Handjob Basics

[Cardinal]

Full transparency I am a man and this thread is from the receiving point of view, but if you are a handjob giver your input is greatly appreciated.

I’m going to start off this thread with a question: which do you prefer for a handjob lotion or lube?

Also any How To handjob tips are also appreciated.

 

[T_2K_59]

I don't normally use lube, except maybe saliva. In the past, I have used vasoline, various cooking oils, but I think my fave is baby oil, the unscented kind. I don't like using lube acause it's messy and a bitch to clean up, plus if can stain cloth and leave behing incriminating evidence. My suggestion to you is to use whatever it is that YOU like best, which ever feels best to you.
As far as tips, if you are giving the handjob, just ask the person what they like, what feels best to them, they will definitely let you know. On the other hand (pun intended), you can tell the person giving you the handjob what feels good to you and guide them to what you are wanting. Speed, stroke length, firmness of their grip, don't forget to let them know how good they are doing, when you are getting close and when you are going to cum. Good luck and enjoy!

 

[Nylonian]

Full transparency I am a man and this thread is from the receiving point of view, but if you are a handjob giver your input is greatly appreciated.

I’m going to start off this thread with a question: which do you prefer for a handjob lotion or lube?

Also any How To handjob tips are also appreciated.

A nice light water based lube but most of the time precum and saliva works perfectly.

If you're using satin gloves, they're so smooth you don't even need lube. The gliding and teasing you can do with a good pair of gloves is beyond compare.

Don't neglect the balls and the head if he likes that sort of thing. Little tickles and tugs whilst licking his head can really help start to get things flowing.

 

[Nylonian]

A nice light water based lube but most of the time precum and saliva works perfectly.

If you're using satin gloves, they're so smooth you don't even need lube. The gliding and teasing you can do with a good pair of gloves is beyond compare.

Don't neglect the balls and the head if he likes that sort of thing. Little tickles and tugs whilst licking his head can really help start to get things flowing.

A bit of shameless self plug:
https://www.literotica.com/s/nylon-edging

Here's my guide on edgeplay with nylons.

 

[Cardinal]

A nice light water based lube but most of the time precum and saliva works perfectly.

If you're using satin gloves, they're so smooth you don't even need lube. The gliding and teasing you can do with a good pair of gloves is beyond compare.

Don't neglect the balls and the head if he likes that sort of thing. Little tickles and tugs whilst licking his head can really help start to get things flowing.

Oh yes the tugging on the balls is awesome!

 

[Lucien_Al]

My husband love coconut oil…..my advice would be to start off how you like it when someone does it to you. Go from there.

Glass

My wife uses coconut oil too and I love it

 

[EmilyMiller]

My SO is uncut (born in London to British parents), so there are soooo many more fun options without any need for lube .

 

[UtilityCurve]

My wife uses coconut oil too and I love it

There's always a complication: https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/ot...k-trend-could-harm-vaginal-health/ar-AA201yyj

Of course, if it never advances to vaginal penetration, no worries. But messing with a woman's pH is never a good move.

 

[Lucien_Al]

There's always a complication: https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/ot...k-trend-could-harm-vaginal-health/ar-AA201yyj

Of course, if it never advances to vaginal penetration, no worries. But messing with a woman's pH is never a good move.

Yes agree. We dont use any vaginal lube, we just dont need to. We use coconut oil (or butter) for anal and handjobs only.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Lube > lotion

If it's going to be all about the handjob, personally am a HUGE fan of really going for it with the lube. An obnoxious amount of thick, viscous, gel lube - ones usually designed for anal play (like Lube Life 3x Anal Lube). I love the sticky, slippery feeling that stays right where you want it. I guess part of the fetish is the mess, but whenever I give or receive a handjob there's nothing hotter than everything involved being slathered in it... both hands, the cock, the balls, the taint, even down to the ass hole. Towels are wise, but next time it's hand stuff time, I highly recommend giving it a shot.

 

[Nellie60]

Full transparency I am a man and this thread is from the receiving point of view, but if you are a handjob giver your input is greatly appreciated.

I’m going to start off this thread with a question: which do you prefer for a handjob lotion or lube?

Also any How To handjob tips are also appreciated.

I prefer everything natural as nature intended.

I love just spit as your lube and enjoy the close intimacy only a handjob can give.

As a receiver I want my girl to be enthusiastic and enjoy as a giver. Technique is important but as you are is fun regardless.

 

[CliodhnaOB]

Full transparency I am a man and this thread is from the receiving point of view, but if you are a handjob giver your input is greatly appreciated.

I’m going to start off this thread with a question: which do you prefer for a handjob lotion or lube?

Also any How To handjob tips are also appreciated.

Ive never used lube while giving a HJ.... never even crossed my mind or been brought up

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Ive never used lube while giving a HJ.... never even crossed my mind or been brought up

It’s weird I agree

 

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

Ive never used lube while giving a HJ.... never even crossed my mind or been brought up

It’s not needed when you know what you’re doing

 

[CliodhnaOB]

It’s not needed when you know what you’re doing

Loads of practice