Have you had one lover that...

[Hipshot1554]

Had one lover that, forever, changed your perception of sex? I realize that this could go both ways, for the better, or worse but I'm hoping for positives.

For me, it was an older woman. She showed me how to enjoy sex in ways I'd never dreamed of. I still think of her often.

 

[Wriggle]

Do you know what?

Now I come to think about it, I'm a daft twat.
I once had a lit lover that made me less sexual

I changed my taste in women from all the colours of the bow to what she liked. She didn't like her neck kissed (wtf?) & reckoned she'd take a cock in her arse and liked being rimmed, but not fingered up there.

Let this be a lesson unto others.

 

[13Fantasies]

Not really

 

[Britva415]

I've been that lover.

Not to everyone, of course, but to two or three of my past partners.

 

[lowcollar]

I've had a few. One who we would edge for an hour and a half during intercourse with our fingers in each other's ass. Another was the first woman who spanked me. The third is my present where we go from vanilla to all the other colors.

 

[13Fantasies]

Had one lover that, forever, changed your perception of sex? I realize that this could go both ways, for the better, or worse but I'm hoping for positives.

For me, it was an older woman. She showed me how to enjoy sex in ways I'd never dreamed of. I still think of her often.

I'd like to think I've been that person, but I doubt it

 

[Saint_Ann]

I've been having sex with the same person since 1982.

 

[Sgts19]

One of my girlfriends from college was a hell of a teacher. I'd had plenty of sex before i met her, but she knew her way around a cock that's for sure. She told me a older man had taught her but wouldn't say who it was. No one I would have known she was from NY. I often wonder what happened to her

 

[Sgts19]

I've been having sex with the same person since 1982.

I beat you 1977, been there done that who knows how many times

 

[crashD]

1970.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I'd like to think I've been that person, but I doubt it

If you were patient and giving, maybe you have been.

 

[13Fantasies]

If you were patient and giving, maybe you have been.

Someone might say so if posed with the question and I'd like to think I have, but since I've never been on the receiving end, I'm doubting I've provided it either

 

[Saint_Ann]

I guess I shouldn't feel so bad but they say sex is like pizza...

 

[Wonderer67]

When I got out of the army and started college, I met a pretty punk rock woman. She was a bit older than other college students, like me - mid 20s. I was into punk rock too.

But she taught me about BDSM I think it was still called s&m then. this was in the early to mid 90s.

Anyway, she taught me and taught me well. I thought that stuff was for freaks. Then I realized that i was the freak.

She was a great domme!!

 

[LLCox]

I have two that ruined me for all other women. One young and one fifteen years older than me. One was half French and the other was half Cherokee. I know there are women that remember me fondly.

 

[bookworm69]

Had one lover that, forever, changed your perception of sex? I realize that this could go both ways, for the better, or worse but I'm hoping for positives.

For me, it was an older woman. She showed me how to enjoy sex in ways I'd never dreamed of. I still think of her often.

Yep, me too. A couple of older ladies and an interracial relationship.

 

[Thepachu]

Positive older gals

 

[ImpishSeraph]

Positive older gals

How old are you?

 

[Lucien_Al]

Had a lover who was 25 years younger than me who loved sex more than me and nothing was off the table. She taught me so much more to try and to just sit back and try everything once.