Exploring with women

[Pseudomoniker]

Why isn't there a "vacation" place where one can go, which would allow leaving 'reality' at check-in for a short while?

It makes me think of a resort where no one has names, where a relaxing spa treatment is more sensual than refreshing. Pleasure and unabated sexual fulfillment are the key phrases and where the service is outstanding!

I’d like to be able to walk up to a woman I find attracted to and say. “Excuse me. I find you very attractive. Would you like to go up to my room and make love? I’d like very much to spend a couple of hours exploring your body, giving you the kind of pleasure only another woman can give by my touch, caress, and kiss."

On a hunch, check out this site. It sounds like what you're looking for, but I don't know what if there's an emphasis on sexual preferences or not.

http://www.superclubs.com/brand_hedonism/index.asp

 

[Image]

The anonymity of this board and the internet gives me the safety net I need. Slowly, to be sure, I am more and more able to express my sexuality. As you all have said, taking risks in the real world could have devastating consequences. I am a very, very happily married woman but even in our relationship I can't be 100% totally open. Mostly so, but there is still a line not to be crossed. (My hubby is aware of my fantasies concerning other women but I will never be able to act on them in the real world. I know, he's probably the only guy out there that this doesn't appeal to! But he is becoming OK with Lit.com. In other words I don't hide this from him and it doesn't feel like cheating). If we are honest with ourselves you know this. Only in our own minds can we be completely truthful. And when it comes to people we don't know nearly as well as our mates, that line becomes even more defined. Think of co-workers or aquaintances. Are their fantasies any less bizarre than yours? (Well, maybe mine are more ) But they will never let you know it ....
Thanks for the opportunity for freedom. I hope to lose ALL inhibitions in the safety of this thread and am looking forward to hearing the same from the rest of you!

 

[KHAN-E]

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Let's say that were such a place where 'reality' could be placed aside for a month or so. A resort where no one has names, where a relaxing spa treatment is more sensual than refreshing and where pleasure and unabated sexual fulfillment are the key phrases and where the service is outstanding.


If you wanted to apply for work there - what would you be willing to do and how would that change you?

Being "The Official Lit. Slut", and being branded a slut in my own hometown, there are very few lines I have not crossed, or would not be willing to cross, to give and get sexual pleasure. Therefore, I see myself in a position of a "sex worker" of some sort.

I suppose I could simply be a massuese, a dancer, or a prostitute. But I think of myself as more of a sex therapist. Or a sexual "Customer Service" representative for the retreat center. My job would be to ensure the sexual satisfaction and gratification of each visitor.

I don't think such a job would change me in any dramatic way. But it would provide some vindication for my lifestyle.

 

[plesmone]

dizzylia,

Liked the story - has a lot of elements that strick home.

 

[dizzylia]

dizzylia,

Liked the story - has a lot of elements that strick home.

Thank you, plesmone. It was a rather rusty attempt, but I'm hoping the next will be better. I'm glad you liked it though.

 

[plesmone]

Thank you, plesmone. It was a rather rusty attempt, but I'm hoping the next will be better. I'm glad you liked it though.

The story makes me want to hang around for another

 

[KHAN-E]

The story makes me want to hang around for another

That pic makes me want to hang around for another !!!

 

[plesmone]

That pic makes me want to hang around for another !!!

 

[plesmone]

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Being "The Official Lit. Slut", and being branded a slut in my own hometown, there are very few lines I have not crossed, or would not be willing to cross, to give and get sexual pleasure. Therefore, I see myself in a position of a "sex worker" of some sort.

With the experience you describe, please allow me to learn from you.

In a relationship, do you prefer to receive pleasure first or give pleasure - why? If you get pleasure first are you more aggressive in your lovemaking or just the opposite?

Exactly what was it about my picture that you found inviting?
what about the second pic?

 

[KHAN-E]

Yummy Tits! Is that you?!?!

 

[KHAN-E]

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With the experience you describe, please allow me to learn from you.

In a relationship, do you prefer to receive pleasure first or give pleasure - why? If you get pleasure first are you more aggressive in your lovemaking or just the opposite?

Exactly what was it about my picture that you found inviting?
what about the second pic?

Glad to be a teacher. A new position for me.

It doesn't really matter who receives pleasure "first", but in every sexual encounter, both parties should receive pleasure. And, therefore, both should give pleasure. I do LUV to make my partners CUM!! With females I LUV to make them CUM repeatedly, if they are willing.

I do tend to be fairly aggressive in my lovemakeing. I do not look butch in any way (I look a lot like my av), but I am the aggressor (dom./top) in my relationship with women.

The only possible expception would be with my older sister, my first lover. But in our recent times together (she lives overseas), I have been the aggressor, even with her.

If that is you in the picture, you are gorgeous. You have a beautiful body. The stance in the first pic seems inviting, as if you are waiting to be taken to new heights of pleasure.

The second pics highlights some very delectable titties. Are yours sensitive? Mine are. A lover can get me to do ANYTHING if he/she spends enough time pleasuring my tits.

 

[plesmone]

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Glad to be a teacher. A new position for me.

Thanks for the comments, but my breasts are too small and a lot of workout time goes into keeping my bottom from spreading!!

My breasts are very sensitive. I really start to squirm if too much time is spent playing with my nipples. If I have children, I don’t want to nurse so that the idea of sucking remains purely sexual.

This probably is naive, but what does ‘on top” entail with another woman? I understand the idea of control. When I am on top of my lover, I control the penetration, stroke, and angle of his cock—I control the pace and pleasure. Is this the same idea?

I have little experience in being with a woman. At a party in college a girl kissed me. I found myself founding her breast with almost no hesitation. I almost came when she slipped her hand into my pants. That was the most exciting thing that had ever happened to me! Out of fear, I never saw her again, but I still remember the feeling.

What exactly does the aggressive partner do? Maybe the question is naive, but I’m wet just thinking about the possibilities.

 

[dizzylia]

The story makes me want to hang around for another

Thank you! I actually have two I'm working on right now, so hopefully in another couple weeks you'll have one to read.

And wow, those pictures were wonderful! You have a gorgeous body, plesmone.

 

[KHAN-E]

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Thanks for the comments, but my breasts are too small and a lot of workout time goes into keeping my bottom from spreading!!

My breasts are very sensitive. I really start to squirm if too much time is spent playing with my nipples. If I have children, I don’t want to nurse so that the idea of sucking remains purely sexual.

This probably is naive, but what does ‘on top” entail with another woman? I understand the idea of control. When I am on top of my lover, I control the penetration, stroke, and angle of his cock—I control the pace and pleasure. Is this the same idea?

I have little experience in being with a woman. At a party in college a girl kissed me. I found myself founding her breast with almost no hesitation. I almost came when she slipped her hand into my pants. That was the most exciting thing that had ever happened to me! Out of fear, I never saw her again, but I still remember the feeling.

What exactly does the aggressive partner do? Maybe the question is naive, but I’m wet just thinking about the possibilities.

"Top" and "Bottom" are primarily BDSM terms. I'm not into BDSM, but do find the terms to be relevant to most sexual relationships. The "Top" is the Dominant member of the relationship, the one "in control". The "Bottom" is the submissive.

It may depend on just how aggressive the "Top" might be as to what she might do. I am the one who begins the kissing, the fondling, the undressing, etc. in most of my encounters.

With my most regular female partner, my younger cousin, Amy, I control most of the action. I decide what toys are to be used when and where, etc. But she does surprise me quite often, and I find it very exciting, when she takes charge. For us "Top" and Bottom" are relative terms. I'm more dominant, more aggressive. But I allow her to be as agressive or dominant as she desires to be.

I LUV your reminiscence of your encounter. I bet you get dripping wet just remembering that experience. Do you think you are ready to go further now? Just how far do you want to go?

I'm wet just thinking of the possibilities!

 

[plesmone]

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"Top" and "Bottom" are primarily BDSM terms. I'm not into BDSM, but do find the terms to be relevant to most sexual relationships. The "Top" is the Dominant member of the relationship, the one "in control". The "Bottom" is the submissive.

It may depend on just how aggressive the "Top" might be as to what she might do. I am the one who begins the kissing, the fondling, the undressing, etc. in most of my encounters.

With my most regular female partner, my younger cousin, Amy, I control most of the action. I decide what toys are to be used when and where, etc. But she does surprise me quite often, and I find it very exciting, when she takes charge. For us "Top" and Bottom" are relative terms. I'm more dominant, more aggressive. But I allow her to be as agressive or dominant as she desires to be.

I LUV your reminiscence of your encounter. I bet you get dripping wet just remembering that experience. Do you think you are ready to go further now? Just how far do you want to go?

I'm wet just thinking of the possibilities!

Thanks for the explanations.

What kind of toys? And I never thought about undressing. Somehow I guess I just always imagined being undressed already and into the whole thing. The thought of being undressed by another woman is, well, hot. No fumbling with snaps and all—the clothes must come off a lot different than when a man undresses you.

Ready to go further? um… My husband is a GREAT lover, but he travels with his job almost every week. I’m not unhappy, just, unfulfilled, if that's the right term or maybe lonely is a better word. I get hit on by men a lot, but have no real inclination to take any of it serious. It’s funny, in my mind, to be with another man is cheating, but the possibility of being with a woman is not--it's intriguing and has excitement.

That encounter in college was over a year ago, but I find my heart still races a bit when I close my eyes and re-live the experience. The foundling of her breasts—to feel someone else’s nipples become hard to my touch was amazing to me. The way it felt to have her hand slide into my pants, not a rough hand going straight for the prize, but a soft, slender hand that made me close my eyes and shiver. Would I feel the same way again or was it just the excitement of a new and different encounter?

I balance the thoughts of what would have happened if I had done more with her with what would have happened it everyone knew I had been with her. I do get wet, but it is when I realize the possiblities of a new encounter, but I guess I don’t know if it would be worth the risk. Does any of this make sense?

 

[plesmone]

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I do not look butch in any way (I look a lot like my av), but I am the aggressor (dom./top) in my relationship with women.

There's nothing butch about your av.
That dark, curly hair looks thick enough to wrap both hands in. Eyes closed in anticipation, lips pursed for a soft kiss, a beautiful neck leading to rounded breasts. But best of all is that well-defined area of bare skin that points the way to a very inviting, but neglected place. All in all, a very nice av – I like it.

I hope to pick an av that speaks as well for myself. What about this one? (I'm starting to love digital freedom!!)

 

[dizzylia]

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I hope to pick an av that speaks as well for myself. What about this one? (I'm starting to love digital freedom!!)

I love the black and white. And the picture itself of course.

 

[plesmone]

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I love the black and white. And the picture itself of course.

Black and white can be really great. Where is your picture dizzylia? I'd love to see it

 

[dizzylia]

Pictures

Black and white can be really great. Where is your picture dizzylia? I'd love to see it

I can't seem to locate my digital camera, which worries me a little. Hopefully it'll turn up soon. And after that, I'll give you guys something to see.

 

[KHAN-E]

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Thanks for the explanations.

What kind of toys? And I never thought about undressing. Somehow I guess I just always imagined being undressed already and into the whole thing. The thought of being undressed by another woman is, well, hot. No fumbling with snaps and all—the clothes must come off a lot different than when a man undresses you.

Ready to go further? um… My husband is a GREAT lover, but he travels with his job almost every week. I’m not unhappy, just, unfulfilled, if that's the right term or maybe lonely is a better word. I get hit on by men a lot, but have no real inclination to take any of it serious. It’s funny, in my mind, to be with another man is cheating, but the possibility of being with a woman is not--it's intriguing and has excitement.

That encounter in college was over a year ago, but I find my heart still races a bit when I close my eyes and re-live the experience. The foundling of her breasts—to feel someone else’s nipples become hard to my touch was amazing to me. The way it felt to have her hand slide into my pants, not a rough hand going straight for the prize, but a soft, slender hand that made me close my eyes and shiver. Would I feel the same way again or was it just the excitement of a new and different encounter?

I balance the thoughts of what would have happened if I had done more with her with what would have happened it everyone knew I had been with her. I do get wet, but it is when I realize the possiblities of a new encounter, but I guess I don’t know if it would be worth the risk. Does any of this make sense?

It all makes perfect sense. You are cautiously and logically thinking through the possibilities. That is a very good idea. Especially since there is some "risk" involved, as you are married.

I have a wide selection of toys, including various vibs., dildos ( a few doubled headed ones, though they aren't my favorites), a strap-on harness, and a couple of paddles (Amy likes being spanked).

My first lover (my older sister) was so adept at undresing me, she would sometimes unbutton my blouse without me even realizing she had done it. A few "close calls" came from that as I almost went out in public that way.

I hope my answers are helpful in your explorations.

 

[KHAN-E]

Re: Pictures

I can't seem to locate my digital camera, which worries me a little. Hopefully it'll turn up soon. And after that, I'll give you guys something to see.

PLEASE DO!!!

I'll be waiting, wetly!!

 

[plesmone]

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It all makes perfect sense. You are cautiously and logically thinking through the possibilities. That is a very good idea. Especially since there is some "risk" involved, as you are married.

I have a wide selection of toys, including various vibs., dildos ( a few doubled headed ones, though they aren't my favorites), a strap-on harness, and a couple of paddles (Amy likes being spanked).

My first lover (my older sister) was so adept at undresing me, she would sometimes unbutton my blouse without me even realizing she had done it. A few "close calls" came from that as I almost went out in public that way.

I hope my answers are helpful in your explorations.

Your answers are VERY helpful, but you didn’t answer the question I most hoped for: is it just as exciting for you to be with a woman as in the beginning? Do you still shiver when her hand caresses your breasts? Is there a difference when her hand runs from your thigh to explore the source of your wetness? That’s what I need to know—is it fresh and exciting each time or routine and matter of fact?

 

[BlondeBunny]

We have something in common

Hi ladies!

I was so excited to see this thread... I am a very sexual very happily married woman. "This" all began when my hubby and I started talking about a threesome (FFM). Yes, the FFM was initially his fantasy and has slowly become my curiosity. Now, I am very very curious. I want to experience a woman with and without my husband. He is completly supportive of this. But, finding a woman has been really hard. I feel like I'm stumbling over shoes that are too big - where do I go, what do I say, how do I begin?

We are on the same quest, with the same stumbling block, I'm afraid. My husband shared his fantasy about a FFM threesome with me, and I have decided that I find this situation highly intriguing. My only stipulation is that the other woman be someone neither of us know, initially. Hubby's primary motivation is to watch another woman pleasure me, and to watch while I explore a woman's body. Naturally, he would like to join in at some point, which I would find highly erotic. I have never been with another woman, not even a kiss. I just think it would be an awesome turn-on to have a soft pair of hands, and an even softer tongue on my breasts, my nipples, and inside of me. So, where do I begin to look? I'm not looking for an emotional relationship by any means. I have that with my husband, and neither of us is looking to change our scope of commitment to each other. We are just looking to satisfy a mutual fantasy.

 

[plesmone]

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I can't seem to locate my digital camera, which worries me a little. Hopefully it'll turn up soon. And after that, I'll give you guys something to see.

Come on dizzlia - where's the camera. Post a picture or at least an av. I took mine off, because I didn't want to be the only one.

 

[dizzylia]

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Come on dizzlia - where's the camera. Post a picture or at least an av. I took mine off, because I didn't want to be the only one.

*laughs* Trust me, I'm looking. That thing was expensive. And wouldn't you know it, out of the few things I kept, it was the one my husband bitched most about? Bah, stupid man.

And I don't think I've posted enough yet to have an avitar. All in good time. I'll be sure to post one.