Ladies have you ever had a lover that couldn't bring you to orgasm?

[HoldenMcCrank]

If so how long did you stay with him? Or were you able to "teach" him how to get you there?

If not how many chances did they get?

Holden

 

[Andreina]

*rephrasing question for my own purposes: HOW MANY lovers did you have that didnt bring you to an orgasm?*

 

[Guest]

It wasn't until I was 19 that I had an orgasm from the hand of another...and that lover was a woman. And, I didn't have an earth shattering orgasm until I met my first true Dom at 21.

As for your questions...the ones who did not get me off, yes I kept them. For how long? I don't remember.

 

[Merelan]

Most didn't, and didn't care to learn. So bye bye. Honestly. If they aren't willing to learn how to please me in bed, then doesn't that show their basic selfishness in other areas as well?
I thought it did, as was usually right.

 

[MidnightAngel]

As LDWH said....it's more like HOW MANY!

How long did I keep them? Depended on the person. Sorry, that's not how I judge a person. If I need an orgasm, I can get those by myself. If it's someone I loved/cared about and had fun with, then that wasn't a big issue with me.

 

[Guest]

How long did I keep them? Depended on the person. Sorry, that's not how I judge a person. If I need an orgasm, I can get those by myself. If it's someone I loved/cared about and had fun with, then that wasn't a big issue with me.

You read my mind and said what I forgot to say in my post.

 

[Wiggles]

I've only had one bf who couldn't get me off. But, he was a virgin so I think the fault lies with me. I think the main problem we had was lack of personal space (we both lived with our parents at 17 & 18) and the fact that his penis was too big for regular condoms.

He was still a really sweet, romantic, naive young man who honestly felt he fell in love with me. I knew the difference, but stayed with him none the less.

Someday I hope I'll get the chance to teach him some new things again, but hopefully not for a long while.

~Oh, and it was a six month relationship, long enough for me at the time. It had a little to do with the sex, but mostly with our lack of free time.

 

[Vivacia]

Got a better question girls... Have you ever had a lover that COULD get you to orgasm... <giggles>

I am one of the ones that can honestly say hell yes!

 

[SweetBrat73]

I've only had one lover that could bring me to orgasm, and that's the one I have now. He's so great!!! I'm more open about sex with him...more open about everything actually...and that's saying alot for me. He's the one person I feel I can talk to about almost everything Gotta love a man like that LoL and I do will keep this one forever and ever

Brat

 

[celiaKitten]

Yes - tried to teach him many many many times ... over a three year period ...

Judas can I be stupid sometimes...

 

[tigerjen]

it happened sometimes with my ex-boyfriend!
ARRRGGHHHHHHH

 

[alltherage]

I have usually orgasmed early in a relationship with someone new. I think it is the very newness which does it for me. Sustaining that has been difficult at times. If I am involved with a woman who is uninhibited orgasm is not a problem.

 

[Black_Bird]

I'm not a lady... but it happens to guys too...

She orgasmed... I didn't. I was the first one to bring her to orgasm - I didn't even cum! I was JIPPED!

 

[Beebeeblue]

Yes, Ive had lovers that couldnt get me off. Thats why they are not in my life anymore.


In answer to Vivacia's question, Yes I have had some that could get do the job. Married one of them, and hes still doing everything right!

 

[Wiggles]

Guys can have sex without cumming??

I thought they would die from that!!

 

[Black_Bird]

Guys can have sex without cumming??

I thought they would die from that!!

Uh oh... Did I let out another one of our secrets?

Um... WIGGELS!!! You're right! We *can* die if we don't cum! I almost DID! Had to be air lifted to a hospital - horrible stuff. Ten hour surgery! So, if you don't want to be charged with man-slaughter, make sure he at leasts cums!!!

Long Live the Brotherhood!

 

[lovetoread]

Uh oh... Did I let out another one of our secrets?

Um... WIGGELS!!! You're right! We *can* die if we don't cum! I almost DID! Had to be air lifted to a hospital - horrible stuff. Ten hour surgery! So, if you don't want to be charged with man-slaughter, make sure he at leasts cums!!!

Long Live the Brotherhood!

Oh gawd....

When I was 17 I fell for that story. Pitiful me...

No I have not had a lover that didnt get me to orgasm.

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

We were in highschool, he was the one that all the girls wanted to be with. So I figured he had to be good! I dont know what it was but he could not make me cum, needless to say that relationship lasted a short 3 weeks!
and when he asked me to take him back
"UH NO I dont think so"

He was the only one that hasnt been able to bring me to orgasm, I usually have no problem, except with him!

 

[Georgia Girl]

Yes and idiot that I am I stayed married to him for 10 yrs. I got really talented at taking care of myself though.

Dawn

 

[WriterDom]

Female orgasm is a myth. I've been with lots of women and none ever came.

 

[SexyChele]

I'm wondering if you mean with or without toys being involved?

Oh, well, if you are talking without toys, then only one lover has ever been able to bring me to orgasm - and he was my first Dom. The rest have either not cared, been inept, or just figured female orgasms "happened". Did I stay with them? Some, yes. It's about the person, not about the orgasm. If it were just about orgasms, that I can do on my own. Having a person who you love and loves you is more important.

 

[SA Storm]

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[Guest]

Ummmmmmm...

Female orgasm is a myth. I've been with lots of women and none ever came.

I wouldn't say that out loud, if I were you.

 

[Cherry]

^ me up there

Surely, you jest!

 

[roxie]

Yes - tried to teach him many many many times ... over a three year period ...

Judas can I be stupid sometimes...

Don't feel too bad, altho I have never based my relationships on who can make me orgasm I've only found one person to bring me to orgasm and that was a woman in my first bi encounter (FABULOUS) but I married the man who at least is still willing to learn. I think that's part of the reason why I've kept him around so long. Of course now if I could only get his drive up a bit (ALOT), all would be well.