Exploring with women

[plesmone]

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*laughs* Trust me, I'm looking. That thing was expensive. And wouldn't you know it, out of the few things I kept, it was the one my husband bitched most about? Bah, stupid man.

And I don't think I've posted enough yet to have an avitar. All in good time. I'll be sure to post one.

If you can't find that camera - start posting like crazy
If I can go back to your thread, how would posting a picture of yourself change you? Would you do it in the buff?

 

[dizzylia]

Success!

If you can't find that camera - start posting like crazy
If I can go back to your thread, how would posting a picture of yourself change you? Would you do it in the buff?

Silly me, I'd hung it in the closet with my pool cue. It seemed like a good idea at the time, what with company coming and all. (In other words, no sense at all)

How would posting a picture of myself change me? Well... not much really. I'm a bit of an attention slut. And in the buff... that's a bit harder. I'm not terribly keen on how I look, so perhaps if I cut the head off...

Of that picture that is, I'm also not terribly crazy about self-decapitation.

And I really shouldn't post things this late at night.

So, now to think of a pose...

 

[plesmone]

Re: Success!

Silly me, I'd hung it in the closet with my pool cue. It seemed like a good idea at the time, what with company coming and all. (In other words, no sense at all)

How would posting a picture of myself change me? Well... not much really. I'm a bit of an attention slut. And in the buff... that's a bit harder. I'm not terribly keen on how I look, so perhaps if I cut the head off...

Of that picture that is, I'm also not terribly crazy about self-decapitation.

And I really shouldn't post things this late at night.

So, now to think of a pose...

You found it
As for a pose - what's your best assest? tities, ass, legs, ummmmm?

 

[dizzylia]

Re: Re: Success!

You found it
As for a pose - what's your best assest? tities, ass, legs, ummmmm?

Oh. Well... I don't know, actually. I'll just try a few different ones. Once I figure out how to use the timer function, anyway.

 

[plesmone]

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Oh. Well... I don't know, actually. I'll just try a few different ones. Once I figure out how to use the timer function, anyway.

Use a lot of light when you snap those shots to keep it from getting too dark.

Ya know, I'm betting on legs or maybe......

 

[Pseudomoniker]

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Oh. Well... I don't know, actually. I'll just try a few different ones. Once I figure out how to use the timer function, anyway.

If you need an extra pair of hands and a digital camera, I could probably scrounge up a volunteer for a photo session with ya.

 

[dizzylia]

*giggle*

You guys are so helpful. Lots of light, I'll remember that for sure. And man... if I had an extra pair of hands, I don't think I'd get to the photos for a while right now.

-lia, who's counting the "dry spell" in years now

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Why isn't there a "vacation" place where one can go, which would allow leaving 'reality' at check-in for a short while?

It makes me think of a resort where no one has names, where a relaxing spa treatment is more sensual than refreshing. Pleasure and unabated sexual fulfillment are the key phrases and where the service is outstanding!

I’d like to be able to walk up to a woman I find attracted to and say. “Excuse me. I find you very attractive. Would you like to go up to my room and make love? I’d like very much to spend a couple of hours exploring your body, giving you the kind of pleasure only another woman can give by my touch, caress, and kiss."

Oddly enough, I have a female friend in Texas who is exploring this exact same concept commercially, and is currently renovating the property that her resort will be at. Reminds Me that I need to drop her a line about how it's coming along...

Oh, and someone mentioned Hedonism (the resort) in a past post to this thread: Official word is that they are closing permanently sometime soon due to financial difficulties, according to a press release I received from them.

Best Wishes
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[plesmone]

Oddly enough, I have a female friend in Texas who is exploring this exact same concept commercially, and is currently renovating the property that her resort will be at. Reminds Me that I need to drop her a line about how it's coming along...

Oh, and someone mentioned Hedonism (the resort) in a past post to this thread: Official word is that they are closing permanently sometime soon due to financial difficulties, according to a press release I received from them.

Best Wishes
=-= The CyberPoet

Encourage her to build on. Will there be theme rooms?

 

[TheCyberPoet]

I dropped her an email last night before I went to bed, and found her response this morning. She's on target for opening sometime in 2003, having just moved another house onto the property (to sleep guests). I don't know if there will be theme rooms or not -- her original take on it was a meditation and relaxation center with sexuality & sensuality as a core concept (I was being recruited as an instructor, if I was willing). During the interim, she has finally found a Dom (her first DS relationship), so maybe the place will have theme rooms -- I don't know yet.

On a similiar note, there are BDSM bed and breakfasts about America -- there's a really nice one just outside Chicago by about 45 minutes, and some people I ran across a while back are trying to open one inbetween Tampa and Gainesville here in Florida. Those have theme rooms

=-= The CyberPoet

 

[hippie13]

Do you people accept....

slave labor, or a camaraman. I would love to do some exploring on my own.

 

[KHAN-E]

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Your answers are VERY helpful, but you didn’t answer the question I most hoped for: is it just as exciting for you to be with a woman as in the beginning? Do you still shiver when her hand caresses your breasts? Is there a difference when her hand runs from your thigh to explore the source of your wetness? That’s what I need to know—is it fresh and exciting each time or routine and matter of fact?

It depends on the partner. But sex with Amy, my current "most regular" partner is SUPER Exciting. I was her first bi experience. And it is still as exciting now as the first time we did it, seven months ago.

As with any relationship, it requires work and imagination to keep it exciting. Any lovemaking will become routine, if the couple approach it that way. You must both explore fantasies and fetishes and break down the inhibitions you may have. KEEP it KINKY!!!

 

[KHAN-E]

Re: We have something in common

We are on the same quest, with the same stumbling block, I'm afraid. My husband shared his fantasy about a FFM threesome with me, and I have decided that I find this situation highly intriguing. My only stipulation is that the other woman be someone neither of us know, initially. Hubby's primary motivation is to watch another woman pleasure me, and to watch while I explore a woman's body. Naturally, he would like to join in at some point, which I would find highly erotic. I have never been with another woman, not even a kiss. I just think it would be an awesome turn-on to have a soft pair of hands, and an even softer tongue on my breasts, my nipples, and inside of me. So, where do I begin to look? I'm not looking for an emotional relationship by any means. I have that with my husband, and neither of us is looking to change our scope of commitment to each other. We are just looking to satisfy a mutual fantasy.

If you are looking for a one-tiem anonymous encounter, LIt. might be a good place to begin your search. Post a "Personals" ad. There are lots of people here looking for just such encounters.

 

[plesmone]

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It depends on the partner. But sex with Amy, my current "most regular" partner is SUPER Exciting. I was her first bi experience. And it is still as exciting now as the first time we did it, seven months ago.

As with any relationship, it requires work and imagination to keep it exciting. Any lovemaking will become routine, if the couple approach it that way. You must both explore fantasies and fetishes and break down the inhibitions you may have. KEEP it KINKY!!!

KHAN-E!!! Wher've ya been. Missed you

 

[KHAN-E]

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KHAN-E!!! Wher've ya been. Missed you

My crappy webtv system wasn't working right. I had to have my brother fix it.

Then the Lit. server was down.

I've missed all my sexy friends at Lit. this week. But I did get a lot of studying done.

 

[plesmone]

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My crappy webtv system wasn't working right. I had to have my brother fix it.

Then the Lit. server was down.

I've missed all my sexy friends at Lit. this week. But I did get a lot of studying done.

I'm glad you're back -- you were gone so long that I got my av!

 

[jazey_43]

mmm

Older guy...


Damn!!!!!

Nice pic!!!!!

 

[BlueVelvet]

Awaiting my turn

I'm also interested in being with a woman....honey is very supportive of my desires....which makes it way easier to talk about it.

Someday......*sighs*

 

[plesmone]

another story?

Thank you! I actually have two I'm working on right now, so hopefully in another couple weeks you'll have one to read.

have you completed any more stories dizzylia???

 

[dizzylia]

Re: another story?

have you completed any more stories dizzylia???

I'm very close to finishing one, and about halfway with another.

 

[plesmone]

Re: Re: another story?

I'm very close to finishing one, and about halfway with another.

I'm fluffing my pillows and getting ready

 

[KHAN-E]

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I'm glad you're back -- you were gone so long that I got my av!

And what a HOT, SEXY av it is!

Congrats!!

 

[plesmone]

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And what a HOT, SEXY av it is!

Congrats!!

LOL

 

[dizzylia]

Personal Torment

*fidget* Here's the deal. I like this girl. Okay... I adore her. What can I say? She's my best friend. She's also happily married with children.

The thing is, I feel like she's been giving me signs. You know the ones, right? The ones people try on each other as a prelude to flirting or more? The problem is, I don't know if I'm reading them right. She's pretty outgoing, so maybe she's just naturally flirty, and there's the possibility that I'm reading into her actions because I secretly want them to mean something.

I guess what I'm asking is this: is there a safe way to pursue this to find out if my suspicions are correct? I don't want to unnecessarily make things awkward or uncomfortable. I know she's far from homophobic, but that doesn't mean she's bi, or even open to the idea. Of course, even if she were open to the idea, she's still married, and I don't want to put any strains on that either. I just want to know what's going on when "Are you bi?" would probably come off the wrong way. Any suggestions whatsoever would be appreciated more than I can say.


Sincerely confused,
dizzylia

 

[plesmone]

Re: Personal Torment

*fidget* Here's the deal. I like this girl. Okay... I adore her. What can I say? She's my best friend. She's also happily married with children.
I just want to know what's going on when "Are you bi?" would probably come off the wrong way. Any suggestions whatsoever would be appreciated more than I can say.
dizzylia

dizzylia, I'm not the best source for advise, but here it is:
She may well be testing the water, but if she is not, then you stand to loose a good friend.

Might I suggest that you makeup a story of how you have met someone through whatever, and she is bi and attracted to you. The conversation would naturally move along from surprise to would you take someone up on an offer like that. If she expresses a strong interest, you can answer the question 'yes, I'd like to try, but only with someone I trust and care for, like you - or if she's shocked, let it go. You can also ask what it is about yourself that another woman would find attractive.

In any event, these feelings and any action you contemplate have already changed you.