chatting. Yes it is a sex site but does that automatically give the okay to sex talk me when I don't initiate it? So I just don't respond..

I guess we need a "thanks but no thanks" smilie!!

 

[vibes]

I actually helped Jack jack off a horse. (No, I didn't stutter)

As if stuttering would be the problem here!

 

[Jaime_H]

Interesting thread - raises some interesting points on how we communicate..