Just need some general advice.

[Yeaho]

Hey everyone. I am 18 years old and male. Illinois. I would just like to tell you all about what i do and you might be able to see a problem. For starters i am very bicurious and i have jerked off and came into my own face before and enjoyed it very much. It was very exciting and the taste was amazing. I have practiced giving head to frozen hot dogs for quite some time and have even played with them in my ass before. My problem is i am wanting to experience what it is like to be with a male. Age doesnt matter a whole lot. But there are 0 gay or bi guys around me especially at my age. I have even thought about buying a dildo to have a more full experience. Any help or suggestions are very welcome and i thank you all.

 

[emap]

Be patient. Most areas gay and bi men don't really talk about it because well they are likely to get the poo beat out of them. Second, yes do buy a dildo, much better for your health. Third, maybe try doing a personals ad, the free ones even would work since your not looking for a woman.

 

[Yeaho]

Thanks

Thanks. That makes sense. I also want to say that maybe im not settled on it and i might flip flop from day to day so i just dont want to make any mistakes or anything. any other help is well appreciated.

 

[neonflux]

Hi Yeaho,

A dildo might work for fantasy, but not so much for feeling isolated. As you are just starting out on this journey, and don't have any rl experience in the community, I might also slow down a little on the personnels thing.

Have you tried to contact any online support groups or resources for people who are closer to your age? A good starting point, to me, because they include national and non-bay area links in their resource section is LYRIC , Lavender Youth Recreation and Information Center.

Good luck in your journey.

Neon

 

[Yeaho]

Wierd

I just really don't know what to do about it because like the feelings grow stronger or just more powerful everytime and it's just wierd i guess.

 

[apexpark]

I even know gay men in Illinois and I live in NYC. just go to a gay bar and talk to some people (don't just go home with anyone though. you could get hurt) and see what the culture is like.
google "gay culture in Illinois." or see if theres a specific magazine on the subject.