Honesty on the Lit boards

[Missdemeanour]

Lit will not boot you. Their advertising rate depends on the number of people here. Money is the most important thing. Now you are on the Blacklist for outting a women........lmao

Ok like I said I didnt read ALL the posts so Ive no idea what you are on about, but hey if Im on a black list thats cool by me! Id out ANYONE again if it saved somone some heartache!

 

[Guest]

We are 2 women who have been around here for many years, one of us is married to someone she met on lit and no longer plays, the other still plays occasionally.

Some of you posting here know us, and we know some of the guys you've been involved with, because we have too. It was just an idea. We hoped to prevent any spurious claims by only accepting data from women of long standing.

Yes, men can always use new alts, but we have found that most of the real players here are too arrogant to do so, or they use new alts that are obvious to their former friends.

We have this account, a database, we are open to suggestion. We have recieved a few responses already, so far just women looking to see if their exclusive cyber really is, and so far as we know they are.

Maybe instead of a blacklist database it could be a vetting one?

Maybe we should have one on the women players as well?

Because you seem to imply that only men lie and decieve.... which I find equally odd that yuo do this and won't even do so under your own name.

So hey... I'll do one on the female players... under my own name... any males want to PM me with people who they've been played by I can add them to my database.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Maybe we should have one on the women players as well?

Because you seem to imply that only men lie and decieve.... which I find equally odd that yuo do this and won't even do so under your own name.

So hey... I'll do one on the female players... under my own name... any males want to PM me with people who they've been played by I can add them to my database.

Can I go on your naughty list please DB? You do appreciate that means I gotta be naughty with you first?! x

 

[keiffers]

I've got my own list....it's called an ignore list LOL

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

I've got my own list....it's called an ignore list LOL

I would reply to that but for some strange reason I can't see it!

 

[keiffers]

I would reply to that but for some strange reason I can't see it!

 

[pink]

well I think it pretty much opened the door for stuff that otherwise stayed behind the scenes to be put out into the forefront.....quite honestly I got the impression after the first several posts that it was more of a men-bashing thread than anything (I know this was not your intention Pink at all) just due tot he fact that it tended to single out men for being hurtful and deceitful compared to women....when in actuality both men and women are equally to blame (granted as a male I think women can be quite hurtful, but the same holds true of men from the female perspective)

i really dont' know why, it was stated several times in the beginnings of this thread that it would easily go both ways.

 

[koalabear]

I would reply to that but for some strange reason I can't see it!

*unzzzzzzzzzziiiiiiiipppppppp*

 

[pink]

an anonymous database seemed fairer than the men bashing and behind the scenes gossip. It will only work if people use it. Just putting it out there.

The people in question can simply change their user name. Has everyone forgotten that little tid bit?

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

As if!!! You know I wubs you and my heart belongs to you only....in this post at least! x

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

*unzzzzzzzzzziiiiiiiipppppppp*

My oh my!!! *faints* x

 

[keiffers]

As if!!! You know I wubs you and my heart belongs to you only....in this post at least! x

quit playin me!

 

[pink]

vindictive ladies and logic never go together..........it should be like vegas, what goes on behind the scenes stays there. That will never happen when so many seem to base their happiness on the internet and not real life.

Now i know why you make light of what this thread is all about. i guess honesty is too much to ask from people in real life and online.


Vindictive ladies and logic my ass. i was not vindictive when is started this thread. You can see that clearly in my posts. i was not angry, i was not hurt, i just wanted to bring a topic out into the open.. Oh yes, thats right, thats not where honesty belongs according to you, i forgot.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

quit playin me!

You love it x

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Now i know why you make light of what this thread is all about. i guess honesty is too much to ask from people in real life and online.


Vindictive ladies and logic my ass. i was not vindictive when is started this thread. You can see that clearly in my posts. i was not angry, i was not hurt, i just wanted to bring a topic out into the open.. Oh yes, thats right, thats not where honesty belongs according to you, i forgot.

I agree with your sentiments Pink...and I would never criticise you or your motives for starting this thread...it just got a little silly later on with talk of databases and it only being men and people saying hideous things to each other. Thats my take on it anyway. I'm sorry that you got hurt, and I hope it doesnt happen again.
I do think its good that there is a diversity of opinion on the thread though or nothing would have been achieved anyway would it I guess?
Love and luck sweetie x

 

[koalabear]

Now i know why you make light of what this thread is all about. i guess honesty is too much to ask from people in real life and online.


Vindictive ladies and logic my ass. i was not vindictive when is started this thread. You can see that clearly in my posts. i was not angry, i was not hurt, i just wanted to bring a topic out into the open.. Oh yes, thats right, thats not where honesty belongs according to you, i forgot.

I've read a lot of the tripe you post. Hell you even complained about not finding a guy that would piss on you. Looks like you now. You have been on my iggy for years, only reason you aren't now a gal PM'd me to look at this ridiculous thread.
Go back and reread your own posts. You may not be vindictive, but you got the attention you wanted. Just maybe too much. Male bashing threads rarely turn out good.

 

[Calvin]

to get to the real truth.......which is better ford or chevy?

neither... BMW is the way to go..... lol

 

[keiffers]

Now i know why you make light of what this thread is all about. i guess honesty is too much to ask from people in real life and online.


Vindictive ladies and logic my ass. i was not vindictive when is started this thread. You can see that clearly in my posts. i was not angry, i was not hurt, i just wanted to bring a topic out into the open.. Oh yes, thats right, thats not where honesty belongs according to you, i forgot.

Honesty is not the majority online and that's a known fact....I can guarantee you that it'll never change....infact the way society has become lately its not as common in reality as it once was either.....I think you are taking it too personal what is being pointed out.....while men online can be jerks, women tend to turn around and be vindictive if they feel they have been wrong'd....you might not have sounded vindictive, there are others that posted here that bordered on it....society proves that women tend to turn vindictive if they feel they have been wronged, even in the slightest way.....I'm dealin with a very vindictive b*ch in RL right now that screwed me over and feels I'm wrong for taking legal action to get back what is rightfully mine....she feels she is the victim....it's just proof that women tend to turn towards being a victim to get attention......

guys get pissed if they get wronged or whatever, but we don't always turn around to try and get even....atleast I don't....I stand up, dust off my knees and take it as a lesson learned and go on with my life....

 

[koalabear]

neither... BMW is the way to go..... lol

lmao.......I agree there.

 

[CelticFlame]

I'm not going to tell you your opinion is wrong, but sometimes things happen even when you're not looking for them. And sometimes they are truly wonderful things ...that transcend online and move into RL.

That said...I think threads like these shouldnt be started at all if you can't handle someone playing devil's advocate...even if they are a "moron"... don't invite others to comment if you can't take everyone not being sympathetic... that's all I'm saying. Not a personal slam...just my opinion on these kinds of threads in general.

Darlin, first off you can say I am wrong, it is okay by me for you to have your opinion as well... Secondly, I agree with you in as special things can happen here, I have experienced a very deep, wonderful friendship with a man here that has moved to R/L and I treasure it.

But as you also said, that is "sometimes". My point was that one can not expect honesty and truth in a place of fantasy... If it happens, it is just that "special" and rare...

Myself, I come here for the friendship and love of my girlfriends and because I love men. I love flirting with men, and truly enjoy their company and "attentions". My M.O. is clearly stated in my profile. I feel no need to lie to anyone and also want the same in return... But, I do not expect to get it. That is how I personally stay happy here

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

lmao.......I agree there.

VW girl myself x

 

[pink]

I've read a lot of the tripe you post. Hell you even complained about not finding a guy that would piss on you. Looks like you now. You have been on my iggy for years, only reason you aren't now a gal PM'd me to look at this ridiculous thread.
Go back and reread your own posts. You may not be vindictive, but you got the attention you wanted. Just maybe too much. Male bashing threads rarely turn out good.

So we dont' like people on here because of fantasies? Oh that if very mature. i do not have to explain my fantasies to anyone least of you. i dont' feel the need to bash you nor anyone. If you cannot except that hurting a lovely woman's heart is wrong, whether online or in real life then so be it.

i am glad i made this thread, if it got only one woman thinking about being more careful then we've done some good here. For the final time, it was about honest on Lit.

Did anyone i repeat, anyone see the word MEN in the title?

 

[keiffers]

i will mainly be talking about men, but this could just as easily be about women too.

This topic isn't a game, like all the other games on the playground. i've recently become aware of someone who was hurting Lit women by lying to them. This situation is NOTHING new to Lit, it happens constantly and everywhere.


Luckily, this particular man and i never got serious, i did meet him last year and honestly, some sexual playing took place. He promised me we'd meet again but luckily we never did. Today, i was approached by a beautiful Lister lady who knew of me meeting him and we started talking via PM.


i learn that this man, this man i considered somewhat of a friend, was playing predator on Lit. He got busted cybering 3 different women on Lit, all at the same time. i know men act this way but here's what i don't understand, why lie about seeing more than one woman? Why not be honest, and not tie yourself down. Just say i see more than one person, why play games and hurt individuals?


i know this topic will not be popular here, the playground is all about fun but i think the worst of this problem goes on here. i could be wrong.


Tell us your stories ladies or men? Tell us how you feel? Let's talk about this problem that plagues Lit.

Did anyone i repeat, anyone see the word MEN in the title?

actually it was in the original post that started the thread....

 

[borgthemagician]

Ok i didnt read ALL the posts in this thread but (and if it hasnt already been done) I say name and shame!

I've told this story in another thread but I'll tell it again here:

In a chatroom I frequented I got friendly with this guy, just friends mind you as he was 'with' someone online at the time, I was kind of his shoulder to cry on as even though they had been in an online relationship for almost two years she had repeatedly failed to turn up when they had arranged to meet. Anyway he eventually gave her one last chance and yes you guessed it she didnt turn up (she waited till he had flown half way across the country to tell him she wasnt going to be there) then she came clean and admitted that she wasnt who she said she was, she was infact married with a kid and a lot older, fatter and uglier than the pictures she had sent him. To say he was heart broken is an understatement.

The chatroom we frequented then closed so the regulars moved to another one and he was befriended by another woman but after a while he realised this was THE SAME PERSON (she said things to him that only the other one would have known) I got so angry at what she was doing I watched her when she realised he wasnt falling for her she got with another chatter (who openly admitted to being married) and though I warned him he didnt believe me. I left the site for a while but on my return found out she had been made a moderator on this site I was LIVID! So I outed her, at first not saying her name but telling the forum that a moderator was a fake and OMG I got messages from lots of guys asking if it was so and so and I said yes. She'd been playing the lot of them.

I got booted out of the site for it because they said I had no proof but when someone found her 'pics' on a russian bride website they all realised I was telling the truth. It then came to light she had chatted under yet ANOTHER name years previous to this where she 'died in a car accident' on her way to meet an online love!

Anyway back to my original sentence, I say NAME AND SHAME and save some other poor soul the heartache!

x

A sad story, just serves to show that there's a lot of people out there who will take the p....

- even in real life !!

 

[koalabear]

So we dont' like people on here because of fantasies? Oh that if very mature. i do not have to explain my fantasies to anyone least of you. i dont' feel the need to bash you nor anyone. If you cannot except that hurting a lovely woman's heart is wrong, whether online or in real life then so be it.

i am glad i made this thread, if it got only one woman thinking about being more careful then we've done some good here. For the final time, it was about honest on Lit.

Did anyone i repeat, anyone see the word MEN in the title?

I'm glad you made it too. I haven't had sop much fun in a thread in a long time. I just ignore the the one sided bullshit. I just want to be number one on the Blacklist. No men in the title but the men all know what the thread is. I have never had so many PM's from guys thanking me for stating what I have.