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The people here. I’ve been lucky. I jumped in here in a whim and found Nebs almost first thing, along with a group of good people.So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.
So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.
I’m so pleased that you met Nebs and your people. You are good people Wolfie. One of the best. You are you and the world is a better place for itThe people here. I’ve been lucky. I jumped in here in a whim and found Nebs almost first thing, along with a group of good people.
They helped me learn that it’s okay to just be…me![]()
I’m so pleased that you’re learned to take risks Blue. It’s a steep learning curve isn’t it! I’m sorry that you’ve had to learn to guard your heart but I’m glad that in guarding it you’re protecting yourself. That too, is a steep learning curve that I’d wager most of us navigate at some point.
I have learn to take some risks from being on here.
I have also learned some of my boundaries and what my values are when dealing with people on an online space.
Sadly, I have also learned how to guard my heart because of the realities of being online as well.
I think we learn and we grow because of and regardless of the people we meet here or IRL. Of course, I also think certain experiences compound the growth and/or force a change. The one constant in my life over the last 6 months was Lit - we sold our home, moved to a different state, and our kids are out of the house. But Lit has been Lit and that's been a constant - even if I'm no on here all as often as I was in the past.So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.
That’s really interesting and I will admit at a time of massive changes in my life, lit was the only constant for me too. The people here are pretty amazing and for the most part, incredibly understanding (especially as I tend to struggle to DM but am ok on threadsI think we learn and we grow because of and regardless of the people we meet here or IRL. Of course, I also think certain experiences compound the growth and/or force a change. The one constant in my life over the last 6 months was Lit - we sold our home, moved to a different state, and our kids are out of the house. But Lit has been Lit and that's been a constant - even if I'm no on here all as often as I was in the past.
Nebs was/is an icon. I’m so glad that I had the opportunity to meet her and interact with her. Even if it was only for a short time.I miss Nebs, but I love that I met her.
Nice to see you back on your thread! You've been missed.So, I was thinking about it the other day and there are few times when I have grown as much as I have while being a member here. obviously it’s not a direct result of lit itself but the people I’ve met here (for better or worse).
How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.
I've learned that I am a little. And a sub.How has lit changed you?
I guess one of the reasons I ask is that I’m nosy, the other is because I’ve noticed it for myself.
Thank you. Fair. Maybe you were further along in your journey before lit and maybe others see change more than yourself. I know that I don’t see it until it’s pointed out usually.Nice to see you back on your thread! You've been missed.
I guess the honest answer to your question is I don't know how. I know it must have, as we're all constantly growing and developing much like my waistline. But specifics of what lit has changed...![]()
I love this for you Strix. And loved being even a teeny tiny part of your journey. I love the self discovery aspect of being here.I've learned that I am a little. And a sub.
And that lead to me finding a partner, who affected me so that I was able to realise that I'm most probably autistic as well... Even my psychologist noticed how I had become softer.
So, Lit triggered a major exploration to myself.
Lit is also a the first place where I've had actual online friends that I've never met in real life. Some others have come since, but even those ai found because of the exploration started by Lit.
Quite possibly.Thank you. Fair. Maybe you were further along in your journey before lit and maybe others see change more than yourself. I know that I don’t see it until it’s pointed out usually.