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craftsman
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- May 1, 2014
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In real life, I have not chosen much younger women often. However, a few years ago when I was single, in between marriages, there was one lovely younger woman who reached out to me. She responded to a profile I had created on okcupid that mentioned D/s and had many of the sexual questions answered. This profile invited women to enjoy an FWB and explore submission.
It turned out she was a recent college graduate and was very intelligent and articulate. She was also unusually mature. Those are the things I liked.
As for what a younger woman likes? That women above said she was drawn to my dominance and the gentle way I had with her, how I got to know her and become friends in addition to playmates. She told me recently that our time together was very healing for her.
Other things that I hear from younger women about older men is the ease of submitting to someone who has succeeded in life, not necessarily with money, but just as a person. Dominance can come more naturally as a man acquires life experience and confidence. It's not true of everyone of course. Just because their biological age is higher, it doesn't happen automatically.
As for sex, I know I am much, much better lover than when I was in my 20s and 30s. I'm not talking about mere skills either, but that's part of it. Just a better understanding of how women are. For a young woman, or any woman, a big key is to be seen and appreciated, which is not as simple as it sounds. Being appreciated in this way by someone with substance and experience meets an important need. To get them. Hear them. Notice all the ways they are beautiful. It's not just words, it's how you act, including during sex. When I am sexual with a woman, part of the time, I'm soaking into me all that beauty that is being offered. A woman feels that inside. These encounters are deeper than just the acts of sex.
Confidence is a turn-on for virtually every woman. There is confidence which a younger man can project, but it's not the same as that acquired over time by the success I mention above- life success: persevering through hard times, becoming a better boss, raising good children to adulthood, etc. It is a million small things together.
There's more but I have to get going.
It turned out she was a recent college graduate and was very intelligent and articulate. She was also unusually mature. Those are the things I liked.
As for what a younger woman likes? That women above said she was drawn to my dominance and the gentle way I had with her, how I got to know her and become friends in addition to playmates. She told me recently that our time together was very healing for her.
Other things that I hear from younger women about older men is the ease of submitting to someone who has succeeded in life, not necessarily with money, but just as a person. Dominance can come more naturally as a man acquires life experience and confidence. It's not true of everyone of course. Just because their biological age is higher, it doesn't happen automatically.
As for sex, I know I am much, much better lover than when I was in my 20s and 30s. I'm not talking about mere skills either, but that's part of it. Just a better understanding of how women are. For a young woman, or any woman, a big key is to be seen and appreciated, which is not as simple as it sounds. Being appreciated in this way by someone with substance and experience meets an important need. To get them. Hear them. Notice all the ways they are beautiful. It's not just words, it's how you act, including during sex. When I am sexual with a woman, part of the time, I'm soaking into me all that beauty that is being offered. A woman feels that inside. These encounters are deeper than just the acts of sex.
Confidence is a turn-on for virtually every woman. There is confidence which a younger man can project, but it's not the same as that acquired over time by the success I mention above- life success: persevering through hard times, becoming a better boss, raising good children to adulthood, etc. It is a million small things together.
There's more but I have to get going.
