For men only!!! (That means, no women allowed).

[FlamingoBlue]

What are the qualities that you look for in a mate of the opposite sex?? I am,serious about this guys.

Most women think that guys are so superficial,and that all guys want is big tits, a nice ass, a good fuck, etc. But, that's not enoguh to sustain a long term relationship.

So, think about it and let me know. If I get enough serious replies, I will prioritize them and maybe one of you good typists out there can publish the results on the BB.

blue

 

[Guest]

Dang! I posted in your other thread before seeing this one. I am being lazy today, but I did post something in the personals section and that sums it up a bit. It's under "testicular vehicles barking at the moon." Yep, I am lazy today

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Brains. Absolute, sexy, brain power.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Brains. Absolute, sexy, brain power.

I agree with DCL but have to add a few more qualities. After all, someone computing the square root of 498 in their head in seconds flat doesn't immediately make me want to rip off my clothes.

Add to brains:

sense of humor
integrity
ambition
similar values
confidence
lust for life

 

[TN_Vixen]

And, of course .. the ability to ignore the fact that threads exclude a specific gender.

 

[rambling man]

sometimes guys want playful dates, big tits, small mind, big sex drive, girls to have fun with and show off

but personally, a meaningful relationship would have to be one with a girl who is very intelligent, confident in most areas, and respects herself. If she is these things, she will be beautiful and I would love her...I want someone who would challenge me, too whether its sexual, intellectual, physical, whatever

 

[Guest]

My desire or at least on Lit is a woman's ability to be open and expressive. Someone who is creative and coy, but also warm and endearing to raw and uninhibited. It's very arousing to have someone who can match wits as well as be deep and go into multiple tangents.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Although we all like to think of ourselves as sex machines, there will be a large amount of time spent with your partner when your not hilt deep in their "poontang" and in those odd moments it's nice to have a person who you can talk to and who's views you actually respect.





I'm still looking but I do believe she's out there.

 

[dza]

self-esteem
confidence
carry

 

[Darowyn]

Is it an English thing? Outsider, you took the words out of my mouth, except that, reader, I married her.
Having said that, we first 'met' over the phone, and the sound of her voice gets to me so deeply that if she has said, in that first conversation,
"Come over, marry me, and give me all your money"
I would probably have said,
"I'll be there in ten minutes"
After seven years of marriage, I know that it would have been the right decision too.

 

[Tabby432]

For every male posting I bet there are about 10 women reading this thread.

But I'm not one of them.

 

[LordMagicMan]

Nice breasts, dont have to be large, nice ass, must enjoy the sex.

As for the more important things, must be able to have an intelligent conversation. Sense of humor is a must, strong willed is nice. I'm all for tough girls that I can wrestle with... Wheeee

 

[OUTSIDER]

Is it an English thing? Outsider, you took the words out of my mouth, except that, reader, I married her.
Having said that, we first 'met' over the phone, and the sound of her voice gets to me so deeply that if she has said, in that first conversation,
"Come over, marry me, and give me all your money"
I would probably have said,
"I'll be there in ten minutes"
After seven years of marriage, I know that it would have been the right decision too.

Thank you and congratulations on finding that perfect partner

 

[indyweasel]

Lets see:

Sense of humor.
Ability to forgive
Intelligence ( just not as smart as me)
Doesnt take herself to seriously..

hmmm.. Thats all I can think of now..

 

[livin_simple]

Very nice thread Blue.

Having seen your contributions in the past, I would really appreciate your input on this topic.

Can't say my thoughts differ greatly from what's been shared, so I'll just put them in my own way.

Physically attractive is nice. I'm attracted by the eyes - they reflect so much of the inner person. And I truly enjoy a woman's breasts - not necessarily large breasts, nice breasts. She takes care of herself without being obsessive about her weight. She wears makeup simply to enhance her natural beauty, not 'putting on her face' each day.

She thinks for herself. She enjoys reading and would even prefer reading over watching the television. She is intelligent and articulate. Of course she has a sexy voice so our conversations together will be intellectually and sensually stimulating.

She is not a shop-a-holic and a mall regular.

She enjoys the outdoors and isn't afraid of physically demanding work and play. She is willing to get sweaty.

And she enjoys sex. Not a passive participant, but a creative and willing partner.

I think partner really caps it off, not just a sexual partner, but a life partner.

 

[Guest]

OK, gentlemen...

 

[Lizard_king309]

What I look for in a woman is a couple different things. I look for how nice they are, if they can make me laugh and vice versa, how much I could trust them (For example if they like to sleep around or if they would rather know someone really good before doing anything like that), if they are outgoing or not, if they're spontaneous (I love someone who is spontaneous and I never know what they're going to do to make me smile or have a good time), and if they would ever lie to me. I hope that works

 

[Ask For More]

Hmm...

When I look at a girl I look at the face first....a pretty face always attracts me regardless of figure...

I think what I look for is someone who can understand me. I'm a jokey type, and sometimes I commit a faux pas, but doesn't everybody? I got my own flaws, but I want someone who won't kill me for them.

And my parents have to like her.....very important. My dad is the best judge of character around, so his approval would be very important to me.....

 

[FlamingoBlue]

ACCEPTANCE and the willingness to....

understand that men are different from women. There's a characteristic common to most women that says I love you the way you are, BUT if you could only change.... The "but" is the problem.

A women's heart and soul must be willing to accept her mate the way he is or the relationship is doomed. A man, like any other jewel in the rough, can be polished, but the core self will always remain the same.

blue

 

[InternationalFunboy]

Well, you've eliminated alot of the "tit fans" just by being at this site....the caliber of male that posts here is higher than that found on any streetcorner. He's much more likely to be attracted by a creative intellect than a firm set of flap-jacks. But very likely he appreciates both...

I am looking for a gal who can recognize the things in me that I love about myself....(without me having to lead her to them)
Who can inspire me to be better than I think I can be without me even knowing it.
Who gives me confidence....
Who is defined and confident......playful....cultured...vulnerable.
Who surprises me with her humour, her cleverness, her strength and her wisdom.
Who recognizes her body's potential and seeks to reach it. (or is truly satisfied with her physical self)

And who listens to my crappy songs and says she digs them, and pretends to like my experimental ommlettes

oh and likes motorcycles.

 

[InternationalFunboy]

I just realized that everything on my list is passive behavior....
except for Ommlettes and bikes.

Oh well, I guess I'm saying be yourself, ladies.....

 

[Ask For More]

After having a quick peek in the women's thread I've decided to add a new stipulation:

Can't be too demanding
Must be reasonable!

Jesus, some of those girls are really choosy

 

[KillerMuffin]

I forgot to mention in my requirements in the other thread. Must like mud.

 

[willfulbrat]

I forgot to mention in my requirements in the other thread. Must like mud.

LOL@ KM!

 

[nasty]

What I looks for

I like a woman with a nice personality, can laugh at my corny jokes, and dosn't take things too seriously. OK, looks are important to me. Although if a woman has slight flaws, I don't care. I LOVE a woman that has a bit of flab, ESPECIALLY IN THE ASS AREA!!!!!!!!