Ladies-What happened to you when you reached 40?

[ksmybuttons]

Re: what was it that contributed to your libido change???

Was your hubby happy about it:

TIme made the change. My man has no problems with it whatsoever. Enjoy is his motto!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

40s

My 40's have been the most exciting, productive, and liberating decade of my life!

Although I have made a lot of mistakes, taking full responsibility for them, and living life the way YOU want to, makes up for any hardships.

I'm a bit sad that my next birthday will bring me to a new decade of time. I'm not too bothered, but have to admit that turning 50 is something I had hoped to do AFTER I grew up!!

 

[missy2]

just another year closer to death.

 

[SexyChele]

I never experienced the depression that some women feel at turning 40 - maybe because I look 10-12 years younger than I am.

But so far, the 40s have been the best decade yet! I'm more comfortable with who I am - and I ain't perfect, believe me! Throughout my 20s and 30s I was more concerned with how others saw me, always living up to others perception of what was attractive, or "in", or "cool". Now, I set my own standards. I know what I like, I know what feels comfortable, and if somebody doesn't like.....tough.

If I start to develop a fantasy about something, I go after it. I'm not afraid to try new things, explore new avenues. And I know I can make it happen - not wait around for it to occur.

After these many years, I've discovered that if a man isn't happy with what I have, let him go. There'll be another along shortly to take his place.

I think it's a combination of these things that I'm finding myself with more male company than I can keep track of. And I've been shocked at the number of men in their 20s who are chasing after me. Who'd would of thought that? But that's good - I find men in their 50s difficult to keep up with me. Not all, but most. So I'm finding that I gravitate towards younger men - men still in their 30s.

The 40s are great! And if things get better with time, I'll be looking forward to my 50s!

 

[missy2]

Re: thanks for the insight, Buttons....

I like your honesty...but seriously , how do you have time for sex with a two year old....you've GOT to be tired by 7pm....

Would you care to rephrase this question?

 

[steelvelvet200]

OOPS, Missy, am I the only one to missed that?

You all have had GREAT thoughts, Ideas, and answers...

Missy, I will more appropriately rephrase the question(thanks for the nudge)

I had asked a 42 year old special lady how she found time for good lovin' with her hubby when she had 1 or more little ones (plus working) etc.

When I put my kids to bed at 8pm, I'm too pooped to pop, literally.!!!!!

 

[Guest]

I'm dying to know...I have a vested interest in your answers!!!

Well, I'll be 45 this year, and frankly, I don't feel any different than when I was in my 30's. Still have the same high libido I've always had. Perhaps a little wiser now.....

Moon

 

[steelvelvet200]

Congratulations, MOONWOLF

you are awesome!!!

I like being the "younger" guy to my sweet lass... like that country song said..."Older women make better lovers.....!"