Lessons Learned on LIT!

[Dribble]

Thirsty....interesting word. Vampires exist. They take and take without giving. Their goal is to weaken you...so they can be more manipulative. They thirst.

But from a vampire's view...can one really blame them for seeking what they need to survive? I don't mind giving if I get something in return. It is the one-sidedness that I find problematic

 

[Sundayschild]

I knew men were thirsty before Lit, but back when I was posting boob pics I learned I had NO idea the depth of the thirst or how pushy/rude they could be in PMs.

Yeah - sorry about that. I'd had a few and was feeling the heat

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Yeah - sorry about that. I'd had a few and was feeling the heat

We didn't know each other existed back then!

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Thirsty....interesting word. Vampires exist. They take and take without giving. Their goal is to weaken you...so they can be more manipulative. They thirst.

But from a vampire's view...can one really blame them for seeking what they need to survive? I don't mind giving if I get something in return. It is the one-sidedness that I find problematic

Deep thoughts Dribs! You had me at vampire. "Get over here you blood sucking sex machine!"

 

[Btq97]

Timezones are a bastard

 

[dancingbare247]

Beware of the stalkers.

 

[Anastasia1999]

Beware of the stalkers.

And zero posts people

 

[Vitriolhack]

I have leaned that people are less guarded and more open when chatting to a stranger on the other side of a keyboard than someone they know in real life.

 

[badjanus]

What are your areas of interest?

The usual

 

[Wildfly11]

What are your areas of interest?

Well I am open to most things and can take a trip down many lanes of excitement but I guess that I realized that I don't have one area of interest that is a focus of all my sexual desires but rather like variety to stimulate my mind. I also like things to be reality based as when things get to mystical I lose interest.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Based on past posts, I apparently have a face made for radio...

Something tells me you’re a funny guy!

 

[Vitriolhack]

What is something you have learned from your time on LIT, whether simple or profound?

Be careful who you open yourself up to, not all people truly have your best interests at heart; you can either let it hurt you, ruin your fun, or you can grow from it. I choose to learn and move forward.....I would say, some may treat you badly on here, but you can move on and make friends!!!

Great subject to explore.

For me, it’s that, it’s ok to be different and a lot of others have the same differences. So, in the end, it’s all good!

I wish we lived In a world that judged people less harshly for their divergent neurons, but, at least, we have literotica!

 

[BunnyBlue_]

I’ve learned how much being ghosted hurts.
Be careful who you trust
You never know who you might connect with, so be open to conversation.
There’s a huge difference between a wannabe dominant and a real Dom.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I’ve learned how much being ghosted hurts.
Be careful who you trust
You never know who you might connect with, so be open to conversation.
There’s a huge difference between a wannabe dominant and a real Dom.

Being ghosted and not knowing why... sucks.

 

[sinfulchaoticdesires]

Things I have learned so far...
-Even here there are stalkers..
-Not everyone is your friends. Including yourself.
-Going with the flow will never be in your interest
-If you declare you aren't interesting or nice or sweet or sexy; because of your own thought process... Someone will always prove you wrong
-Be careful on whom you choose as your friends. They just as easily can stab you on the back.. sides.. and in the front
-You do not anyone's approval. You are validated and loved and accepted (If you are not. Leave that group of friends because they may be more likely toxic)
-Food Porn is always an accepted topic
-People stop coming off as creepy or power hungry...
-Nor "Alpha, Beta, Omega and/or other references along those lines.. Please. Its not sexy or attractive.
-Literotica is not a Therapy Session. If you need Therapy. Definitely go seek professional help
-Not everyone will like you. It isn't your problem to solve. Just walk away from that
-Cookies are delicious. (Come by and I'd be happy to offer one)
-AND MOST IMPORTANT: BE YOURSELF
Even if you are a dork or a nerd or a geek or so on. Trust me. (I love to knit and stay at home with a good book or 50 when I don't have to go into work) People will like you if you are honest bout yourself to them and yourself


** I'll add more as time goes on. But this is a few things I learned as a chatter on the 24/7 live chat rooms

 

[Orchidea73]

I also learned I'm too emotionally lazy to keep up with my own thirst.

This is what I love about you. lol

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

This is what I love about you. lol

Awww thanks! And these days I only thirst for coffee.

 

[Orchidea73]

Awww thanks! And these days I only thirst for coffee.

Rocks solid, sista. Never disappoints you. It is as good as you can imagine.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Rocks solid, sista. Never disappoints you. It is as good as you can imagine.

Are you staying up all night?!?!? You're going to need a coffee IV!

 

[Orchidea73]

Are you staying up all night?!?!? You're going to need a coffee IV!

I just finished one. lol
But no, I am not. Pretty boring tonight, so I'm going to hug my kindle and pillow shortly.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I just finished one. lol
But no, I am not. Pretty boring tonight, so I'm going to hug my kindle and pillow shortly.

Sweet dreams!

 

[Orchidea73]

Sweet dreams!

Thank you. You too and have a great Sunday.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Thank you. You too and have a great Sunday.

You too!

 

[Ingenue844]

I have been getting schooled so much lately.

I’m learning to be more discerning about who I play with. I hate hurting others and am tired of getting hurt. Going forward I’m going to be a lot more careful about how I approach things.

 

[Caseygrl24]

I learned my fantasies are tame compared to some on here. Hmmm is that a good thing ???