Kasumi_Lee
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I realize that since men can theoretically get away with getting a woman pregnant with no consequences or even knowledge that they fathered a child that it might be mostly a male fantasy, but this is honestly my number-one kink as a woman and features prominently in the stories I write. For some people, it may be as simple as just "letting nature take its course", and that's fair enough, but my reasons are summarized below:
If I had to summarize why I feel so strongly towards this kink in one word, it would be "vulnerability". Being female is vulnerable in so many ways, but especially when it comes to procreation. On the one hand, it's the ultimate female flex: every single human being alive today and who has ever lived started life inside a woman's body and, unless they were born through a c-section, had to pass through a vagina in order to enter this world. On the other hand, the ability to become pregnant is also incredibly vulnerable. A man can dramatically and permanently transform the course of your life using just his penis (the very tool that defines him as a man).
Being vulnerable isn't an inherently bad thing. Being intimate with someone requires opening up to them, and them to you, letting them inside you emotionally and not just sexually. Making yourself vulnerable to someone means giving them the power to hurt you and trusting that they won't. The fact that the man thrusting between my thighs, whom I'm holding close to my naked body, and in whose ear I’m whispering naughty things, could get me pregnant is so vulnerable and hot. Depending on what other kinks you're working with, it could be the ultimate act of love a man can give to a woman: the gift of life itself; or it could be the ultimate assertion of sexual dominance by a strong man over a vulnerable and fertile woman.
And all that is before getting to the vulnerability of pregnancy itself: my need and desire to be taken care of by the man whose baby is growing in my belly, my reliance on his protection and support growing in proportion to the size of my pregnant belly. I could go onto the vulnerability of giving birth to his child, relying on the safety of his presence and his emotional support while simultaneously summoning my own inner strength to push his child, our child, into the world.
That summary was longer than I thought it would be, and I don't know how much of it resonates with you, but I'd love to hear from any other women who share this kink.
If I had to summarize why I feel so strongly towards this kink in one word, it would be "vulnerability". Being female is vulnerable in so many ways, but especially when it comes to procreation. On the one hand, it's the ultimate female flex: every single human being alive today and who has ever lived started life inside a woman's body and, unless they were born through a c-section, had to pass through a vagina in order to enter this world. On the other hand, the ability to become pregnant is also incredibly vulnerable. A man can dramatically and permanently transform the course of your life using just his penis (the very tool that defines him as a man).
Being vulnerable isn't an inherently bad thing. Being intimate with someone requires opening up to them, and them to you, letting them inside you emotionally and not just sexually. Making yourself vulnerable to someone means giving them the power to hurt you and trusting that they won't. The fact that the man thrusting between my thighs, whom I'm holding close to my naked body, and in whose ear I’m whispering naughty things, could get me pregnant is so vulnerable and hot. Depending on what other kinks you're working with, it could be the ultimate act of love a man can give to a woman: the gift of life itself; or it could be the ultimate assertion of sexual dominance by a strong man over a vulnerable and fertile woman.
And all that is before getting to the vulnerability of pregnancy itself: my need and desire to be taken care of by the man whose baby is growing in my belly, my reliance on his protection and support growing in proportion to the size of my pregnant belly. I could go onto the vulnerability of giving birth to his child, relying on the safety of his presence and his emotional support while simultaneously summoning my own inner strength to push his child, our child, into the world.
That summary was longer than I thought it would be, and I don't know how much of it resonates with you, but I'd love to hear from any other women who share this kink.
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