Facials

[ayrton]

Do any of you ladies actually enjoy receiving one? If so, how did your husband/boyfriend approach the subject?

 

[fuckmeat]

Yes, but I'm submissive so I enjoy it on a number of levels.

My advice would be to suggest watching porn with your partner and take it from there. When she sees the pornstars lapping it up she may see the attraction for you and want to please you that way. Watching porn with your partner can instigate lots of fantasy swapping and lead to breaking new ground in the bedroom.

 

[Velia]

I do. But I like it because it turns him on. And the better one is at receiving, the more turned on he gets.

He never approached the subject. I did.

I think your best bet is to simply point out that it turns you on. That should at least begin a discussion.

Velia

 

[ayrton]

I'm encouraged that some of you like them. I was afraid most would find them demeaning. That is kind of why I'm afraid to broach the subject. I'm in no way trying to demean her...at least I hope I'm not. I keep asking myself why cumming on her face would turn me on and to be honest, I don't know.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

My SO will only take a facial from me one way (so far):

I lay on my back and she starts to go down on me, when I get really turned on, she'll lay her cheek on my abdomen (about my my bladder is), lay my cock on her other cheek (the one not on my abdomen), and she licks and kisses the top of my cock while giving the underside of my cock a handjob.

I love the feeling as my precum oozes out onto her cheek and her actions cause it to spread around - it's quite a nice sensation. I'll usually rub her hair while she does this and as I'm about to cum, I'll cover her ear.

While she's not the biggest fan of facials, I think she doesn't mind it when we do that as much because there's no overt display of control or dominance. I just wish she wouldn't get up so quickly to wash her face off.

 

[satindesire]

I'm encouraged that some of you like them. I was afraid most would find them demeaning. That is kind of why I'm afraid to broach the subject. I'm in no way trying to demean her...at least I hope I'm not. I keep asking myself why cumming on her face would turn me on and to be honest, I don't know.

Well, let's hang on here for a second.

This is a very highly sexual website, so most of the women here are going to be very sexual and sex-positive, and positive about many things that the rest of the world doesn't find 'sexy', like facials.

So, take the advice here with the knowledge that things like BDSM, and commonly pornographic things like facials may be well accepted here, but are NOT the norm in the Real Life World.

I would seriously talk to your partner about it first, before coming here asking for advice. Because really, if you want to know what they think, asking strangers isn't going to get you your REAL answer.

 

[Eilan]

Déjà vu?

 

[ayrton]

Déjà vu?

Different girl and a really old thread. Never did get up the nerve to ask with the previous girlfriend...I'd still like to try it. This girl lets me cum on her tits and I shoot pretty far and have got some on her face by accident. She just laughed so I think she might be up to it.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Do any of you ladies actually enjoy receiving one? If so, how did your husband/boyfriend approach the subject?

Yes.

He didn't approach it, he just did it. If she's laughed about a little bit getting on her face, you could give it a try. Just announce yourself first, so she has time to get out of the way if she doesn't want it.

 

[Black_Bunny]

This girl lets me cum on her tits and I shoot pretty far and have got some on her face by accident. She just laughed so I think she might be up to it.

Well then you're already half way there!

Do you ask her/tell her that you're going to come on her tits? Just make 'coming on her tits' to 'coming on her tits and face'. Most of it on the tits as she's used to, and then a little bit on the face. It shouldn't be a hard progression then to coming on just her face only.

 

[RunningJib]

An Excellent Posting

Well, let's hang on here for a second.

This is a very highly sexual website, so most of the women here are going to be very sexual and sex-positive, and positive about many things that the rest of the world doesn't find 'sexy', like facials.

So, take the advice here with the knowledge that things like BDSM, and commonly pornographic things like facials may be well accepted here, but are NOT the norm in the Real Life World.

I would seriously talk to your partner about it first, before coming here asking for advice. Because really, if you want to know what they think, asking strangers isn't going to get you your REAL answer.

Spot on!

 

[cassieh]

I really don't understand the facination in covering a girl's face in cum, but we see it a lot in porn. Sexually, facials don't do anything for me. However they turn my hubby on, so the few times per year hubby wants to cum on my face I let him.

There is usually no preplanning involved. It ususally come up during sex or when I'm giving him a blow job, and is just an "I want to cum on your face from him," and an "OK" from me. I close my eyes to make sure none gets in and get ready to feel his hot cum shoot onto my face.

If she is letting you cum on her face be sure you clean her up afterwards, be it licking your cum off her face or getting a nice warm washcloth an gently washing her face.

 

[ayrton]

Thanks for all the advice. Unfortunately, she is pretty straight so I don't feel comfortable asking her , "can I cum on your face". I found a nice porn clip and when the time is right I'm going to show it too her and see how things progress.

 

[MilkFountain]

Loves it . . .

Do any of you ladies actually enjoy receiving one? If so, how did your husband/boyfriend approach the subject?

My wife says (and she's easy to believe) that she loves it, feels loved, feels wanted, and really becomes excited, more than once having had a mini-climax when she feels the warmth of a man's semen plop onto her face and breasts. She says the aroma of fresh semen is an aphrodisiac for her. She also says she especially likes the little hiss his semen makes as it squirts from him.

 

[TomboyWitch]

I really don't understand the facination in covering a girl's face in cum, but we see it a lot in porn. Sexually, facials don't do anything for me. However they turn my hubby on, so the few times per year hubby wants to cum on my face I let him.

Yeah, kind of same here. I like it if a man pulls out and cums on me, or cums between my breasts, especially just after a shower. I let guys cum on my face if they want it, but I don't really know why they bother. I don't think it's in any way positive or negative.

 

[SterlingGuy77]

I would bring it up in a conversation sometime, maybe while you are talking about things that turn you on. Or maybe talking about fantasies. Tell her it's something you want to try, but are always afraid to ask someone about. See what her reaction is. Good luck.

 

[MrSkin]

Well, let's hang on here for a second.

I would seriously talk to your partner about it first, before coming here asking for advice. Because really, if you want to know what they think, asking strangers isn't going to get you your REAL answer.

Very wise!

 

[MilkFountain]

This is a very highly sexual website, so most of the women here are going to be very sexual and sex-positive, and positive about many things that the rest of the world doesn't find 'sexy', like facials.

So, take the advice here with the knowledge that things like facials may be well accepted here, but are NOT the norm in the Real Life World.

Good grief! Nobody knows—least of all YOU or me—whether facials are the norm . . . BUT, while you can bet that if one person does something, quite a few other do too, and if a significant number people you know about practice something (such as those writing on this thread), then probably the majority do also.

That "there is nothing new under the sun" can be reasonably extended to: "Only the young and terminally horny believe they are inventing sex."

 

[MilkFountain]

". . . most of the women here are going to be very sexual and sex-positive, and positive about many things that the rest of the world doesn't find 'sexy', like facials.

So, take the advice here with the knowledge that things like facials may be well accepted here, but are NOT the norm in the Real Life World.

Good grief! Your advice is from a miniscule corner of the universe. Nobody knows—least of all YOU or me—whether facials are the norm . . . BUT, while you can bet that if one person does something, quite a few others do too, and if a significant number people you know about practice something (such as those writing on this thread), then probably the MAJORITY do also.

That "there is nothing new under the sun" can be reasonably extended to: "Only the young and terminally horny believe they are inventing sex."

 

[Black_Bunny]

Unfortunately, she is pretty straight so I don't feel comfortable asking her , "can I cum on your face".

I find it strange that people are having sexual relationships with others when they're not even able to talk honestly with each other... Fair enough if you feel awkward bringing it up, but you're never going to talk about it? Because she's too 'straight'?

 

[tinawill77]

Different girl and a really old thread. Never did get up the nerve to ask with the previous girlfriend...I'd still like to try it. This girl lets me cum on her tits and I shoot pretty far and have got some on her face by accident. She just laughed so I think she might be up to it.

It sounds like she'd be open to you asking if you could cum on her face. I think you should just ask her.

I think it's kind of funny and cute that some guys get all sheepish when they ask if they can cum on your face.

 

[innocentscribbles]

Well, let's hang on here for a second.

This is a very highly sexual website, so most of the women here are going to be very sexual and sex-positive, and positive about many things that the rest of the world doesn't find 'sexy', like facials.

So, take the advice here with the knowledge that things like BDSM, and commonly pornographic things like facials may be well accepted here, but are NOT the norm in the Real Life World.

I would seriously talk to your partner about it first, before coming here asking for advice. Because really, if you want to know what they think, asking strangers isn't going to get you your REAL answer.

I do not personally think there is much of a sexual norm. Each person is unique, and each person has their own likes and dislikes, whether on this website or not. The only real way to find what your partner is "into" is to communicate.

The easiest and most comfortable way to do that, at least in my opinion, is to make it a playful game. During a slow session of foreplay, ask her to tell you about something she is curious about but never tried. Then tell her about your own curiosity. Offer to make her little fantasy come true but do not treat it like a currency, like "I'll give you yours if you give me mine." Treating it as a currency could make her feel pressured, and you do not want that (or maybe you do, I don't know). Maybe she'll offer to make your own wish a reality, but if she doesn't, you have your answer as to what she's "into."

That said, a facial doesn't do much for me except for the pleasure of knowing it gives my man a thrill. My husband does not want it all the time, so when he's in that mood he lets me know. If I'm up for it, he gets his wish. If I'm not quite feeling that, I give him an alternative I know he enjoys. He usually gets his wish, though, especially since he always follows that by taking me to the shower for a mutual clean-up session where he gives me a special treat of my own as a "thank you."

 

[MilkFountain]

Wonderful . . .

WELL-SAID, WELL-WRITTEN AND EVIDENCE OF TWO WELL MINDS, TRULY MARRIED:

I do not personally think there is much of a sexual norm. Each person is unique, and each person has their own likes and dislikes, whether on this website or not. The only real way to find what your partner is "into" is to communicate.

The easiest and most comfortable way to do that, at least in my opinion, is to make it a playful game. During a slow session of foreplay, ask her to tell you about something she is curious about but never tried. Then tell her about your own curiosity. Offer to make her little fantasy come true but do not treat it like a currency, like "I'll give you yours if you give me mine." Treating it as a currency could make her feel pressured, and you do not want that (or maybe you do, I don't know). Maybe she'll offer to make your own wish a reality, but if she doesn't, you have your answer as to what she's "into."

That said, a facial doesn't do much for me except for the pleasure of knowing it gives my man a thrill. My husband does not want it all the time, so when he's in that mood he lets me know. If I'm up for it, he gets his wish. If I'm not quite feeling that, I give him an alternative I know he enjoys. He usually gets his wish, though, especially since he always follows that by taking me to the shower for a mutual clean-up session where he gives me a special treat of my own as a "thank you."

 

[dumbeg4]

In most porn facials that I have watched, the woman receiving has seldom reacted with much enthusiasm.....I guess stinging eyes and messed up hair is not that much fun.

 

[acynlacy]

My wife loves to play the submissive and she introduced facials into our sex play. I would have thought it demeaning, she thinks it's erotic.