Exploring with women

[dizzylia]

A typical Aquarius, I'm pretty open-minded. This includes my sexuality. However, I'm quite the newbie when it comes to other women, so I'm interested in finding women who would like to discuss what it means for them, either by e-mail, PM or this discussion thread.

Why are you drawn towards women rather than men? Does it change how you see yourself?

 

[cumman]

I was wondering about this topic also. My x-girlfriend wasn't interested in being with another woman but she had fantasy's about it.

 

[dizzylia]

I was wondering about this topic also. My x-girlfriend wasn't interested in being with another woman but she had fantasy's about it.

Yeah, that's the catch. I fantasize about it all the time, but when I think about actually doing anything, I freeze. I think it might be more that I'm afraid of getting intimate with someone. My past experience is at about a .100 batting average right now.

 

[vylette]

i have no experience in this area other than a long enjoyable kiss in college...but this is something i find myself thinking about quite often, so please kind me in minds...thanks

 

[redathena]

women are great, as are men. but women are just softer and sometimes know what you want more than men.

 

[dizzylia]

women are great, as are men. but women are just softer and sometimes know what you want more than men.

That's certainly something to consider. I'm never quite sure what to do with a man.

 

[redathena]

That's certainly something to consider. I'm never quite sure what to do with a man.

Unless you get someone who tells you what they want out of you, no one is quite sure what to do with anyone... so i know how you feel. but i would definately recommend trying a bit more with a woman. if you really dont feel comfortable, it may just not be your thing, even though you're curious.

 

[dizzylia]

Unless you get someone who tells you what they want out of you, no one is quite sure what to do with anyone... so i know how you feel. but i would definately recommend trying a bit more with a woman. if you really dont feel comfortable, it may just not be your thing, even though you're curious.

*grins* This is very true. Let's just say the men I've been with weren't great communicators, and when it came to sex their vocabulary tended to disintegrate into grunts and guttural moans.

As for trying a bit more with a woman, I guess I'd need to start first. I have to admit, I've always been too timid to even try, and the few times I've tried flirting have ended up with me more confused than curious. Perhaps I just have too much of a knack for falling for the wrong people. Who knows. But I guess I'll find out eventually. Thank you for your help.

 

[sprucett_78]

Hi peeps...

Had a couple of girlfriends and a few experiences, and what I have found was that it turned out o be the person that I found attractive rather than what sex they were...Although when it comes down to it I know I like sex with men for the penetration....so its all personal taste I guess...

My female partners were all very special and I wouldnt trade the moments at all.

 

[sexymom]

Trying Bi

Obviously, it adds another dimension to your sexuality. Lit hetero experiences, you have to decide first what you are looking for- a casual, "try it, you might like it" fling, or a serious relationship. I had the good fortune- once in my life- to find a woman who was experienced, and already a good friend. I let her know about my curiosity, and my hesitation, and she gently overcame all my fears and inhibitions. I wouldn't trade that experience for a million dollars.

 

[glittergirl02]

I fantasize about women and they do turn me on as in having me and another female suck my boyfriends cock. But when it cums down to it i just love being fucked. You cant fake a good cock.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

have you seen "Kissing Jessica Stein"?

very funny and smart movie
about this subject

it may not get you over the hump.
so to speak,
but at least you'll get a few laughs
about it

 

[Guest]

Hi peeps...

Had a couple of girlfriends and a few experiences, and what I have found was that it turned out o be the person that I found attractive rather than what sex they were...Although when it comes down to it I know I like sex with men for the penetration....so its all personal taste I guess...

My female partners were all very special and I wouldnt trade the moments at all.

I must say, I agree with you completely. I don't think its about gender. Sometimes, I just find women more attractive. That kinda remins me of "Chasing Amy", the Kevin Smith movie. It sums the subject up quite well, I think.

Redathena

 

[pinksateendream]

Hello...

I really am kind of shy on the topic, just recently came to terms with t fact that I am oooh so attracted to women. Sometimes I fear that they will see me looking at them ... maybe I'll hold my gaze for just a second too long and they'll "find out". I just find myself attracted to women... their beautiful soft bodies, flowing hair, the way that they smell, the fact that I know just what they would like..... On the other hand I am so so so afraid to approach anyone and I am embarrassed and ashamed to admit that I am attracted emotionally and physically to women. I think that women are just kind and patient and sensitive... and as a sensitive woman I look for these things. Women also show their bodies more... and wear less clothing on a regular basis... also, just look at Cosmopolitan and all the pictures of naked women... it is like they (cosmo) are trying to "seduce" us with the appeal of the female form in all its beauty.

I once was at a friend's house and really found myself getting aroused as I watched this movie on television called "Better than Chocolate". It is a great film about 2 women in a relationship... it is really very entertaining and there is a great scene that I think might get your imagination going...

 

[dizzylia]

... what I have found was that it turned out to be the person that I found attractive rather than what sex they were...

Well, I do agree there. As far as longterm relationship go, I'm rather ambivalent. I guess I'm aiming more at the pure physicality of a relationship with another woman.

Thanks!

 

[dizzylia]

Re: have you seen "Kissing Jessica Stein"?

Oh, I've heard about that one. Thank you, I'll check it out!

 

[dizzylia]

Shy

I really am kind of shy on the topic, just recently came to terms with t fact that I am oooh so attracted to women. Sometimes I fear that they will see me looking at them ... maybe I'll hold my gaze for just a second too long and they'll "find out". I just find myself attracted to women... their beautiful soft bodies, flowing hair, the way that they smell, the fact that I know just what they would like..... On the other hand I am so so so afraid to approach anyone and I am embarrassed and ashamed to admit that I am attracted emotionally and physically to women. I think that women are just kind and patient and sensitive... and as a sensitive woman I look for these things. Women also show their bodies more... and wear less clothing on a regular basis... also, just look at Cosmopolitan and all the pictures of naked women... it is like they (cosmo) are trying to "seduce" us with the appeal of the female form in all its beauty.

Wow, pinksateendream, it sounds like we have a lot in common. I must admit, I've known for a few years now, but it still catches me off guard now and then. And it took a while to be honest with myself that it could even be a possibility.

 

[plesmone]

When you start to think about the whole thing, doesn't it excite you, if not just a little? To stand close to another woman, to feel her breast in hand. To feel the nipple come alive from your touch. Do you wonder what it might be like to kiss - no stubble, but smooth and warm, taking in all that the senses have to offer in smell and touch and warmth.

 

[Sweetevil]

I feel the same way ladies. The smell of a woman, and the sight of a woman, can and has drove me wild....and this is new to me. I too am married. But here's my philosophy on it.....
I think, a woman can please a woman better than a man could simply because a woman knows how "she" likes to be pleased! Plus a woman's touch is softer, and a woman ALWAYS smells good... I personally have never done anything with a woman, but I know I would love to experience just "one" night with a woman!

Sweet

 

[plesmone]

What would you expect to experience if you had that 'one' night?

 

[KHAN-E]

A typical Aquarius, I'm pretty open-minded. This includes my sexuality. However, I'm quite the newbie when it comes to other women, so I'm interested in finding women who would like to discuss what it means for them, either by e-mail, PM or this discussion thread.

Why are you drawn towards women rather than men? Does it change how you see yourself?

I am an experienced and confirmed bi-sexual woman. My first sexual experience was with an older sister. I have had numerous affairs with women since then. Presently my most regular sexual partner is a younger female cousin.

I find women to be softer and more cuddly than men. And they understand how to pleasure my body better than most men.

I see myself as an open-minded woman, seeking to explore the full range of my sexuality. I try to be discreet, but I make no apologies for who I am.

I'm willing to PM or discuss here any questions you may have.

 

[KHAN-E]

Hi peeps...

Had a couple of girlfriends and a few experiences, and what I have found was that it turned out to be the person that I found attractive rather than what sex they were...Although when it comes down to it I know I like sex with men for the penetration....so its all personal taste I guess...

My female partners were all very special and I wouldnt trade the moments at all.

I, too, have found that I am attracted to a person, rather than a gender. There are people of each gender I find intensely attractive and those I find repulsive. Sexual attraction is not, for me, gender specific.

I, also, enjoy penetration. But sex with a caring, sensitive woman is ooooooh soooo goooood!!!

 

[Dr. B Evil]

Sexual attraction is not, for me, gender specific.

I, also, enjoy penetration. But sex with a caring, sensitive woman is ooooooh soooo goooood!!!

A woman penetrating is highly arousing and very erotic at the least.

 

[Babydoll16]

exploring with females

I am very happily married, but also very curious about females. i would just like to have an experience, you know? my husband is very supportive. i just want to know what it would feel like to have a woman exploring me and making me feel sexy!

 

[Curious_Fem]

Re: exploring with females

I am very happily married, but also very curious about females. i would just like to have an experience, you know? my husband is very supportive. i just want to know what it would feel like to have a woman exploring me and making me feel sexy!

*nods* I'm definitely with you on this. But my situation is different from yours. Married, yes. Happily, most days. Supportive husband.....ummmm, NO. Want to know what it would feel like to have a woman exploring me and making me feel sexy??? Oh hell yes! Then returning the favor to her....oh baby!