Lessons Learned on LIT!

[SeymourBush]

I have been getting schooled so much lately.

I’m learning to be more discerning about who I play with. I hate hurting others and am tired of getting hurt. Going forward I’m going to be a lot more careful about how I approach things.

Damn, missed my shot with you

Just kidding . . . however I see that you are exactly one month in. I'd actually call you a quick learner.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

It's easy to be alone even in the midst of excitement.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I have learned how many men do not seem to understand that women want to be treated like people, with respect and understanding.
Also how easy it is to be misunderstood

 

[SeymourBush]

I have learned how many men do not seem to understand that women want to be treated like people, with respect and understanding.
Also how easy it is to be misunderstood

I just noticed your Black Peter sig line. Nice!

 

[dancingbare247]

I learned that most men here do not know the difference between stalking and flirting

--playing word games together= flirting
--Immediately posting over everything someone does here= stalking

 

[Btq97]

That very occasionally you meet some one fun who gets you.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

People don't reply at 4am in the morning. Quit hitting refresh every 5 minutes, Grant!

 

[Krigirl1233]

Not to be over anxious. It probably isn’t going to work out

 

[PrissOff]

A decade of destruction is real, bitches

 

[Mrtenant]

'Here today', 'gone tomorrow', and 'oh, were you gone' are regular themes

 

[JessGabriel]

TIL that when people say they want friendship with the sexy, they might not actually want that.

 

[Wildfly11]

I learned my fantasies are tame compared to some on here. Hmmm is that a good thing ???

Yes and a few have lead me a little further over to the perverted side by awakening unknown kinks!

 

[Sexy_Singer]

I"ve learned that I like BDSM, as a D/DD, more than I thought I ever would.

 

[yvcam]

You can find nice people and make real friends in the most unexpected places.

 

[Neanderthal247]

I have learned how many men do not seem to understand that women want to be treated like people, with respect and understanding.
Also how easy it is to be misunderstood

They do, first time I ever heard of this strange idea lol

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

You can't take things too seriously in here. Most people arent here for more than just a good time.

 

[Rising_Star07]

You can't take things too seriously in here. Most people arent here for more than just a good time.

yes, most people are here for short period of time and they aren't here in this site after a while..

 

[B_mossy24]

You can't take things too seriously in here. Most people arent here for more than just a good time.

Yesss I absolutely agree.

My lesson from my short 2.5 months on threads:

-be careful of who's sliding into your DM- if you get weird vibes, trust that.
-AND, I've loved the people I've connected with on here! it's easy to ignore the creeps and enjoy the really wonderful humans that are on here, there are so many sweet and kind people here. I'm a little surprised at the great sense of community and am curious about how that'll evolve over time on a personal level

 

[Norfolkguy49]

I’ve learned how much being ghosted hurts.
Be careful who you trust
You never know who you might connect with, so be open to conversation.
There’s a huge difference between a wannabe dominant and a real Dom.

We all been there x

 

[Shady_nz]

I've learned one has to ( virtually ) kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince...

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I've learned one has to ( virtually ) kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince...

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