~~> Lit Lessons Learned <~~

[GiggLeGasm]

More than the drama.. or the nudity (which I somehow never get in my mailbox).. or the name calling..

I notice that there are people, total strangers, who are willing to say hello. beyond that, it's much like real life for me. sometimes we hit it off.. sometimes we don't. It's nice to have a place where I can be human without the risk of it impacting my real life.. or with the blessing of it impacting my real life.

Many of us have shared heartfelt things. I can't let those moments be overshadowed by a bunch of "he said she said" bullshit. I won't. The simple beauty of being allowed to be vulnerable and knowing that there will be at least one other person who might understand, is worth too much to me.

Sometimes you wanna go
where everybody knows your name
and they're always glad you came
you wanna be where you can see
our troubles are all the same
you wanna be where everybody knows your name

 

[Daddysbadgirl69]

More than the drama.. or the nudity (which I somehow never get in my mailbox).. or the name calling..

I notice that there are people, total strangers, who are willing to say hello. beyond that, it's much like real life for me. sometimes we hit it off.. sometimes we don't. It's nice to have a place where I can be human without the risk of it impacting my real life.. or with the blessing of it impacting my real life.

Many of us have shared heartfelt things. I can't let those moments be overshadowed by a bunch of "he said she said" bullshit. I won't. The simple beauty of being allowed to be vulnerable and knowing that there will be at least one other person who might understand, is worth too much to me.

Sometimes you wanna go
where everybody knows your name
and they're always glad you came
you wanna be where you can see
our troubles are all the same
you wanna be where everybody knows your name

 

[tolyk]

More than the drama.. or the nudity (which I somehow never get in my mailbox).. or the name calling..

I notice that there are people, total strangers, who are willing to say hello. beyond that, it's much like real life for me. sometimes we hit it off.. sometimes we don't. It's nice to have a place where I can be human without the risk of it impacting my real life.. or with the blessing of it impacting my real life.

Many of us have shared heartfelt things. I can't let those moments be overshadowed by a bunch of "he said she said" bullshit. I won't. The simple beauty of being allowed to be vulnerable and knowing that there will be at least one other person who might understand, is worth too much to me.

Sometimes you wanna go
where everybody knows your name
and they're always glad you came
you wanna be where you can see
our troubles are all the same
you wanna be where everybody knows your name

Lovely gigglegasm, just lovely

 

[mistheory]

Ive learned...

I've learned that it is okay to explore my own sexuality and feel no shame in it.

That even if I am a nice guy, so many douchebags on lit and in the real world have made many people extremely difficult to talk to.

That coming here and participating is about me, not about someone else.

 

[sereneone4u]

More than the drama.. or the nudity (which I somehow never get in my mailbox).. or the name calling..

I notice that there are people, total strangers, who are willing to say hello. beyond that, it's much like real life for me. sometimes we hit it off.. sometimes we don't. It's nice to have a place where I can be human without the risk of it impacting my real life.. or with the blessing of it impacting my real life.

Many of us have shared heartfelt things. I can't let those moments be overshadowed by a bunch of "he said she said" bullshit. I won't. The simple beauty of being allowed to be vulnerable and knowing that there will be at least one other person who might understand, is worth too much to me.

Sometimes you wanna go
where everybody knows your name
and they're always glad you came
you wanna be where you can see
our troubles are all the same
you wanna be where everybody knows your name

Good post, Giggle.

 

[cowslinger64]

I'm not one to normally do this.

But this was a REALLY fucked up thing to do, Slinger. Putting it in your words... no fuckin way am I not speaking my mind.

I want you to give me 'proof' that honey and munky are the same person. Because right now you're the one making ridiculous assertions. Unless you're going to produce proof, take your fucking post down. You have no problems posting on her thread, even though you have a feeling that she's going to post something really fucking stupid... again. That makes total sense, right?

Unless of course, you just didn't quote munky, and the second half of your post was intended for him, not honey. In which case you also need to fix that shit, because it looks really fucking bad.

Quit slinging mud. That's what the gb is for. Or soap operas. Or bad sitcoms. Clean this shit up.

Ever feel like you said something reeeeeeally stupid? I have NO idea where you came up with me trying to say honey and munky were the same person, but you have reached all new heights of dumb in this thread.

You should stick to barking out orders to those that listen to you. I am not one of them. I'm also pretty much positive I told you what I thought about your advice, the last time you gave it.


Thanks to those that stuck up for me. And I am sorry to honey for letting a couple of people that I always avoid, annoy me enough to have to say something.

 

[KalIsBack]

I'm not the one making ridiculous assertions.. and no fuckin way am I not speaking my mind.

I'm gonna put you back on ignore, I only took you off cause I had a feeling you'd said something really fucking stupid....again.

Feel free to post your "proof" and I'm sure someone will let me know it's posted..


until then, just go fuck yourself.

...

...

And I'm pretty sure the last time I gave you advice, you took your post down then, too, and replaced it with a very apt 'Well, I still think it.'

In case you may not have noticed... you replied to honey's post, not munky's. And in case you may not have actually read my post, I did note the possibility that you may have been talking to munky, and not honey.

 

[37_ttej]

+1 for Giggle's and Kal's comments. Well said.

 

[DesEsseintes]

Any chance we could take the third-rate drama elsewhere and continue with this delightful thread? There have been some wonderful posts.

 

[KalIsBack]

Any chance we could take the third-rate drama elsewhere and continue with this delightful thread? There have been some wonderful posts.

I do feel bad for that. Apologies. *tips hat*

 

[DesEsseintes]

I do feel bad for that. Apologies. *tips hat*

In case I wasn't clear, I certainly wasn't referring to you, my dear fellow.

 

[Twlightdreamer]

Back to the original thread topic...

Over my active time on Lit, I've learned much about myself and less of others.
-People can be kind without wanting anything
-Someone, somewhere has gone through the same thing as you- ask for help or advice and you'll find it
-As with life, you have to choose what you take from this place.
-Enjoy the good times- embrace the here and now, tomorrow will be gone.
- Don't let Lit affect your homelife.
-Appreciate what you have
-This is a sex site, in the end, we're all kinksters. Lol.

 

[mistheory]

Back to the original thread topic...

Over my active time on Lit, I've learned much about myself and less of others.
-People can be kind without wanting anything
-Someone, somewhere has gone through the same thing as you- ask for help or advice and you'll find it
-As with life, you have to choose what you take from this place.
-Enjoy the good times- embrace the here and now, tomorrow will be gone.
- Don't let Lit affect your homelife.
-Appreciate what you have
-This is a sex site, in the end, we're all kinksters. Lol.

Well said!

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

That Lit is a lot like life....

So many beautiful boobs and butts. And a few assholes. And even the arses are not that bad if you are into that sort of thing.

 

[37_ttej]

-This is a sex site, in the end, we're all kinksters. Lol.

WTF!? The link said 'Bulletin Board' and I assumed this was a community news service.
I guess that explains the nudie pics then.
You know, I was starting to have my doubts ...

PS: I've learned that I have a limit of about 2 serious posts before I have to take the piss outta something.

 

[Lilylovex64]

Met a "Woman" I really enjoyed chatting with... she was a guy. I talk to guys on here just am more interested in women, no need to lie.

Lesson learned.

 

[LusterMunky]

Any chance we could take the third-rate drama elsewhere

I'm offended. It was actually a second-rate drama. Anyhoo . . . http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=63767811#post63767811

 

[KalIsBack]

You can look back over your posts from an hour ago... a week ago, a month ago, a year ago, from 5 years ago, from 10 years ago, and see how you've changed. The relationships you've made and broken. It's interesting to me, at least.

People are never what they seem to be. You often learn far more from what people don't say than from what they do say. People's unintentional actions and reflexes give away more about themselves than any number of words they can ever say.

There's good and bad in everything. Learn to accept and cope with the bad, and to enjoy the good, and you'll come out alright.

Be realistic in your expectations. Just because you've got all the qualifications and all the right motives doesn't mean you're going to get what (who) you want. There's a reason patience and levelheadedness are virtues.

The unlooked for pleasures are always the best. Always. They don't happen often. Be sure not to ignore them when they do come around.

 

[Kat73]

What I have learned...

Lit is a great place to get lost. It has it's good days and it's bad days.

This is a Playground. Friends come and go, there are always games being played, there are bullys and wimps, feelings can be hurt over something simple, there is always the cool crowd and the dork crowd, someone is always going to be skipped and feel left out, there are friends to be found and fun to have and pretty soon the bell rings and we have to go back to life.

I have learned to guard my heart. I fell easily at first and got hurt pretty bad. Now I am a lot more aloof (especially with someone who is married and lying to their spouse about being here, if they don't know, it's the same as lying).

Always be honest, you never know who is fly by night and who will be around for a long time.

Don't expect those you are talking to to be exclusive if you aren't.

DON'T GET JEALOUS. It's just dumb.

99% of what is said, promised and hoped here is fantasy. We all have lives off Lit that make running off into the sunset impossible, as long as you take things with a grain of salt, you should survive...

I have learned I am way more open and experimental than my husband. He is not quite vanilla, but he is certainly not neopolitin.

Have fun. It is a playground and a sexual one at that!

 

[Aquagal]

1. Take your time and be yourself - don't come in here and be a know-it-all.
2. The Golden Rule Applies here too
3. Sometimes a break is necessary
4. You get out of it what you put into it. If you want a friend, be a friend. If you want PM's, you gotta send them too.
6. Aquagal also has a great butt

I've never seen Aqua's butt.

LOL must have been put up in between Munky's weekly visit.

 

[ydahecnot]

That Lit is a lot like life....

So many beautiful boobs and butts. And a few assholes. And even the arses are not that bad if you are into that sort of thing.

What I learned: the best profile spot on Lit shouldn't be wasted on some building lit like a Christmas tree

 

[Aquagal]

What I learned: the best profile spot on Lit shouldn't be wasted on some building lit like a Christmas tree

Ohhh...burn

 

[ydahecnot]

Ohhh...burn

Only because you have that spot blank. You are winning the av spot

 

[butterfly_flip]

Screw that being an adult thingy!!!! What about us that are just big kids?


I disagree with some of the stuff said.. I don't lie here, not looking to hook up and never came here with that in mind. I have met a litster or two but I wasn't looking fer lurve. I come here to flirt and act silly. I can't say there aren't some I wouldn't have boinked but circumstances and/or distance typically preclude that. I've never sent a cock pic to someone I didn't know here. I've never said anything that I wouldn't say to that persons face. I do agree that many are the opposite of that, and it annoys me to no end sometimes. I've made good friends almost instantly, sometimes you just click.

I'm often misunderstood, often misliked. I'm good with that too. I'm very picky about who I let get to know the rest of Slinger..

Often misliked?
Fuckers
They're missing out, whoever they are

What have I learned from Lit? Hmm, people can amaze you, both in a positive and negative sense. I've been proven wrong, and, in one case, am immensely happy to have been so. I am naturally a wall flower, I don't enjoy the company of others too much, but the friends I have made here are people I've come to care about, even though I may never end up meeting them.
It isn't a place to be taken too seriously, but occasionally you can make a connection with someone that takes you by surprise, even a cynic like me.

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

What I learned: the best profile spot on Lit shouldn't be wasted on some building lit like a Christmas tree

That ya just can't please everyone. Haterz gonna hate

Hugs, ya happy now ?