Actually I was clock spanked with a mini flogger always instructed to hold my balls so they would not get struck always milked after the whipping
The only kind of spanking that excited me probably because of the known milking to follow
How do you like to be spanked?
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Actually I was clock spanked with a mini flogger always instructed to hold my balls so they would not get struck always milked after the whipping
The only kind of spanking that excited me probably because of the known milking to follow
knapweed
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My SubWife has no say in the matter, it all depends where she is going to be spanked on the day.
We do have ways to mess things up a bit: spinner to determine body part to be targeted e.g. ass, thighs, tits, tummy, pussy, back. Then a spinner for implement.
Depending on why she is being loved & punished she can throw six dice to determine the number.
The day that she spun clit/cane she also threw six sixes, ouchy
My SubWife has no say in the matter, it all depends where she is going to be spanked on the day.
We do have ways to mess things up a bit: spinner to determine body part to be targeted e.g. ass, thighs, tits, tummy, pussy, back. Then a spinner for implement.
Depending on why she is being loved & punished she can throw six dice to determine the number.
The day that she spun clit/cane she also threw six sixes, ouchy
AlexBailey
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I've read stories of horse racing where the horse was so well trained that the mere touch of the crop would have the same effect as a full stroke. Is it knowing the potential?
Hands are used for many things, but a crop is a specialized instrumen...well, hands can be specialized instruments too, but having a lover enter the room with crop in hand can produce a more immediate and specialized reaction in me than just entering with empty hands.
CurvyandWet
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Mmmm definitely hand spanking. 
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Everybody is different. There are so many varied tastes in everything that spanking shouldn't be any different. It's part of the reason BDSM is full of wide and complex sexual experiences.
Some people prefer just a hand spanking over the knee. A lot of the reasons for this is how personal it is, feeling the squirming body of your victim over your knees or being in such a submissive and even a little humiliating position of over your dom's knee.
In this position, it's very personal to feel the hand of a dom sensually caressing your ass, the warmth of his hand as it glides over your soon to be punished behind. Taking his time, maybe a few spanks and then more caressing, leaving you wondering and maybe wanting to know when the next smacks are going to come.
Also, the hand can move down between the legs and torment your pussy, or clit, and even finger your asshole, if he feels like it. The whole time, you are just there, draped over his lap, feeling what he does, and confused about some of it, but loving all of it. After it's all over, checking in the mirror and finding red hand prints can often bring that warm feeling back again.
Others enjoy the cold hardness of a paddle. They love the feel of something that they know isn't going to give or get tired before their behind is a nasty red and hot to the touch. Some paddles are big and wide, and some are smaller, but still as hard and yielding quite a punch. Each smack has a distinctive sound on the tender bottom and hearing those sounds has a mental aspect to it.
The hand has a distinctive sound, too, but when you hear a paddle and feel it at the same time, you tend to know the person using it means business. A paddle can bring out the screams, pretty fast, too, as well as the pleas that you'll change your ways or be a good girl...just to get him to stop. Of course, you love it when he says he'll stop when he thinks you've learned your lesson. You have no power and you love that feeling, almost as much as you love the heat on your behind.
Leather has its own group of lovers, too. Just the smell of leather can bring out sexy feelings. A leather strap tends to mold to the curve of your ass, with a snap at the end. Where a paddle might give you a more over all smack, a strap has that nasty sting. Sometimes, a leather strap is best used when bent over a desk or other object. Over the knee is best for hand or paddle. The strap needs to move around and leave long angry marks with little welts at the end.
A whip, switch or cane can be light and stingy or leave a long thin stripe. It all depends on the temperament of the person using them. A whip can bounce off of your bottom and make you squirm, even though it's not leaving much of a mark. But, with a little more force, it can make you yelp, too. Same with a switch.
And if you are told to go out into the back yard and pick a switch to punish you, the psychological aspect of that can drive you crazy. You know you can't take a wimpy stick back with you, yet you don't want to take a log either. And of course, it must be green, so it doesn't break with use. But, the more vigorous you get with them, they can splinter and break and the result can be a thicker switch with shredded parts to it, leaving interesting marks.
A cane can smart a lot, because it can be aimed to land right at the top of the legs, where ass and legs meet. That's the spot where you sit, so you will feel a cane for a while, afterwards. And like I said, they can be used with a light touch, or with a quick springy hand, causing a long raised welt rather quickly. And since it leaves a mark so soon, it's easy to place the next ones in the general area, or place them higher or lower, leaving a series of long angry red lines on your behind. Those are the kind that stick around for a while. They aren't just red marks. They are red welts.
These are just a few of the many, many variations of spanking. And each of these I've mentioned could have a totally different "touch" depending on the person using them. So, you could say the hand is more personal, but when you think about it, they are all very personal, since they are being used by a specific person. If that person is devious enough, the experience is not just an "in the moment" event, but the results can last for days.
Some people prefer just a hand spanking over the knee. A lot of the reasons for this is how personal it is, feeling the squirming body of your victim over your knees or being in such a submissive and even a little humiliating position of over your dom's knee.
In this position, it's very personal to feel the hand of a dom sensually caressing your ass, the warmth of his hand as it glides over your soon to be punished behind. Taking his time, maybe a few spanks and then more caressing, leaving you wondering and maybe wanting to know when the next smacks are going to come.
Also, the hand can move down between the legs and torment your pussy, or clit, and even finger your asshole, if he feels like it. The whole time, you are just there, draped over his lap, feeling what he does, and confused about some of it, but loving all of it. After it's all over, checking in the mirror and finding red hand prints can often bring that warm feeling back again.
Others enjoy the cold hardness of a paddle. They love the feel of something that they know isn't going to give or get tired before their behind is a nasty red and hot to the touch. Some paddles are big and wide, and some are smaller, but still as hard and yielding quite a punch. Each smack has a distinctive sound on the tender bottom and hearing those sounds has a mental aspect to it.
The hand has a distinctive sound, too, but when you hear a paddle and feel it at the same time, you tend to know the person using it means business. A paddle can bring out the screams, pretty fast, too, as well as the pleas that you'll change your ways or be a good girl...just to get him to stop. Of course, you love it when he says he'll stop when he thinks you've learned your lesson. You have no power and you love that feeling, almost as much as you love the heat on your behind.
Leather has its own group of lovers, too. Just the smell of leather can bring out sexy feelings. A leather strap tends to mold to the curve of your ass, with a snap at the end. Where a paddle might give you a more over all smack, a strap has that nasty sting. Sometimes, a leather strap is best used when bent over a desk or other object. Over the knee is best for hand or paddle. The strap needs to move around and leave long angry marks with little welts at the end.
A whip, switch or cane can be light and stingy or leave a long thin stripe. It all depends on the temperament of the person using them. A whip can bounce off of your bottom and make you squirm, even though it's not leaving much of a mark. But, with a little more force, it can make you yelp, too. Same with a switch.
And if you are told to go out into the back yard and pick a switch to punish you, the psychological aspect of that can drive you crazy. You know you can't take a wimpy stick back with you, yet you don't want to take a log either. And of course, it must be green, so it doesn't break with use. But, the more vigorous you get with them, they can splinter and break and the result can be a thicker switch with shredded parts to it, leaving interesting marks.
A cane can smart a lot, because it can be aimed to land right at the top of the legs, where ass and legs meet. That's the spot where you sit, so you will feel a cane for a while, afterwards. And like I said, they can be used with a light touch, or with a quick springy hand, causing a long raised welt rather quickly. And since it leaves a mark so soon, it's easy to place the next ones in the general area, or place them higher or lower, leaving a series of long angry red lines on your behind. Those are the kind that stick around for a while. They aren't just red marks. They are red welts.
These are just a few of the many, many variations of spanking. And each of these I've mentioned could have a totally different "touch" depending on the person using them. So, you could say the hand is more personal, but when you think about it, they are all very personal, since they are being used by a specific person. If that person is devious enough, the experience is not just an "in the moment" event, but the results can last for days.
Personally I don't like it at all I will endure it to please my Mistress
I’ll take it anyway I can get it
I agree that build up is important. I crave regular over the knee bare bottom spankings with a good firm hand. Nothing makes me melt like the paddle though - it turns me into a begging slut with only a couple of strokes! Without warming up with the hand, the pain can be too intense- especially with a belt or whip. I love them all though!
I agree that build up is important. I crave regular over the knee bare bottom spankings with a good firm hand. Nothing makes me melt like the paddle though - it turns me into a begging slut with only a couple of strokes! Without warming up with the hand, the pain can be too intense- especially with a belt or whip. I love them all though!
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I am not sure why but spanking can have a sexual element as well as a non sexual one.
For me there are a lot of things that can lead to the sexual element, but in most cases it is being naked during the spanking. Or at least the woman is mostly clothed and I am naked. After being spanked, I find that I am open to anything sexual she desires. I am not sure why, but that spanking scene does it for me.
ES
For me there are a lot of things that can lead to the sexual element, but in most cases it is being naked during the spanking. Or at least the woman is mostly clothed and I am naked. After being spanked, I find that I am open to anything sexual she desires. I am not sure why, but that spanking scene does it for me.
ES
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We discovered spanking later in life, and it has become a big part of our foreplay now.
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One of my partners got off on me giving her a good hand spanking and tit slapping...
right before we went to my gym in the morning. I don't think the redness went unnoticed in the locker room and hairdryers, mirrors and shower area. Her face sure got real red walking around there.
right before we went to my gym in the morning. I don't think the redness went unnoticed in the locker room and hairdryers, mirrors and shower area. Her face sure got real red walking around there.
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What was or was not seen really depends on what is common at your gym. I have seen locker rooms where nobody would take a step without a towel covering them from boobs to butt. I have seen others, where it was very common to use a towel only for the lower half, like guys do. Both gyms are in the same city and are part of the same chain. Have also seen gyms where it was common to take the towel to the shower, then throw the wet one into a bin and walk to your locker butt naked. Though the last one was not in the US.
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Signing-up for this fab thread x
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Recently tried a belt for self-spanking and I have to say it's a total different ballgame/feeling. Hairbrushes make a lot of noise but don't hurt as much obviously. The belt is a lot more stingy and leaves more damage in a way, but also felt really lovely. Less impact more sting I guess.
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BadAmy
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Oooh I love the open hand, then any impliment nearby...but sometimes I need a deeper strike and hope for a thuddy device. Like a bat, billy club, or tree branch. I like the pain to radiate through muscle, not just my skin. Sometimes I want to feel it to my bones.
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so well putalthough for me it's far more often than sometimes
thank you Amy
Agreed.
Me, too. I need it most times.
Xxo
AlexBailey
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I don't know if it's real or just psychological, but I've heard it said that a good erotic spanking should not just be about smacking the skin, it should be aimed deeper so the impact aims for and better stimulates the g-spot or the prostate.
I've had both and enjoy both but it think there may be something to this. Any thoughts on the matter?
I've had both and enjoy both but it think there may be something to this. Any thoughts on the matter?
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Gently.
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I’ll take any spanking I’m given but if I have a choice a strap, please mistress
