Get this....

[Melody_lane]

I am a sexual person...therefore, I need to see a psychiatrist.

I am assuming that is my mother's logic. I figured...my mom, she's a cool chick. She's liberal, she's open...I've never had to lie or withhold the truth from her. So, of course, when I have sex...I'm going to tell her. And I did. BIG mistake. She flipped. No, I'm sorry-- she thinks I've flipped. I just had sex. I'm fucking 19, I should be having sex, damnit!
BUt, then...mommy, she gets nosey. Somehow finds out about my little erotic literature...actually reads my stories. Now, I'm a 'smut queen'- I think that's how she put it.
Shocking stuff. I thought they were mild stories. Good thing I never wrote any of my darker fantasies, then she might want me commited.

So, is it just me...or do I really need to see a shrink? Maybe I can't see that I need help. I hear that happens?!
And granted, I was always assumed to be this good, innocent little girl. I think it's just she is finding out of all these things at the same time. It's a tad overwhelming for mommy dearest.

Anyway...I guess if I really do need to see a shrink, I'm not alone, huh??

 

[Roland Gilliad]

you dont need a shrink...trust me. i dont want to insult anyone so dont take it the wrong way. your mother is one of those people who are cool about everything except one thing. (in her case sex) she has probably had a bad experiance when she was a child or teenager (happened to my boss) so she is deathly worried about your well being if you Go all the way cos she might have made some kind of mistake doing it and dosent want you to go through the same horror. you dont need a shrink...but your mom might....

 

[Jade]

Melody honey

NO WAY you need to see a shrink in my humble opinion but I agree with that guy that posted before me... your mom should!
The only thing is.... the shrink may try and get her to bring you in... scary thought....

So sorry that happened to you... your trust must feel betrayed.
You are a smart and sexy young woman and an adult and therefore your mom is in no position to judge your capabilities any longer ... no matter how much it may hurt that she will anyway.

Give her some time and she will calm down.
Gosh I wish I could say the right things.... (sigh)

 

[Roland Gilliad]

The names Bond,
James Bond....J/K
im Roland! call me Mike! call me Tom, Dick, or harry! Just try and call me roland evry once in a while!

 

[Jade]

The names Bond,
James Bond....J/K
im Roland! call me Mike! call me Tom, Dick, or harry! Just try and call me roland evry once in a while!

Roland baby, I am sorry about that. I didn't mean it. Can we kiss and make up?

 

[Roland Gilliad]

Sure.
:: gives jade a nice little freindly kiss and a big soft bear hug:: there we go i forgive you.

 

[Jeff726]

I don't think you have any problems at all Melody. Hell I would love to hear some of these darker fantasies myself! If they're anything like your pictures they must be pretty damn hot.


Jeff

 

[CreamyLady]

Melody, don't see a shrink, unless your mother drives you absolutely crazy. It sounds as if she's on her way.

You don't say how old she is, but ladies of a certain age quite often get a little psychotic until their hormones stabilize. (I'm speaking from personal experience here!)

Also, some people have no clear picture of their children. You did rip some illusions away, and it will take time for her to assimilate the truth.

Let everything chill for a while, and be prepared for some interesting times.

 

[Jade]

Sure.
:: gives jade a nice little freindly kiss and a big soft bear hug:: there we go i forgive you.

Was it a LONG hug?
I like those....


(ah relaxing in the embrace of my new friend...)


[Edited by Jade on 07-28-2000 at 11:36 PM]

 

[Dreamer1]

Melody, you are not crazy and I doubt if your mother is. I also doubt either of you need to see a therapist. I agree with much of what has been said but remember even though your mother may be cool and liberal, she is still your mother. That is the major dynamic at work here. I would imagine if one of her friends showed her erotic literature they had written or talked about losing their virginity, she would be that same cool chick. Alas, I was once cool too. I am now a parent and believe that while honesty is a good basis for parent-child relationships, I also know that there are some things parents do not wish or need to know. Unless their children are in need of parental advice or are in trouble, parents would rather not hear about their once virginal daughter diving in for the first time. Let her cool off. Talk with her. Tell her this is who you are and that she did a good job raising you and not to worry. Tell her you know you don't have all the answers but you will be OK, just the same. She will come around.

 

[Xander]

Melody, the day you'll need a shrink, is the day I'll be hanging upside down in a dark cave, making funny noises. Only coming out at night, flapping my wings. Muhahahahaha http://geocities.com/r337m0nk3y/net3/grinbiginvert.gif

You ain't crazy!!

You mom is just worried, that's all. It'll pass.
Tho' don't tell her anything like that again. Don't wanna give her a heart attack.

But regardless, I'm still gonna nominate you as resident Wild Cat.

 

[Lovely Latina]

Hey Xander!!

Which body part is this?:

(_{i}_)

 

[Lovely Latina]

Darn.

He left.

 

[Xander]

Oh man......I missed out on LL. Damnit!!!!

Oh and for the bodypart.......well........hehehehehehehe. Can I said that in here??

 

[Merelan]

Melody...
your Mom is being a Mom. She might be hip and cool and all that, but she is a Mom. And the shocking news that her "baby" is having sex, and writing about it, well, that makes her face the truth that she is no longer as young as she was thinking she was. Not saying Mom's are old and should all be locked up, so don't throw things at me. But the realization that you are old enough to have your sweet little baby having sex and being an adult can really throw things off. Escpecially if you hit her with it at the wrong time of the month, you know what I mean.
Well, thought I would throw my 2 cents in.

 

[Mortto56]

Hi Melody!...I don't think you need a shink.The thing here is,that you are still your "MOMMYS LITTLE GIRL!"....and she probably don't want to see her little girl grow up....I know I'm a man,and I raised 2 boys,so I might be a little bit out of my league,but that is the general thought of most parents.It's hard for a parent to come to grips with the thought of their little children growing up.....You should have seen my wife & I,the day my oldest boy come home, and said he was going to be a dad."WHAT THE %$^* A DAD,"You now that makes your mom & I "GRANDPARENTS!"....(RUNNING TO THE MIRROR,TO CHECK FOR GREY HAIR."....He was 17 at the time....But now we have a 5 year old granddaughter,that we love very much,and wouldn't trade for anything....Just give your mom some time,I think she'll understand in time.....Goodluck!

 

[Cheyenne]

You aren't nuts, you're normal, although probably a little more liberal and comfortable with sex than the general public. That is not a bad thing.

Your mom will always be your mom, no matter how old you get. I'm over 40 and my mom still wouldn't want to know anything about my sex life. And she would be shocked if she knew I came to this bb. I can only imagine what finding out I wrote erotica (I don't, I'm just a reader)would do to her image of me. And you're only 19, still a baby in her eyes, but a grown woman in your own. You've rocked her world a bit, but it will steady out.

 

[Firesprite]

I don't think my mom would be cool about things if I told her I was having sex (which I still havn't, so it isn't an issue right now) but I know if I were sexually active she would flip!

Then again, my gran brought me my first vibrator.. maybe they mellow as they get older...

 

[Firesprite]

oops.. I missed the point

you sound like a perfectly normal 19yr old to me -- you don't need to have your head shrunk just because you are having sex!

 

[Deb]

Mom here...

a grandmother, too...and damn proud of it!

Both my daughter and I write erotica, and in 'real' life are condsidered quite sexually liberal in our thinking. Active in the BDSM community, she even managed to drag me to a potluck.

But though we can discuss sex and sexuality in general, we do not discuss much on a 'personal' level. It must be a 'Mom' thing. I knew when she lost her virginity, but didn't want to 'know' about it, except to make sure she was okay and see to it that she made an appointment with the doctor.

I'm very proud of her and her outspokeness. If someone is curious about her 'lifestyle' she speaks openly with enthusiasm and intelligence.

*My* mother just shook her head and didn't even ask one Christmas when she saw a bottle of champagne with handcuffs attached on my entertainment center...an anniversary gift from my daughter and her husband.

Deb

 

[Deborah]

Oh Melody, little sista, you make me understand why Bruce Springsteen has such fond affection for Jersey girls.

Your mother will get over it. Just "be safe" and assure your mother you are. With me it was my father who discovered my transgressions. That's worse, believe you me. He got over it. Now I hassle him about everything.

 

[Hullo_nurse]

Mom's will be moms

Your mom is just going throught the "she's not my innocent little baby anymore" knipschion fit... it will pass.

MY mom still pretends that I am a virgin. And I'm 31 and married!!!!

As for my little sis (21), mom calls her a slut. Go figure. (maybe cuz she is?????)

Anyway, Mom will get over it and things will be back to the way they wer soon enough. Give her time to adjust to your growing up...

 

[Skibum]

Re: Mom here...

a grandmother, too...and damn proud of it!

*My* mother just shook her head and didn't even ask one Christmas when she saw a bottle of champagne with handcuffs attached on my entertainment center...an anniversary gift from my daughter and her husband.

I can just imagine what family reunions are like at your house!

 

[Firesprite]

Re: Re: Mom here...

a grandmother, too...and damn proud of it!

*My* mother just shook her head and didn't even ask one Christmas when she saw a bottle of champagne with handcuffs attached on my entertainment center...an anniversary gift from my daughter and her husband.

I can just imagine what family reunions are like at your house!

Isn't there a story about that somewhere?

 

[Melody_lane]

I've been a busy girl. Haven't had much time to peruse my favorite site, unfortunately.

I did want to say thanks to everyone, though. And to just to update that things have calmed with mommy dearest, thankfully.

I still may go see the shrink just to appease her...but if he's goodlooking, I'm so fucking him.

haha.
Evil-yes....crazy-just maybe.