Ladies-What happened to you when you reached 40?

[steelvelvet200]

I'm dying to know...I have a vested interest in your answers!!!

 

[perks]

I'll let you know in 10 years.

 

[steelvelvet200]

Studies show that a woman's prowess and experience becomes much heightened at or around that time period.....and a guys ironically goes lower....

I just wanted to hear from some of the ladies out there....or from their men (LOL)

 

[ksmybuttons]

At 40 I made and almost died having my only child...

Hmmm, now, from 42 on I have been HOTTER than at any other time in my life. I find I am less worried about all those things a person worries about. Damn, if I could still lock my ankles behind my head, I would have it all...

 

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[steelvelvet200]

Congrats to YOU, Buttons

so it took about two years post partum...

what changed exactly....your thoughts, hangups, liberation?

or just libido?

Just think if you had that child at age 20? WHEW!!!

 

[ksmybuttons]

Re: Congrats to YOU, Buttons

so it took about two years post partum...

what changed exactly....your thoughts, hangups, liberation?

or just libido?

Just think if you had that child at age 20? WHEW!!!

I had him just before my 41st birthday. He was 2 months early and I had spent 6 weeks on my left side trying to keep my incubator better than theirs. So only about a year post partum but there were other life things going on. It took me about a year to feel really good.

My husband had a vasectomy that year. That made everything much easier. I am just much more experimental now. My libido has been much higher since my mid thirties, but no need for birth control really, really helps. I also think being really comfortable in a relationship helps. We are not afraid to do anything in front of each other and no longer worry about any type of embarassment. He is my best friend.

I would never have had a child at 20. I was too busy playing and going to college. That was 1974. I need say no more.

Having a child when you are older also keeps you exercised. I have to keep up! Much better stamina even then in my 30's.

 

[steelvelvet200]

Luscious!!!!!!!!!

its sooo good to see you in here....so if you are not near 40 yet...you have a lot to look forward to, I would think....

So, Lusc, does your libido increase in direct proportion to your age????

BIG GRIN!

 

[steelvelvet200]

thanks for the insight, Buttons....

I like your honesty...but seriously , how do you have time for sex with a two year old....you've GOT to be tired by 7pm....

 

[ksmybuttons]

He will be 7 this month. 42 was a while ago.

 

[steelvelvet200]

YOU GO, GIRL!!!!

yeppers!

 

[steelvelvet200]

what was it that contributed to your libido change???

Was your hubby happy about it:

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Rubyfruit]

Frankly, I'm not looking forward to it. August, 2003.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[steelvelvet200]

so bRAT?

has this wild streak been, like, increasing....? I don't think you have anything to fear.... my lady keeps getter better looking, and her stretch marks are almost gone!!!

 

[steelvelvet200]

Ruby, when you reach that date...

think of it, like you are aged to perfection....mmmmmmm

 

[*bratcat*]

Re: so bRAT?

 

[steelvelvet200]

LOL, BRAT

maybe one day your desire will be consistently MORE than his, huh? GRINNING

 

[Angelofsex]

What happens at 40 all hell breaks loose.........I wanted more sex then and still do..............sex,sex,sex, what a nice word...........I think I am horny now.........Goodnight.

 

[steelvelvet200]

Thanks, Angel....we kinda know how wild you can be!!!

I like older women...I know... I married one...

 

[Temptress_1960]

When I turned 40...

I got my nipples pierced....

I got my first tattoo...

I became way more free, more able to be myself... caring less about what others thought of me. I became more open to my fantasies, things I'd always wanted to try.

I guess I decided that life was too short to hide myself.

I am so much better at this age than I ever was 20 years ago, in all ways...

well, except gravity has started to affect me ROFLMAO

 

[steelvelvet200]

Enjoying...., I'm glad...

that you are now ENJOYING it...you need to , without sounding trite, SEIZE THE DAY, each day....

Hope you have someone special to share that NEW PASSION.

I'm almost 40, and my wife and I bought a book on TANTRIC sex, and boy....its good.

Any new "WILDNESS" in anyof you all out there? when you reach 35, 40, 45?

You young ones, specially ladies, have a lot to look forward tooo....

 

[SXCRgirl]

Hmmmm, I don't know. I'll let you know when I get there.

 

[Temptress_1960]

Re: Enjoying...., I'm glad...

that you are now ENJOYING it...you need to , without sounding trite, SEIZE THE DAY, each day....

Hope you have someone special to share that NEW PASSION.

Oh my, yes... it has re-energized my marriage, and I have also fallen in love with someone wonderful...

I'm having my cake and eating it too, and damn, it feels goooooooooooooooooood.