Lindi’s Lovely Little Lit Location

[deft]

Quite possibly.

I'd also say that rather than lit or any other site be the driver, it's the people I've interacted with who have opened doors / my eyes.

…and your legs, you insatiable scoundrel!

 

[Saltfountain]

…and your legs, you insatiable scoundrel!

I think you're mistaking me for a laydee

 

[deft]

I think you're mistaking me for a laydee

That explains the chafing...

 

[lindi_85]

Boys! Boys…Deft, just demonstrate with Salty what you mean and I’ll watch

 

[deft]

Boys! Boys…Deft, just demonstrate with Salty what you mean and I’ll watch

Perhaps you have something slippery to apply to help?

 

[Saltfountain]

Perhaps you have something slippery to apply to help?

It'll be less slippery than my escape...

I'm fairly sure @lindi_85 would be more up for your cock than me, and you'd prefer that too...

 

[Azuldrgon]

Boys! Boys…Deft, just demonstrate with Salty what you mean and I’ll watch

There you go causing trouble. lol
miss you.

 

[LupineOne]

I’m so pleased that you met Nebs and your people. You are good people Wolfie. One of the best. You are you and the world is a better place for it .

Thanks Nessie…you, too. You’re one of my people you know
My lil monster
I miss you when you’re not around, but I’m so damn glad you’re keeping busy and enjoying yourself

 

[lindi_85]

Thanks Nessie…you, too. You’re one of my people you know
My lil monster
I miss you when you’re not around, but I’m so damn glad you’re keeping busy and enjoying yourself

It’s been nice being back and being a bit more myself . Thank you Wolfie, I do

 

[kyblue12]

I’m just glad the pile of Kiwi treats brought you back here @lindi_85 …. The world is a little more grey when you’re not around.

You’re also one of those people here who’ve helped with growth and discovery for me. That’s Lit though. Come for one thing but meet amazing people and learn along the way…

 

[lindi_85]

I’m just glad the pile of Kiwi treats brought you back here @lindi_85 …. The world is a little more grey when you’re not around.

You’re also one of those people here who’ve helped with growth and discovery for me. That’s Lit though. Come for one thing but meet amazing people and learn along the way…

I’m glad that you’re enjoying your learning journey Blue2 (lol) and it’s keeping you happy and fulfilled . It’s amazing the things that seem to happen or the self discovery that occurs alongside lit.

 

[kyblue12]

Very very true. Not just self discovery, but even life shaping discoveries happen.

 

[LupineOne]

It’s been nice being back and being a bit more myself . Thank you Wolfie, I do

It’s nice seeing you here

 

[EvaLane]

So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

I love this question

Some of the biggest changes in my life happened while I was on my old account a decade ago. I lost weight, moved cities, got my GED, left a deadweight boyfriend, and finally started growing up (which duh, I was only 19).

Honestly, there wasn’t much of a “me” before Lit. It became a kind of home, which is sorta (?) sweet andddd slightly dangerous.

Strangely, being here at almost 30 feels riskier than when I was 19. I’m more aware now, less self absorbed (still self absorbed, just better at multitasking). I’d still be on that old account if I could, but I’m glad for the reset. That girl had no idea what she was doinggggg or how her presence affected others.

I really tried not to come back but I was starting to lose pieces of myself and Lit gave me space to explore them again. The honesty, the connections, the weird mix of intellect and chaos, it pulled me out of the numbness and reminded me who I am when I’m fully me or at least trying to be.

I wouldn’t be reading the books I’ve picked up lately, or learning about Beatles album covers, South Park trivia, or French Canadian literature. Lit doesn’t just entertain me, it rewires how I think, what I pay attention to, and how I connect with people.

Butttt Lit is also intense, especially if you’re not grounded, you can lose yourself in it. Anyone who’s been here long enough has seen the mess, it’s only a matter of time before it involves you.

So yes, Lit has changed me by shaking me awake and giving me mirrors I didn’t know I needed. I’m here because I want to keep changing, I need to. I hope that’s why most of us repeat offenders keep coming back (because we can’t even pretend it’s for the photos now )

 

[Awaywego]

I love this question

Some of the biggest changes in my life happened while I was on my old account a decade ago. I lost weight, moved cities, got my GED, left a deadweight boyfriend, and finally started growing up (which duh, I was only 19).

Honestly, there wasn’t much of a “me” before Lit. It became a kind of home, which is sorta (?) sweet andddd slightly dangerous.

Strangely, being here at almost 30 feels riskier than when I was 19. I’m more aware now, less self absorbed (still self absorbed, just better at multitasking). I’d still be on that old account if I could, but I’m glad for the reset. That girl had no idea what she was doinggggg or how her presence affected others.

I really tried not to come back but I was starting to lose pieces of myself and Lit gave me space to explore them again. The honesty, the connections, the weird mix of intellect and chaos, it pulled me out of the numbness and reminded me who I am when I’m fully me or at least trying to be.

I wouldn’t be reading the books I’ve picked up lately, or learning about Beatles album covers, South Park trivia, or French Canadian literature. Lit doesn’t just entertain me, it rewires how I think, what I pay attention to, and how I connect with people.

Butttt Lit is also intense, especially if you’re not grounded, you can lose yourself in it. Anyone who’s been here long enough has seen the mess, it’s only a matter of time before it involves you.

So yes, Lit has changed me by shaking me awake and giving me mirrors I didn’t know I needed. I’m here because I want to keep changing, I need to. I hope that’s why most of us repeat offenders keep coming back (because we can’t even pretend it’s for the photos now )

That is a super summary and perspective! For me being older and mostly grounded, Lit opens doors not tried in a while...back to poem writing, exploring art and photography @Saltfountain thank you, and being a little "risky". It just lets me relax and enjoy another part of the world. Even found a "friend" but they just vanished so that part too keeps me focused. I still "meet" new folks and learn new views, ways of thinking, and perspective.

 

[Saltfountain]

That girl had no idea what she was doinggggg or how her presence affected others.

I still have no idea what I'm doing, but I work on the basis of if I'm not involving anyone else in my shenanigans, and I'm not being a general cunt, then it's the other person's problem if my actions or posts affect others.

I try my best to be a nice person (with the proviso I have extraordinarily low tolerance of bullies and proper trolls). I don't always get it right, but I normally set out with good intentions.

I wouldn’t be reading the books I’ve picked up lately, or learning about Beatles album covers, South Park trivia, or French Canadian literature. Lit doesn’t just entertain me, it rewires how I think, what I pay attention to, and how I connect with people.

This is how lit is for me now. I meet more creatives (and more variety of creative) here than I have anywhere else. And it still feels like a fun diversion rather than a to do list

 

[Azuldrgon]

*pops in to leave @lindi_85 a hug*

 

[lindi_85]

I really tried not to come back but I was starting to lose pieces of myself and Lit gave me space to explore them again. The honesty, the connections, the weird mix of intellect and chaos, it pulled me out of the numbness and reminded me who I am when I’m fully me or at least trying to be

Oh my goodness yes. What a beautiful way to describe the lit experience.

Butttt Lit is also intense, especially if you’re not grounded, you can lose yourself in it. Anyone who’s been here long enough has seen the mess, it’s only a matter of time before it involves you.

Mhmm. I’ve found myself myself here yet equally not. Emotions I’ve never experienced elsewhere rear their heads and it’s difficult to navigate at times. Oh ‘the mess’. What an apt description.

That is a super summary and perspective! For me being older and mostly grounded, Lit opens doors not tried in a while...back to poem writing, exploring art and photography @Saltfountain thank you, and being a little "risky". It just lets me relax and enjoy another part of the world. Even found a "friend" but they just vanished so that part too keeps me focused. I still "meet" new folks and learn new views, ways of thinking, and perspective

I love this. I too am enjoying being (or attempting to be) more creative and it’s so freeing isn’t it!
I’m sorry that your friend has disappeared, it happens, and I’m sure there are reasons. It still sucks though

I try my best to be a nice person (with the proviso I have extraordinarily low tolerance of bullies and proper trolls). I don't always get it right, but I normally set out with good intentions.

This is how lit is for me now. I meet more creatives (and more variety of creative) here than I have anywhere else. And it still feels like a fun diversion rather than a to do list

You’re one of the best there is Salty. Don’t forget it . Your ability to troll the trolls is hilarious. I’ve loved your threads and really thankful that you created them.

*pops in to leave @lindi_85 a hug*

Thank you Blue

 

[Azuldrgon]

Thank you Blue

*melts*

 

[Awaywego]

I love this. I too am enjoying being (or attempting to be) more creative and it’s so freeing isn’t it!
I’m sorry that your friend has disappeared, it happens, and I’m sure there are reasons. It still sucks though

Thank Lindi!

 

[lindi_85]

A thread I had going for a while was ‘the fuck it list’. My gosh it was fun but it met its eventual demise due to a number of reasons. Anyway I digress. The premise was around my own Fuck It List (think bucket if you don’t quite get the idea), and asking questions around that.
Whats an item on your list that you haven’t done but would love to try given different circumstances? Why haven’t you tried it?

 

[Azuldrgon]

A thread I had going for a while was ‘the fuck it list’. My gosh it was fun but it met its eventual demise due to a number of reasons. Anyway I digress. The premise was around my own Fuck It List (think bucket if you don’t quite get the idea), and asking questions around that.
Whats an item on your list that you haven’t done but would love to try given different circumstances? Why haven’t you tried it?

My fuck-it list item is going out and getting fucked by someone new.
I haven't had a real in person partner besides my so for about two years.
And the so is going through menopause and has lost all interest.
What has stopped me is the usual reasons.
Opportunity, my appearance, my responsibilities and the fact I am too much of a nice guy in person almost like I am on here.

This was an excellent question @lindi_85 .

 

[Strixaluco]

And the so is going through menopause and has lost all interest.

I've already decided that if menopause does that to me, I will demand testosterone replacement - it is done sometimes these days. It only works for women who did have desires before menopause, not four those who didn't really.

I sure as hell won't be content just living without my libido!

 

[lindi_85]

What has stopped me is the usual reasons.

I totally understand that. The need to be wanted can be a powerful one. It’s also soul destroying because you’re in a state of limbo. Wanting more yet unable to do anything about it as it goes against your morals.

I sure as hell won't be content just living without my libido!

I know in the past that the lack of libido and sneaked up on me and I’ve not noticed

 

[Strixaluco]

I know in the past that the lack of libido and sneaked up on me and I’ve not noticed

I do and have noticed before. At least when having a good, sexually active relationship, which I do have. (Also would notice when single.)