~~> Lit Lessons Learned <~~

1. Take your time and be yourself - don't come in here and be a know-it-all.
2. The Golden Rule Applies here too
3. Sometimes a break is necessary
4. You get out of it what you put into it. If you want a friend, be a friend. If you want PM's, you gotta send them too.
6. Aquagal also has a great butt
 
I've only been here two weeks so not sure I am qualified to provide meaningful lessons learned, but here are a few surprises that I have encountered.

1. My PM inbox fills quickly
2. It fills even faster when I post something suggestive or sexual.
3. At least two-thirds of the PMs are from creeps who only want to chat or see a picture of some part of my body.
4. This place is extremely addictive.
5. Cyber-play can be fun with the right person but it requires some dedicated time alone - not always easy.
 
Fuck...

Another one.

Posting of boobs is always the correct answer. Diversion from the real topic to the topic of boobies is encouraged.
 
I'm prolly just Munky Dumb, but I still don't understand your statement. You never "one time said to another woman that one previously written was for them."

WTF is that?? Explain pls.

Simple.

He's never told a woman that a story he wrote for someone else was written for them.

I've read some of his stories... He did not tell m he wrote for me.
 
That I rather like being plagiarized.

That I dislike far fewer people on Lit than in the real world, because most people here are gorgeous and lovely in every way.

That sometimes people, especially men, like to universalize bad behaviour in a way that makes their own failings seem less noteworthy; and that such an approach is disingenuous.
 
I'm not the one making ridiculous assertions.. and no fuckin way am I not speaking my mind.

I'm gonna put you back on ignore, I only took you off cause I had a feeling you'd said something really fucking stupid....again.

Feel free to post your "proof" and I'm sure someone will let me know it's posted..


until then, just go fuck yourself.


I'm not one to normally do this.

But this was a REALLY fucked up thing to do, Slinger. Putting it in your words... no fuckin way am I not speaking my mind.

I want you to give me 'proof' that honey and munky are the same person. Because right now you're the one making ridiculous assertions. Unless you're going to produce proof, take your fucking post down. You have no problems posting on her thread, even though you have a feeling that she's going to post something really fucking stupid... again. That makes total sense, right?

Unless of course, you just didn't quote munky, and the second half of your post was intended for him, not honey. In which case you also need to fix that shit, because it looks really fucking bad.

Quit slinging mud. That's what the gb is for. Or soap operas. Or bad sitcoms. Clean this shit up.
 
I've learnt that the friends I have made here are important to me. But I've also learned that some people are not what they portray publicly and I have learned that the hard way.

I've learnt that although I'm young, my morals and views are somewhat old fashioned. I've also learned that this can be difficult to handle as I can't hide my emotions.

I've learnt a lot about myself on many levels. I've learnt that I love to express myself by posting images in the Yard and have surprised myself at how my likes and dislikes have evolved and changed.

I've learnt that you can form a beautiful special friendship ♡

Lit needs a set of like and dislike buttons or in this ladies case a ❤️ Button (haha...love button)

Well said gorgeous girl
 
That sometimes people, especially men, like to universalize bad behaviour in a way that makes their own failings seem less noteworthy; and that such an approach is disingenuous.

Strangely enough, coming to Lit (and leaving and coming back) has done quite a bit help me embrace my own shortcomings. Here, in a fantasy land, where our realities are created literally by keystrokes, where the only truths we have are the ones presented to us, and the ones we choose to present, it takes some thought, some internal reflection on how we want to present ourselves to the world at large.

What will we choose to magnify, what will we choose to minimise? What will we share, what will we withhold? It makes a man take stock of himself, something I hadn't expected from a place like this.
 
Strangely enough, coming to Lit (and leaving and coming back) has done quite a bit help me embrace my own shortcomings. Here, in a fantasy land, where our realities are created literally by keystrokes, where the only truths we have are the ones presented to us, and the ones we choose to present, it takes some thought, some internal reflection on how we want to present ourselves to the world at large.

What will we choose to magnify, what will we choose to minimise? What will we share, what will we withhold? It makes a man take stock of himself, something I hadn't expected from a place like this.

There should be a like button for comments like this...
 
What have I learned?

Lit is what YOU make of it.

YOU control your expectations: the fantasy or reality you find is up to you; there's plenty of both to go around.

No matter what, the real you will come out to others over time, both the good and the bad.

You will be treated the way you treat others. Karma catches up to everyone eventually.

There are some great people here. True friendships are possible, and real.


exactly!
 
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