How do you like to be spanked?

[MatureChattyMann]

Bent over knees or even bent over furniture.

You, bent over, exposed and inviting!

 

[Orchidea73]

Hand only

 

[RoseNPetals]

Over one knee while he sighs in disappointment

 

[ashkitten]

Stretched out over a lap with a bare hand.

Or on all fours on the bed with a hand or a paddle

Or or or...

 

[sweettalk4u]

There is so much involved. This blog entry helped me. I came up with 4 different kinds of spanking discipline. You may like them all?
http://rncblog.blogspot.com/2007/05/different-types-of-spanking.html?m=1

 

[Orchidea73]

What’s HOH?

 

[LanaBehave]

What’s HOH?

HOH = Head of Household

 

[EnchanteDream]

I would like to be over someone's knee and spanked or told to turn around so they can spank me.

 

[Orchidea73]

HOH = Head of Household

Oh gotcha. Thanks.

 

[cutebaker086]

spanking

Do I have to pick one? If i had to i would pick hairbrush, paddle, hand !
https://smutty.com/s/79kU9/
https://smutty.com/s/DmXxu/
https://smutty.com/s/a06F3/

 

[WannabeMontrealSlut]

The couch

On a man's leg while he sits on the couch.

 

[luvssherlock]

spanking

When i'm being a tease i like to lean over his desk or the counter and shake my ass at him tanting him !Begging to be spanked / pink ass cheeks https://78.media.tumblr.com/8aca33062dc2b97614c834b0e22c943f/tumblr_paxqbzLjjf1v1m1bxo6_500.gif

 

[AnnieLit]

Hard and slow,
Measured, not rushed.
Make me count out loud.

Get to the set number and DO NOT STOP, instead ask me if I could take more, if I want more, if I need more. Insist on full sentence aswers.

 

[SophieUK]

Hard and slow,
Measured, not rushed.
Make me count out loud.

Get to the set number and DO NOT STOP, instead ask me if I could take more, if I want more, if I need more. Insist on full sentence aswers.

An interesting variation, thank you

 

[phil1955]

Interesting reading here. Wife has some interest but my thinking is that at our ages 65 and 62, severe spanking will be problematic. What someone can do at 40 or even 50 starts to become a problem in the 60’s with aging skin. One bruises more readily and the skin splits easily. While wife and I are not too bad at this point, we will soon be getting there. It would be interesting to hear from someone with experience or A work around.

 

[AnnieLit]

Interesting reading here. Wife has some interest but my thinking is that at our ages 65 and 62, severe spanking will be problematic. What someone can do at 40 or even 50 starts to become a problem in the 60’s with aging skin. One bruises more readily and the skin splits easily. While wife and I are not too bad at this point, we will soon be getting there. It would be interesting to hear from someone with experience or A work around.

Don't have any experience yet, but I would think a work around would be to leave some cloths on. How much of it and how thick really depends, but it should help. After all, it is not really about the severity, even spanking of the jeans clad ass can be very satisfying.

Though I don't know how one can get their skin split from hand spanking. As for the bruising... It is you and your wife, so why does it matter if there are bruises? I like to get an occasional bruise, it's a little souvenir to smile at for the next week or so.

 

[suestevenson143]

Bare hands or a big long cock smacking my asscheeks

 

[SimonDoom]

I don't. I'm too much of a wimp to be a sub. I like to spank but not to be spanked. Classic case of somebody who can dish it out but not take it.

 

[Moochienanu]

I don't. I'm too much of a wimp to be a sub. I like to spank but not to be spanked. Classic case of somebody who can dish it out but not take it.

Don’t be too hard on yourself - where would the rest of us be without someone who liked to flagellate as much as we liked receiving? I guess the question should be turned for you (and all others like you): how do you like to give someone a spanking?

 

[eroticspank]

Interesting reading here. Wife has some interest but my thinking is that at our ages 65 and 62, severe spanking will be problematic. What someone can do at 40 or even 50 starts to become a problem in the 60’s with aging skin. One bruises more readily and the skin splits easily. While wife and I are not too bad at this point, we will soon be getting there. It would be interesting to hear from someone with experience or A work around.

I think the key word here is "severe". I have been into spanking for over 20 years and in my mind I never really had a severe spanking. Some of them have been intense but never severe, which to me means blood, broken skin, and heavy bruises.

I have been with several ladies that gave me a spanking OTK with their hand and my bare ass. The spankings were not severe and a big part of these spankings was a very slow buildup. The first few times over the lap I could barely feel the spanking and I wondered if it was ever going to get intense. But by the 3rd and 4th time over the lap it started to get intense and I could feel a stinging throughout my ass. This is just one technique, we took 4 breaks where I was told to stand up each time and she rubbed my ass with oil. The last time over her lap I found it very hard to stay still and not make noise. The point is a slow buildup that leads to intense play but not severe pain, bruises, or blood. I never had any bruises.

I do agree with AnnieLit that spanking with your clothes on will help with bruises and skin. Plus using oil and or lotion can also help.

ES

 

[phil1955]

Don't have any experience yet, but I would think a work around would be to leave some cloths on. How much of it and how thick really depends, but it should help. After all, it is not really about the severity, even spanking of the jeans clad ass can be very satisfying.

Though I don't know how one can get their skin split from hand spanking. As for the bruising... It is you and your wife, so why does it matter if there are bruises? I like to get an occasional bruise, it's a little souvenir to smile at for the next week or so.

I am over thinking again and feeling a little dumb for not considering clothes. I was thinking more of paddles and canes but the hand seems to be the preferred tool.

 

[phil1955]

I think the key word here is "severe". I have been into spanking for over 20 years and in my mind I never really had a severe spanking. Some of them have been intense but never severe, which to me means blood, broken skin, and heavy bruises.

I have been with several ladies that gave me a spanking OTK with their hand and my bare ass. The spankings were not severe and a big part of these spankings was a very slow buildup. The first few times over the lap I could barely feel the spanking and I wondered if it was ever going to get intense. But by the 3rd and 4th time over the lap it started to get intense and I could feel a stinging throughout my ass. This is just one technique, we took 4 breaks where I was told to stand up each time and she rubbed my ass with oil. The last time over her lap I found it very hard to stay still and not make noise. The point is a slow buildup that leads to intense play but not severe pain, bruises, or blood. I never had any bruises.

I do agree with AnnieLit that spanking with your clothes on will help with bruises and skin. Plus using oil and or lotion can also help.

ES

Thanks for the input. Using several stages makes sense to me. The oil sounds like a good idea as well. I am hoping we can try something soon and start getting a feel for what works and is fun

 

[Umanual]

nice

I think the key word here is "severe". I have been into spanking for over 20 years and in my mind I never really had a severe spanking. Some of them have been intense but never severe, which to me means blood, broken skin, and heavy bruises.

I have been with several ladies that gave me a spanking OTK with their hand and my bare ass. The spankings were not severe and a big part of these spankings was a very slow buildup. The first few times over the lap I could barely feel the spanking and I wondered if it was ever going to get intense. But by the 3rd and 4th time over the lap it started to get intense and I could feel a stinging throughout my ass. This is just one technique, we took 4 breaks where I was told to stand up each time and she rubbed my ass with oil. The last time over her lap I found it very hard to stay still and not make noise. The point is a slow buildup that leads to intense play but not severe pain, bruises, or blood. I never had any bruises.

I do agree with AnnieLit that spanking with your clothes on will help with bruises and skin. Plus using oil and or lotion can also help.

ES

That sounds like good fun, enjoy having my cheeks warmed up with a glow!!

 

[Enchanted_DreamSam]

I like to be spanked by the hand. I think that'd be enough for me.

 

[phil1955]

We were supposed to be heading to TN about now but things have been delayed for more test. Last night I was telling Sam what I had learned and showed her some pics from this thread. She suggested that we stop talking about it and try it. She was already turned on but we played around until I was pretty sure she was ready. Just used my hand with her over my lap. Slow and easy with breaks to apply oil and rest. So now we are not virgins. After Sam said she thought it was a good first time and definitely wants to try more. She thinks she could handle more intensity but thought I was reading her well overall.