How do you like to be spanked?

[SusanH42]

Do you prefer hand, paddle, hairbrush or maybe a caning?
Me, I personally I like a good long hard hand spanking.

So much depends on the circumstances-- a hand spanking is intimate and cane be very sexy. Other implements vary... crop, strap or martinet offer intensity but little arousal. But the cane, properly used combines intensity and arousal in a very powerful mix.

 

[Tallcajun]

^^^
Agreed

 

[cuck72]

over my wife's knees

I sometimes have fantasies about my wife pulling down my jeans, and seeing I'm wearing her thong panties. Then she pulls me over her knees and spanks me like the sissy bitch I think of being. This gets me so hard. A specially when I think of some co-workers watching my wife spank me like a bed little boy.

 

[eroticspank]

So much depends on the circumstances-- a hand spanking is intimate and cane be very sexy. Other implements vary... crop, strap or martinet offer intensity but little arousal. But the cane, properly used combines intensity and arousal in a very powerful mix.

The Cane for me has been mostly pain, not much arousal. I have had both during a flogging however.

ES

 

[SusanH42]

The Cane for me has been mostly pain, not much arousal. I have had both during a flogging however.

ES

There is a distinct difference between men and women in this. The effect of a cane stroke is to generate a tightly focussed pressure wave that travels very efficiently through the body (fluid is a very efficient medium for mechanical energy transfer, and the human body is largely fluid). If the cane stoke is aimed correctly this pressure wave provides direct stimulation to the clitoral area. With a competent caner, many women can get their first orgasm during a caning-- of course I am not talking about a savage beating here (which no-one should countenance) but a firm, consitently delivered series of strokes to the bottom.

 

[Specula]

There is a distinct difference between men and women in this. The effect of a cane stroke is to generate a tightly focussed pressure wave that travels very efficiently through the body (fluid is a very efficient medium for mechanical energy transfer, and the human body is largely fluid). If the cane stoke is aimed correctly this pressure wave provides direct stimulation to the clitoral area. With a competent caner, many women can get their first orgasm during a caning-- of course I am not talking about a savage beating here (which no-one should countenance) but a firm, consitently delivered series of strokes to the bottom.

Well said! - and even better with the explanation. Well worth bearing in mind!

 

[HotXBuns]

There is a distinct difference between men and women in this. The effect of a cane stroke is to generate a tightly focussed pressure wave that travels very efficiently through the body (fluid is a very efficient medium for mechanical energy transfer, and the human body is largely fluid). If the cane stoke is aimed correctly this pressure wave provides direct stimulation to the clitoral area. With a competent caner, many women can get their first orgasm during a caning-- of course I am not talking about a savage beating here (which no-one should countenance) but a firm, consitently delivered series of strokes to the bottom.

While men are unlikely to reach orgasm during a caning we are able to get off on the endorphin rush of being caned; it can be a very intense & pleasurable experience. It's also true what you say about the importance of having a competent caner, a harder stroke delivered well is a thing of beauty and is much easier to take than a misdirected lighter stroke.

Having been on both sides of this particular fence, to receive a well-delivered stroke is to accept a transfer of energy that can travel throughout the body causing a wealth of amazing feelings. To deliver such a stroke is akin to a sportsman middling a ball with their bat, racquet or club and seeing it accelerate away with seemingly no force applied. A good piece or rattan will assist, but so much is about wrist position, stance and an understanding of how the wood bends in the air and on impact. I do wish it was a more widely-accepted practice.

 

[warriorprincess9]

I love being gaged, restrained facing down, and being used with a flogger, belt, or crop. Cane for real punishments

 

[littlebirdjoy]

I learned something new. * tips hat in thanks to Susan H42 and HotxBuns.

I personally love a well timed unexpected smack to the rear in public. ^__^ one that makes me hop skip and jump grinning over my shoulder and blushing like mad wondering if anyone saw.
I also like otk open handed fun spanks mixed with all forms of other touching. I might still get all forms of hot and bothered remembering my last one where I got so close to cumming I tried to wiggle away unnoticed. I didnt get far before I was asked exactly where I thought I was going ^__^.

I didnt have good experience with a flogger or paddle... but I chalk that up to an inexperienced wannabe.

Not sure if I will ever get to really try as my Person is adamantly against pain/ anything even slightly smelling of Sadism. I respect him for knowing himself and his limits.

For me... almost anything gagged, bound, leashed is a YES PLEASE.

 

[Gingerpici]

My one friend I use to be a good girl for use his hand a paddle but he like a old thick yardstick best he move to Florida I don't know nobody like him now

 

[warriorprincess9]

Never had a caning. Seems harsh. And of the others or a belt. Hand preferred though.

A cane is very harsh but can be very intense and erotic.

 

[AliceLittle]

Personally, I find I'm a fan of being swatted mid orgasm cause it can propel me into more of them. The hand is better for me than most implements, though a light flogging is quite pleasurable.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Personally, I find I'm a fan of being swatted mid orgasm cause it can propel me into more of them. The hand is better for me than most implements, though a light flogging is quite pleasurable.

Why is it that we haven’t been introduced?

 

[AliceLittle]

Why is it that we haven’t been introduced?

Likely because I don't post often here, but a pleasure to make your acquaintance.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Likely because I don't post often here, but a pleasure to make your acquaintance.

It would be a bigger pleasure to redden your sweet young cheeks

 

[AliceLittle]

Pink is my preference unless there is a good deal or orgasms going on to counterbalance.

 

[eroticspank]

There is a distinct difference between men and women in this. The effect of a cane stroke is to generate a tightly focussed pressure wave that travels very efficiently through the body (fluid is a very efficient medium for mechanical energy transfer, and the human body is largely fluid). If the cane stoke is aimed correctly this pressure wave provides direct stimulation to the clitoral area. With a competent caner, many women can get their first orgasm during a caning-- of course I am not talking about a savage beating here (which no-one should countenance) but a firm, consitently delivered series of strokes to the bottom.

While men are unlikely to reach orgasm during a caning we are able to get off on the endorphin rush of being caned; it can be a very intense & pleasurable experience. It's also true what you say about the importance of having a competent caner, a harder stroke delivered well is a thing of beauty and is much easier to take than a misdirected lighter stroke.

Having been on both sides of this particular fence, to receive a well-delivered stroke is to accept a transfer of energy that can travel throughout the body causing a wealth of amazing feelings. To deliver such a stroke is akin to a sportsman middling a ball with their bat, racquet or club and seeing it accelerate away with seemingly no force applied. A good piece or rattan will assist, but so much is about wrist position, stance and an understanding of how the wood bends in the air and on impact. I do wish it was a more widely-accepted practice.

Wow, thanks to you both for the useful information and in terms I can understand as an Engineer and Science guy. I may have to revisit Caning.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Personally, I find I'm a fan of being swatted mid orgasm cause it can propel me into more of them. The hand is better for me than most implements, though a light flogging is quite pleasurable.

Fortunately for me I have been on both sides of this one. I enjoy spanking a woman during orgasm, to orgasm, and through orgasm it is very erotic. At the same time I have been spanked to orgasm and through an orgasm. It was very hot propelling me to heights of pleasure and pain--the good kind, I didnt think was possible.

ES

 

[BeautifulBlueSky218]

This is something that's new to me, because I'm new to the whole BDSM lifestyle and acts into the bedroom. If I was to be spanked, I'd like to be spanked with the hand first, until it got any further. I'm not sure about paddles and floggers yet, I'd have to see how it would go.

 

[sally_sparrow]

This is something that's new to me, because I'm new to the whole BDSM lifestyle and acts into the bedroom. If I was to be spanked, I'd like to be spanked with the hand first, until it got any further. I'm not sure about paddles and floggers yet, I'd have to see how it would go.

I prefer a good spank with a hand over anything else but it is fun to experiment with different things to find what works best for you.

 

[Threadbare42]

This is something that's new to me, because I'm new to the whole BDSM lifestyle and acts into the bedroom. If I was to be spanked, I'd like to be spanked with the hand first, until it got any further. I'm not sure about paddles and floggers yet, I'd have to see how it would go.

Experiment in your own time, but I know many experienced people retain a preference for hand spanking because of the physical touch and intimacy that comes with it. One of my favourite things is rubbing and caressing mixed in with spanks

 

[AliceLittle]

From a sub perspective, i'm fond of the hand because I also know their hand is feeling it as much as my ass... and that gives a certain level of safety reassurance to start with.

Exploring farther over time can be fun.... within reason. Safety first frisky ones!

 

[jackofthedawn]

From a sub perspective, i'm fond of the hand because I also know their hand is feeling it as much as my ass... and that gives a certain level of safety reassurance to start with.

Exploring farther over time can be fun.... within reason. Safety first frisky ones!

From my own sub/bottom perspective, I especially like a bare hand that wanders and fondles as it spanks. I know a spanker who gets very aroused doing this.

 

[Sexpress0]

Spanking should be like a rollercoaster. Changing speed and intensity and speed until it's just a whirlwind and I'm sad and a little sick when it's over.

 

[Specula]

From a sub perspective, i'm fond of the hand because I also know their hand is feeling it as much as my ass... and that gives a certain level of safety reassurance to start with.

Exploring farther over time can be fun.... within reason. Safety first frisky ones!

the optimist speaks, LOL