Handjob Basics

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Full transparency I am a man and this thread is from the receiving point of view, but if you are a handjob giver your input is greatly appreciated.

I’m going to start off this thread with a question: which do you prefer for a handjob lotion or lube?

Also any How To handjob tips are also appreciated.
 
I don't normally use lube, except maybe saliva. In the past, I have used vasoline, various cooking oils, but I think my fave is baby oil, the unscented kind. I don't like using lube acause it's messy and a bitch to clean up, plus if can stain cloth and leave behing incriminating evidence. My suggestion to you is to use whatever it is that YOU like best, which ever feels best to you.
As far as tips, if you are giving the handjob, just ask the person what they like, what feels best to them, they will definitely let you know. On the other hand (pun intended), you can tell the person giving you the handjob what feels good to you and guide them to what you are wanting. Speed, stroke length, firmness of their grip, don't forget to let them know how good they are doing, when you are getting close and when you are going to cum. Good luck and enjoy!
 
My husband love coconut oil…..my advice would be to start off how you like it when someone does it to you. Go from there.

Glass
 
Full transparency I am a man and this thread is from the receiving point of view, but if you are a handjob giver your input is greatly appreciated.

I’m going to start off this thread with a question: which do you prefer for a handjob lotion or lube?

Also any How To handjob tips are also appreciated.
A nice light water based lube but most of the time precum and saliva works perfectly.

If you're using satin gloves, they're so smooth you don't even need lube. The gliding and teasing you can do with a good pair of gloves is beyond compare.

Don't neglect the balls and the head if he likes that sort of thing. Little tickles and tugs whilst licking his head can really help start to get things flowing.
 
A nice light water based lube but most of the time precum and saliva works perfectly.

If you're using satin gloves, they're so smooth you don't even need lube. The gliding and teasing you can do with a good pair of gloves is beyond compare.

Don't neglect the balls and the head if he likes that sort of thing. Little tickles and tugs whilst licking his head can really help start to get things flowing.
A bit of shameless self plug:
https://www.literotica.com/s/nylon-edging

Here's my guide on edgeplay with nylons.
 
A nice light water based lube but most of the time precum and saliva works perfectly.

If you're using satin gloves, they're so smooth you don't even need lube. The gliding and teasing you can do with a good pair of gloves is beyond compare.

Don't neglect the balls and the head if he likes that sort of thing. Little tickles and tugs whilst licking his head can really help start to get things flowing.
Oh yes the tugging on the balls is awesome!
 
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