How do you help someone get over being abused

Don K Dyck said:
Hey Kiki . . . how are you goin'?? That ticker is most impressive!!!

Well done!! :kiss: :devil: :kiss:
Hey Don,

I'm ok, just tired. I'm working two jobs now and I don't get a lot of time to come here. The weight ticker is back on track now and the doctor thinks he has my meds settled but I still have to see another couple of doctors before I'm finished. Hopefully everything will wrok out.

How are you doing? Has Gil been around anywhere lately? I hope he and Bandit are honeymooning about now. :D :nana: :nana: :nana:
 
kikmosa said:
Hey Don,

I'm ok, just tired. I'm working two jobs now and I don't get a lot of time to come here. The weight ticker is back on track now and the doctor thinks he has my meds settled but I still have to see another couple of doctors before I'm finished. Hopefully everything will wrok out.

How are you doing? Has Gil been around anywhere lately? I hope he and Bandit are honeymooning about now. :D :nana: :nana: :nana:

Hi dear lady KIKI we were married 9 Dec 06 & are now legal (hope that dosen't slow things down for us) BANDIT's :heart: kids fly home to NZ today (monday (10. 45 am here now).
The wedding didn't happen as planned but several LIT friends, speedway friends & other friends, BANDIT's :heart: son & Daughter & my Daughter & gran kids all made the day special & the Rev is a biker who made it easy for a very nervious me.
KIKI you have shown so much strength form our fist PMs here on lit you have inspired me & others so keep up the good work .
 
Gil_T2 said:
Hi dear lady KIKI we were married 9 Dec 06 & are now legal (hope that dosen't slow things down for us) BANDIT's :heart: kids fly home to NZ today (monday (10. 45 am here now).
The wedding didn't happen as planned but several LIT friends, speedway friends & other friends, BANDIT's :heart: son & Daughter & my Daughter & gran kids all made the day special & the Rev is a biker who made it easy for a very nervious me.
KIKI you have shown so much strength form our fist PMs here on lit you have inspired me & others so keep up the good work .


ah Gil....I'm so so happy for you and Bandit. May you enjoy many many many more years of bliss together. May it only get better. :heart:
 
wicked woman said:
ah Gil....I'm so so happy for you and Bandit. May you enjoy many many many more years of bliss together. May it only get better. :heart:

It has got better each day since we first met in R/L & we met right here on LIT.
 
My most heartfelt Congratulations to you both, Gil. Kiss Bandit for me.
:nana: :nana: :rose: :rose: ((((((((((Gil & Bandit)))))))))) :rose: :rose: :nana: :nana:
 
kikmosa said:
My most heartfelt Congratulations to you both, Gil. Kiss Bandit for me.
:nana: :nana: :rose: :rose: ((((((((((Gil & Bandit)))))))))) :rose: :rose: :nana: :nana:

Dear KIKI thankyou for the wishes.
 
congrats gil. im getting married agin also. if you remember i was tbon45 we have talked many times.
 
tbon455 said:
congrats gil. im getting married agin also. if you remember i was tbon45 we have talked many times.

:nana: :nana: :nana: :nana:

that is pleasing to hear & hope you find the happiness BANDIT :heart: & I have found with each other, not to bad for 2 ppl who had sworn of all but sexual relationships * never risking our hearts again* but we met & that all changed.
We both still have flash back moments but we talk openly about it all & things just better.
 
you are 100% right. i still get scared sometimes to but im open and honest with her and we talk it out. my fiance is still friends with her ex and we went to school together so i know him pretty good. he is a good guy takes care of his kids. we hang out sometimes to. i know its weird to me but he knows the line she has set. now my ex on the other hand ill just leave that alone. lol.
 
Belated wedding congrats to Gil & Bandit with wishing your hearts as one the greatest love and happiness together in all. :)

Wtg Kikmosa on your accomplishments of past and current to. :)

Looks like Don has a ticker going to.. wtg :)



Wishing every one the best of season and all whether going through gentler or rougher times.. may your hearts know greater peace each day.

( big grin with handshakes for some and hugs for those whom wish them ) :)
 
Wolf_Song said:
Belated wedding congrats to Gil & Bandit with wishing your hearts as one the greatest love and happiness together in all. :)

Wtg Kikmosa on your accomplishments of past and current to. :)

Looks like Don has a ticker going to.. wtg :)



Wishing every one the best of season and all whether going through gentler or rougher times.. may your hearts know greater peace each day.

( big grin with handshakes for some and hugs for those whom wish them ) :)

thanks for the congrats & a BUMP for this thread.
 
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BUMPing the thread :)

I joined the gym a few months ago and have found my self esteem has gone up a lot since I lost some weight (see ticker in sig line). I'm toned and building muscle and am a lot fitter too. Gil keeps admiring my butt! ;) :D

I do boxing moves with my trainer - last time we trained she said "Imagine you're punching your ex". Well that was a great session I don't think I've punched that hard in my life.

Working out has also helped with relieving stress. I get on the bike or cross trainer or lift some weights and come home sweaty and tired but euphoric too :)
 
Bandit58 said:
BUMPing the thread :)

I joined the gym a few months ago and have found my self esteem has gone up a lot since I lost some weight (see ticker in sig line). I'm toned and building muscle and am a lot fitter too. Gil keeps admiring my butt! ;) :D

I do boxing moves with my trainer - last time we trained she said "Imagine you're punching your ex". Well that was a great session I don't think I've punched that hard in my life.

Working out has also helped with relieving stress. I get on the bike or cross trainer or lift some weights and come home sweaty and tired but euphoric too :)

Wonderful to hear and is nice to enjoy the benifits of being physical whether in work, play or training like you are doing and glad you are getting so much from it.

Best wished to you and Gil in all :)

Best wished to every one as well ( with hugs for those whom wish them ) :)
 
Bandit58 said:
BUMPing the thread :)

I joined the gym a few months ago and have found my self esteem has gone up a lot since I lost some weight (see ticker in sig line). I'm toned and building muscle and am a lot fitter too. Gil keeps admiring my butt! ;) :D

I do boxing moves with my trainer - last time we trained she said "Imagine you're punching your ex". Well that was a great session I don't think I've punched that hard in my life.

Working out has also helped with relieving stress. I get on the bike or cross trainer or lift some weights and come home sweaty and tired but euphoric too :)

heheheheheheh . . . nice to see that a good bachelor has finally met his match . . . you two deserve each other . . . you have been a very positive example that life can be what you want to make it . . . <Just keep an eye on him Bandit . . . he is likely to get up to all sorts of tricks :p ;) >
 
J
ust dropping in to wish all the best and hope each are doing wonderfully. :)

( hugs for those whom wish them and Valentine's Day hugs for those who wish to )
 
Don K Dyck said:
heheheheheheh . . . nice to see that a good bachelor has finally met his match . . . you two deserve each other . . . you have been a very positive example that life can be what you want to make it . . . <Just keep an eye on him Bandit . . . he is likely to get up to all sorts of tricks :p ;) >

hey I was sweet & innocent before I met BANDIT :heart: ;) married life is so much sweeter this time around with a lady who understands & cares about me & me for her. :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
 
mortalwombat said:
tickers looking fantastic kiki-well done :kiss:

LOL mine's pretty static at the moment :rolleyes: But not too worried, because I can see my body shape has changed (and Gil keeps perving on me so can't be all bad!!) ;) :D
 
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