Female Trans - New Intense Attraction. Gay, Straight, Bi?

[FullSpectrum405]

I'm for the most part straight but over the last say 5 years I have been really into really female looking trans with tightly cut cocks. Taylor Maxx for instance drives me nuts. So does Chrystie Street on Reddit (goes by the name of Carie on redgifs) They are so damn fine. I would love to hook up with someone like them. I always l really liked tight cut cocks, they look so awesome to me.

Thanks for the link, she's amazing!

 

[EdgeMark567]

Thanks for the link, she's amazing!

She is incredible. Beautify and super sexy. thanks for sharing.

 

[HawkeyeA1]

She is incredible. Beautify and super sexy. thanks for sharing.

Love her to use me anytime. She is so gorgeous and sexy.

 

[Winchester3030]

I'm for the most part straight but over the last say 5 years I have been really into really female looking trans with tightly cut cocks. Taylor Maxx for instance drives me nuts. So does Chrystie Street on Reddit (goes by the name of Carie on redgifs) They are so damn fine. I would love to hook up with someone like them. I always l really liked tight cut cocks, they look so awesome to me.

Wow! Chrystie is incredible!!

 

[Escierto]

I actually made a post about this some years ago (that I deleted) and was told I was fetishizing.

Whenever a guy expresses interest in a woman with a penis, he is said to have a fetish. Of course guys who are ONLY interested in women with vaginas do not have a fetish. They are normal.

Similarly, a guy who is looking for a partner - a woman with a penis - is said to be a chaser. Of course all the guys who are only looking for women with vaginas are not chasers. They are normal.

My question is this. If it were not for the guys who are attracted to women with penises, what would trans women do for partners? Let's face it. Over 90% and probably close to 99% of all heterosexual men will have nothing to do with a trans woman.

So if we eliminate those men that we have labeled fetishists and chasers, who is left?

My girlfriend has had a loving and supportive partner for the past six years. It's a good thing she is not stuck on these labels.

 

[stickygirl]

My question is this. If it were not for the guys who are attracted to women with penises, what would trans women do for partners? Let's face it. Over 90% and probably close to 99% of all heterosexual men will have nothing to do with a trans woman.

So if we eliminate those men that we have labeled fetishists and chasers, who is left?

I had to snicker at your concern for trans women not having cis-men to fuck. Most of my relationships have been with women and we can always shack up with another trans woman - we get to swap clothes and make-up that way too!

Say Hi to your lovely gf for me

 

[Escierto]

Of course, studies show that a majority of trans women have other women as partners but why should these women be free of being stigmatized as chasers and fetishists? After all, what kind of lesbian would choose a woman with a penis as a partner (only about 10% of trans women have SRS)?

Why leave the women partners of trans women out? Surely, we can label anyone who seeks or is attracted to a trans woman regardless of sex as a chaser or fetishist. Better yet, a deviant or pervert! J.K. Rowling with her agenda of hate would definitely approve!

 

[Escierto]

Somewhere in this world, there may be space that allows someone to love a beautifully androgynous person like this? In spite of her bad habits (which of us is free?), she is just so cute and funny.

 

[stickygirl]

Of course, studies show that a majority of trans women have other women as partners but why should these women be free of being stigmatized as chasers and fetishists? After all, what kind of lesbian would choose a woman with a penis as a partner (only about 10% of trans women have SRS)?

Because lesbians, like any woman, are more likely to form a relationship with another person irrespective of their genitalia. Women generally don't objectivise in the same way men do, but never say never. Besides both terms are slurs and it's not exactly an academically defined term afaik.

Why leave the women partners of trans women out? Surely, we can label anyone who seeks or is attracted to a trans woman regardless of sex as a chaser or fetishist. Better yet, a deviant or pervert! J.K. Rowling with her agenda of hate would definitely approve!

Same as above: 99% of women don't chase or fetishise, because they're less concerned about what someone has in their pants. This is all kinda opinion-based anyhow so don't take my word for it - here's a page from Reddit about chasers

 

[ColeyD]

I’m learning a lot in this thread, thanks to OP (with whom I share some common themes) for being curious and vulnerable, and also to everyone who has posted - really really interesting!

 

[amx99]

I have had the pleasure of being with 2 trans girls at the same time "dominant ones too" unforgivable experience

 

[Escierto]

I have had the pleasure of being with 2 trans girls at the same time "dominant ones too" unforgivable experience

Unforgivable?

 

[amx99]

Unforgettable, Pardon my French

 

[Escierto]

Unforgettable, Pardon my French

Lol I thought so. I wondered what they did that was unforgivable.

 

[Bookiegirl]

I had to snicker at your concern for trans women not having cis-men to fuck. Most of my relationships have been with women and we can always shack up with another trans woman - we get to swap clothes and make-up that way too!

Say Hi to your lovely gf for me

Perfectly said lov !

 

[IdahoRandy]

I wish I could find a trans to suck.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I wish I could find a trans to suck.

I am not trans, but I am aching to be sucked…

 

[IdahoRandy]

I am not trans, but I am aching to be sucked…

I might could do that. Sure like to try.

 

[KinkStevens]

I recently discovered I have a strong attraction to female trans women. I identity as a hetero guy, love a women's body but also appreciate a man's body that's in good shape - love hard bodies both men and women. I had a few threesomes in college with my best friend and our girlfriends. I think the fact we used to jack each other off and only once did we give each other a BJ added to my appreciation of a hard cock. Never kissed a man and that's not something I want to do. I became curious about a female trans body, tits, great ass, and with a cock. I did some searching online and found some incredibly beautify trans women with amazing bodies and cocks. I immediately was turned on and started fantasizing about being with one of these women. The thought of exploring their body was incredibly erotic. On the flip side, I completely love sex with my wife and enjoying her body. She was a D1 Athlete, Volleyball player, muscular, long legs, which fits with my attraction to muscular bodies. I wish I could tell my wife of my fantasy but that's a no go.

So the question I have for you all, where does this attraction put me on the spectrum? Am I somewhere between gay and straight? Or, just a guy that's open to beautiful people and happen to also be open to both?

I look forward to hearing what y'all have to say.

Labels have as much value as you place on them, so take this with a grain of salt- if you’re interested in dick, even attached to a mtf, youre not straight in my assessment. Some here may tell you “it makes you human” or “all men think about a dick at least once” but thats the psychology they came up with possibly for their own comfort. Dick desiring men are not heterosexual. I like tgirls too, a lot. But there are plenty of men and women that find them gross. But I’m not hetersexual on Tuesdays and Saturdays

 

[TinaCole]

Trans women are women. It you're attractive to cis women and trans women, you're still only attracted to women.

Well said, its the perception of being female that draws men to us, otherwise they would just walk by. And it doesn't really take all the much to tip the scales toward being perceived as a female visually.

 

[luv23way]

From my social research and broad interaction in q-dimensions, I've seen three attraction planes: romantic, sexual, and gender. And you need not be all-in on any of them. But more importantly, other people shouldn't be defining your identity.

There's value in labels... the human brain LOVES hierarchy and taxonomy of concepts. Your labels are how you recognize people with identity intersection with whom you might wish to associate; they also give you a shorthand for your relationship to the world or at the very least, the relationship you want to have.

Jacking off a dude probably puts you in there somewhere, but cishet men are still cishet men if they're sexually attracted to trans women. (I just had this conversation with someone). My research shows those men often have an oral fixation and also prefer women with large labia and/or nipples. Sometimes that's all there is to it. Recent events being what they are, all my trans friends that cam said their views are skyrocketing now because of the publicity. Some are curious, some attracted to taboo, some realizing that so many trans women are beautiful, soft, and more feminine than many women.

Wishing you fulfilling self-exploration.

Very cool response, and many of the points you make fit me as well. Also, I had never heard the term cishet before today, but not so sure about the whole heterosexual label being applied to a man that prefers a girl with a penis. I know in my case, as I suspect with many others…my first experience with a CD/trans girl was definitely in response to my growing curiosity about and attraction to cock, but not necessarily men. Didn’t seem gay to me at all, yet….

 

[luv23way]

Well said, it’s the perception of being female that draws men to us, otherwise they would just walk by. And it doesn't really take all the much to tip the scales toward being perceived as a female visually.

That is so true…for some a pair of panties works! But I so enjoy the looks and compliments I get when I present a fem image…that very rarely happens to men and it’s a great feeling to know that someone finds me sexually desirable