To older gentlemen who’ve connected with much younger women—what drew them to you?

[Scotchlander]

I never saw any appeal to guys who were my parents age or older at any age. I also don’t feel any attraction younger enough to be my child.

I was the same. But over time I found my taste changed. I tried both and love an age difference.

 

[Noor]

I was the same. But over time I found my taste changed. I tried both and love an age difference.

I’m 65, and for a while I extended my age range to 10yrs to either side of my age, but I gone back to 5 yrs either side. Perhaps someone special may change my mind back someday, but I’m not looking, I’m happy where I am.

 

[beenawhile4u]

I’m a younger husband, and my wife happens to be strongly drawn to older men—something she’s open about. I’m trying to understand this better, not out of insecurity but with curiosity and love. For those of you who’ve had genuine connections with women much younger than you—what do you think it is that attracts them? Is it how you carry yourself? The way you listen? The calmness that comes with age?

Any insights would help me grow and be better for her, without trying to be someone I’m not.

that's very true my girlfriends and past wife's had all been younger one wife and girlfriend was 15,yrs my junior I ask many of them what they see in this older man? they all pretty much said the same just different wording, I'm mature and have alot of life experience and I treat women like they want and take great care of them they want fir nothing and when it comes to sex I think of there pleasure very first and always I'll get mine by knowing they getting there's I do things alot of young guys will not do I left them be the person they are and show them great life and don't go without by me working hard to provide and I'm a protector also women feel very safe with me no matter where we go and I can give oral sex fir long time and know how to please them with just my mouth and tounge and fingers without using the hard live cock and my stamina is high fir my age cause I take care of myself and very active and let them know it's okay to want this or try this and to explore and they can do things to me that they could only think about with most guys if there past I'm very open

 

[RP_Goals]

I never saw any appeal to guys who were my parents age or older at any age. I also don’t feel any attraction younger enough to be my child.

You need to get that shitty attitude fucked out of you.

 

[BgDaddy33]

I’m a younger husband, and my wife happens to be strongly drawn to older men—something she’s open about. I’m trying to understand this better, not out of insecurity but with curiosity and love. For those of you who’ve had genuine connections with women much younger than you—what do you think it is that attracts them? Is it how you carry yourself? The way you listen? The calmness that comes with age?

Any insights would help me grow and be better for her, without trying to be someone I’m not.

It would behoove you to ask your wife what the draw is for her... each woman will approach this differently. From what I have been told, often it has to do with how and older man comes across. We have more patience, we listen more. We know what we bring to the table, so there is more confidence. There is a sense of stability and safety that is often mentioned.

Of course, she could very well have a Daddy kink, or be submissive and crave those particular attributes to help her flesh out her fantasy.

Talk to your wife. Keep an open mind.

 

[Pad_Foot]

The moment you are finally old enough she will go all cougar and look for younger guys or gals

 

[BiDrew42]

Before I moved to Australia, I had a relationship with a woman who was half my age. I was 52, she was 26. She was the daughter of some friends and I had known her since she was very young. I was initially uncomfortable with our age gap even though I had developed a preference for younger women, but she assured me that she preferred older men. She explained that she found men her age to be immature, selfish lovers, and impatient, while older men were patient, experienced, and more concerned with her pleasure than their own. We became quite close, had incredible sex, and even talked about her accompanying me to Australia and getting married. Even though we no longer have a sexual relationship, she is one of my best friends and we talk often. She has visited me a couple of times in Sydney.

 

[TinaCole]

"Younger women today don't know what its like to have someone be nice to them, and appreciate them. It's not a daddy thing, unless a daddy thing is having someone actually be interested in them as a person and chooses to commuicate in person rather than a text or cell phone. They can get that from an AI bot who will be more focused on them than the gen x, y ,x and millenials are."

 

[Setanta84]

When I entered my forties, I noticed I'd start to get messages from women in their late teens and twenties calling me "Papi" or "Daddy." I found it a little weird at first.

In my experience, they aren't looking for money or stability. They're looking for guys who knows how to fuck. And they're very often transparently fetishizing developmental trauma.

At this point, if a 20-year-old with a nice ass wants me to spank her and call her names as we have rough sex, I don't ask too many questions.

 

[Biglibido99]

I connected with a woman online 3 years ago and we are still connected sexually and emotionally. She lives in a different country and is 30 years younger than me.

She told me that it was my ability to hold an interesting & naturally flowing conversation that attracted her as well as my interest in her and her life - not just her sexuality, although that also played a big part of our connection.

She says I always lift her when she's in a bad mood, make her smile and help her through her troubles.
There's no sugar daddy aspect to our relationship and she doesn't have a daddy fetish. She is intelligent & mature, which means we can talk about anything and can understand each others opinions, even when we disagree.

She came to my city for a week and stayed in an apartment, I own. I met her at the airport and one thing that surprised her g she liked, was that I took her luggage and wheeled it. Maybe it's just nice to not get trapped by this idea of powerful women who can do everything aid just allow someone to be nice and helpful without feeling diminished or feel they are treating you as incapable?

I'm married but we haven't been intimate in over 15 years but are still together out of convenience, really.

She really wants the physical closeness of a man, the hugs, kisses & sex which she has explored in the last 3 years with a number of guys closer to her age & in her own country. Maybe it's because she has contacted them through a hook up app but they have all been transactional, one or two night fucks & haven't become longer term or deeper friends.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Update on my gym pal, for anyone interested. So we have done a couple more lunches and continue to progress towards something. Not sure yet though what it quite is. Friends? Friends with benefits? Or just a fuck or two. But leaning towards some physical activity soon. She’s in. Just being careful on my end. Have sent a few pics back and forth. Looks just as good out of clothes, I must say.

 

[Greedy_lion]

Just being confident and not treating them like a prize/object but as an actual person whom I am genuinely interested in getting to know better. Same as I do with older woman. I just don’t care about age.