Interracial Bisexual Women

[bibethhotwet]

I have experienced many sexual encounters with other women both alone and with my husband present. One fantasy I have not fulfilled yet is having sex with a woman of color. The thought of going down on a black or hispanic female absolutely drives me wild. I would love to hear from other women who have done this or are curious.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Oh, please.

You're in the southeast, living around so many Hispanics and blacks-- How about you approach a woman of color as if she were a fellow human being? I bet, if you share a cup of coffee with someone, and find some common interests, you can post back here with your own stories.

 

[TTitan79]

Negative Nancy

Why are you always so snarky with people?? Are you that miserable. I see thread after thread with your negative comments. You are amazingly self-righteous! Seems you have issues with your sexuality and like to get on lit and take it out on people. You and a couple others on here are the biggest haters. Take a chill pill.

 

[ottohauser1977]

If you mean Stella, she's just trying to be helpful. Sometimes that means a little tough love. It's the same thing that I was thinking, too. Living in Texas, for example, there is no shortage of gay or bi men belonging to racial minorities if I should wish to check them out. Just relating my own personal situation and its relevance to this. If I were to post something like this, I would no doubt get a swift kick in the ass, too.

 

[TTitan79]

I do mean Stella. It's not tough love, not when an innocent quesion is posed. I have seen post after post from him, and it is too much. Tough love is when someone just doesn't get it, and prove that over and over, that's when tough love is appropriate. Negative response from an innocent question will only serve to derail new posters from being open and honest, and seeking help. That is not the spirit of Lit.

 

[Stella_Omega]

What advice would you give this lady, TTitan?

 

[serpentwrap]

I do mean Stella. It's not tough love, not when an innocent quesion is posed. I have seen post after post from him, and it is too much. Tough love is when someone just doesn't get it, and prove that over and over, that's when tough love is appropriate. Negative response from an innocent question will only serve to derail new posters from being open and honest, and seeking help. That is not the spirit of Lit.

Words have dimensions and connotations far greater than mere meanings. Give someone who has had over 30,000 posts and lived to tell the tale on Lit, a bit of benefit of doubt. SO's words here were meant to convey an encouragement to the OP to go out, try the wishes and not be inhibited. It was uttered in a tonality that would make the OP gasp and say "Damn, yeah, the answer is right in front of me, why didn't I think of it." It was partly jest, partly mock exasperation, and a great part teasing away the in-built inhibitions most of us get saddled with. I dont think it was being snarky at all.

At least thats how I read the same above post. And no I have never ever engaged with SO in any discussion. As I said, words have many many dimensions. Its fluidity works best like a glass half full of water. For some it will always be half empty.