Lindi’s Lovely Little Lit Location

[Shady_nz]

Why you so mad that I asked someone a question? What's got your panties twisted  today?

Honestly, no one was talking to you to begin with.

WT actual F?
What makes you think I'm mad at anything? Sheesh!
Someone needs a chill pill methinks?

 

[Azuldrgon]

Hey @lindi_85
Just wanted you to know you are missed.
Miss our convos about different stuff and hope you are taking care of yourself.
Just let your friends know.
Sending you some as usual.
Your friend,
Azul

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I heard from @lindi_85 the other day. She's ok. Just super busy. I'm sure when she gets a minute she will be back but please don't worry in the meantime.

It's so lovely that you're letting her know she's missed

 

[LupineOne]

I heard from @lindi_85 the other day. She's ok. Just super busy. I'm sure when she gets a minute she will be back but please don't worry in the meantime.

It's so lovely that you're letting her know she's missed

I’m glad you let us know

 

[kyblue12]

*pokes my head in to check for any @lindi_85 sightings…. Sadly walks away

 

[Azuldrgon]

*pops in to leave some for @lindi_85 *

 

[GloriousChaos]

Just stumbled across this thread. Seems like a fun group of people. I look forward to following.

 

[kyblue12]

*sneaks in and turns the light on….. in the center of the lights glare carefully leaves a pile of Kiwi treats to lure @lindi_85 back home

 

[Nightbird]

Greetings and Salutations everyone..

 

[azz_vt]

Hi Friends. I hope we’re all doing well.

 

[lindi_85]

So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

 

[LupineOne]

So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

The people here. I’ve been lucky. I jumped in here in a whim and found Nebs almost first thing, along with a group of good people.
They helped me learn that it’s okay to just be…me

 

[Azuldrgon]

So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

I have learn to take some risks from being on here.
I have also learned some of my boundaries and what my values are when dealing with people on an online space.
Sadly, I have also learned how to guard my heart because of the realities of being online as well.

 

[lindi_85]

The people here. I’ve been lucky. I jumped in here in a whim and found Nebs almost first thing, along with a group of good people.
They helped me learn that it’s okay to just be…me

I’m so pleased that you met Nebs and your people. You are good people Wolfie. One of the best. You are you and the world is a better place for it .

 

[lindi_85]

I have learn to take some risks from being on here.
I have also learned some of my boundaries and what my values are when dealing with people on an online space.
Sadly, I have also learned how to guard my heart because of the realities of being online as well.

I’m so pleased that you’re learned to take risks Blue. It’s a steep learning curve isn’t it! I’m sorry that you’ve had to learn to guard your heart but I’m glad that in guarding it you’re protecting yourself. That too, is a steep learning curve that I’d wager most of us navigate at some point.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

I think we learn and we grow because of and regardless of the people we meet here or IRL. Of course, I also think certain experiences compound the growth and/or force a change. The one constant in my life over the last 6 months was Lit - we sold our home, moved to a different state, and our kids are out of the house. But Lit has been Lit and that's been a constant - even if I'm no on here all as often as I was in the past.

 

[NC_Coastal]

I miss Nebs, but I love that I met her.

 

[lindi_85]

I think we learn and we grow because of and regardless of the people we meet here or IRL. Of course, I also think certain experiences compound the growth and/or force a change. The one constant in my life over the last 6 months was Lit - we sold our home, moved to a different state, and our kids are out of the house. But Lit has been Lit and that's been a constant - even if I'm no on here all as often as I was in the past.

That’s really interesting and I will admit at a time of massive changes in my life, lit was the only constant for me too. The people here are pretty amazing and for the most part, incredibly understanding (especially as I tend to struggle to DM but am ok on threads ).

 

[lindi_85]

I miss Nebs, but I love that I met her.

Nebs was/is an icon. I’m so glad that I had the opportunity to meet her and interact with her. Even if it was only for a short time.

 

[Saltfountain]

So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

Nice to see you back on your thread! You've been missed.

I guess the honest answer to your question is I don't know how. I know it must have, as we're all constantly growing and developing much like my waistline. But specifics of what lit has changed...

 

[Strixaluco]

How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.

I've learned that I am a little. And a sub.
And that lead to me finding a partner, who affected me so that I was able to realise that I'm most probably autistic as well... Even my psychologist noticed how I had become softer.

So, Lit triggered a major exploration to myself.

Lit is also a the first place where I've had actual online friends that I've never met in real life. Some others have come since, but even those ai found because of the exploration started by Lit.

 

[lindi_85]

Nice to see you back on your thread! You've been missed.

I guess the honest answer to your question is I don't know how. I know it must have, as we're all constantly growing and developing much like my waistline. But specifics of what lit has changed...

Thank you. Fair. Maybe you were further along in your journey before lit and maybe others see change more than yourself. I know that I don’t see it until it’s pointed out usually.

 

[lindi_85]

I've learned that I am a little. And a sub.
And that lead to me finding a partner, who affected me so that I was able to realise that I'm most probably autistic as well... Even my psychologist noticed how I had become softer.

So, Lit triggered a major exploration to myself.

Lit is also a the first place where I've had actual online friends that I've never met in real life. Some others have come since, but even those ai found because of the exploration started by Lit.

I love this for you Strix. And loved being even a teeny tiny part of your journey. I love the self discovery aspect of being here.

 

[Shady_nz]

Hey @lindi_85
Just wanted to say hi! Glad to see you back!

 

[lindi_85]

Hey @lindi_85
Just wanted to say hi! Glad to see you back!

Hey girl