Exploring with women

[jazey_43]

Re: coffee? jazey_43

South Bend area. Where are you?

Been to SouthBend...nice place! I'm in Wisconsin...Southern...almost to the Illinois Border.......







3 girls on top of the coffee bar?......mmmmmmm...

 

[dizzylia]

Re: Re: coffee? jazey_43

Been to SouthBend...nice place! I'm in Wisconsin...Southern...almost to the Illinois Border.......

Damn, wrong border.

And that's one coffee bar I'd love to visit.

 

[dizzylia]

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So why not give it le olden collage try??

Because she's my best friend and happily married with kids. I think this will have to stay in the realm of fantasy until it runs its course. If it ever does.

 

[sensualpilgrim]

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Because she's my best friend and happily married with kids. I think this will have to stay in the realm of fantasy until it runs its course. If it ever does.

Why don't you recruit her husband into this little romanace? I think he might get a kick out of it even if she just tell him about her experiences.

 

[dizzylia]

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Why don't you recruit her husband into this little romanace? I think he might get a kick out of it even if she just tell him about her experiences.

*grins* I've considered that, honestly. But... I don't know. When I told her I'm bi, we talked for quite a while and at one point she said she's straight, but there have been many nights where she's lain awake in bed and thought about it. Which torments me further. Is she curious or... just married with kids?

Bah. But at least now we can actually talk about it. It's a good first step, I think.

 

[jazey_43]

Re: Re: Re: coffee? jazey_43

Damn, wrong border.

And that's one coffee bar I'd love to visit.

mmmmm, what border did ya want?...*grins*

 

[sensualpilgrim]

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*grins* I've considered that, honestly. But... I don't know. When I told her I'm bi, we talked for quite a while and at one point she said she's straight, but there have been many nights where she's lain awake in bed and thought about it. Which torments me further. Is she curious or... just married with kids?

Bah. But at least now we can actually talk about it. It's a good first step, I think.

Stop wondering. She's curious and it always kill the cat sooner or later. Better give in to temptation sooner so that when you're both old and grey, she won't mutter "I has wanted to do it but I was too damn chicken to do it. I wish I has done it because time flee so fleetingly in our youth and before I finally got my heart up, I find myself without my teeth!"

Kids have their own lives and they don't need to know everything not their business. Personally, I think relaxed honesty about sex around children make for better adults than grim shyness.

 

[dizzylia]

Re: Re: Re: Re: coffee? jazey_43

mmmmm, what border did ya want?...*grins*

*points to another board and grins* Oh well. Illinois is nice and all too. I suppose. *dramatic sigh*

 

[TheDagda]

Thanks for the comments, but my breasts are too small

Are they actually concave? If not, they're not too small. Take it from one who's lovers have historically had A-cups or smaller, and whose wife isn't even in the running for the Pencil Test.

The Dagda

 

[dizzylia]

Are they actually concave? If not, they're not too small. Take it from one who's lovers have historically had A-cups or smaller, and whose wife isn't even in the running for the Pencil Test.

The Dagda

Pencil Test? Do I want to know what that is?

 

[redrider4u]

Pencil Test? Do I want to know what that is?

The pencil test measures the "perkiness" of a boobie. Simply place a pencil under your boobie; if it stays in place held by your boobie..........well, you can draw your own conclusions.

It's one of those meaningless measurements in which we find silly interest.

btw.......I read your stories. Well written and very, very sensual and erotic.

 

[dizzylia]

The pencil test measures the "perkiness" of a boobie. Simply place a pencil under your boobie; if it stays in place held by your boobie..........well, you can draw your own conclusions.

It's one of those meaningless measurements in which we find silly interest.

btw.......I read your stories. Well written and very, very sensual and erotic.

Ahhh, of course. Thank you!

 

[WrkHrdPlaHrdr]

The pencil test measures the "perkiness" of a boobie. Simply place a pencil under your boobie; if it stays in place held by your boobie..........well, you can draw your own conclusions.

It's one of those meaningless measurements in which we find silly interest.

btw.......I read your stories. Well written and very, very sensual and erotic.

Meaningless.....yes I agree, Red. The natural shape of the breast is NOT jutting straight out like Madonna cones with tassels, reminiscent of her 80's videos.
The natural shape, affected by gravity, as it was meant to be, is the loveliest for me! Dr. Suess?

OK....I've never claimed my writing was gracefull!!!

 

[WrkHrdPlaHrdr]

OK ladies......I have a question that is a bit relative to the thread.

I have a suspicion that my gf may like other women.

Often, I see her look at them and make comments, such as, "she's pretty sexy, Huh?" She is thrilled to have other women attracted to me and is rarely jealous. She doesnt mind me looking and actually seems to enjoy it, although when I am with her, I try not to do this. A respect thing I guess.

Myself, having been in a fmf situation a few times, we talked about it and she asked me a lot of questions, and seemed a bit excited.

Personally, I think the idea of her being with another woman is very sexy, but when I approach her with the idea, I get an adamant....NO....not interested. I have never faulted a woman for being attracted to another woman. How could I? They like the same thing I do!

She is of Latin heritage(USA for thirteen years), very sexy and extremely open sexually(now). In Chile there are many sexual taboos that are instilled from early childhood. We sure ...are lucky here!

We have a very active and incredible sex life. We are both, VERY secure in our relationship.

I feel I'm usually fairly perceptive and we are both pretty tuned into each other, but I just can't figure this one out.

Not that it really matters, I would never push. I am just quite curious! I'm trying NOT to think about the "curious cat".

Any thoughts on this?

Not wanting to hijack this thread, you can PM me if that would be more appropriate.

I find your open sexuality on this thead, refreshing, interesting and sexy!

Thanks

 

[sensualpilgrim]

OK ladies......I have a question that is a bit relative to the thread.

I have a suspicion that my gf may like other women.

Often, I see her look at them and make comments, such as, "she's pretty sexy, Huh?" She is thrilled to have other women attracted to me and is rarely jealous. She doesnt mind me looking and actually seems to enjoy it, although when I am with her, I try not to do this. A respect thing I guess.

Myself, having been in a fmf situation a few times, we talked about it and she asked me a lot of questions, and seemed a bit excited.

Personally, I think the idea of her being with another woman is very sexy, but when I approach her with the idea, I get an adamant....NO....not interested. I have never faulted a woman for being attracted to another woman. How could I? They like the same thing I do!

She is of Latin heritage(USA for thirteen years), very sexy and extremely open sexually(now). In Chile there are many sexual taboos that are instilled from early childhood. We sure ...are lucky here!

We have a very active and incredible sex life. We are both, VERY secure in our relationship.

I feel I'm usually fairly perceptive and we are both pretty tuned into each other, but I just can't figure this one out.

Not that it really matters, I would never push. I am just quite curious! I'm trying NOT to think about the "curious cat".

Any thoughts on this?

Not wanting to hijack this thread, you can PM me if that would be more appropriate.

I find your open sexuality on this thead, refreshing, interesting and sexy!

Thanks

Sound to me that she's more into watching you getting off than in girl-girl action herself. When she want to try bisex, she'll tell you.

 

[Young Knave]

*grins* This is very true. Let's just say the men I've been with weren't great communicators, and when it came to sex their vocabulary tended to disintegrate into grunts and guttural moans.

I'd wager you're doign something write then. Sounds like it anyways.

 

[dizzylia]

I have a suspicion that my gf may like other women....

Hi! Wow, it's been a while since I posted here. I might be rusty.

The ability to be able to recognize and admit that another person of the same gender is attractive, even sexy, does not always mean that person is bisexual or gay. Perhaps it is simply a question of aesthetics. I know for me, there are several people I've seen who I would call sexy, and yet I don't really want to jump their bones or anything. It was simply an acknowledgement about something in that other person that made them attractive.

I'm not really saying that your girlfriend is not bisexual. I'm just saying there are other possibilities. If you've suggested a fmf situation and she's said no, I'd say that's pretty clear she's either just not into it, or she's not ready for it. Just don't push her, because both of you will probably end up burnt.

Instead, I'd suggest asking her why she said so-and-so is attractive or sexy. What brought it on? What does it mean to her when she says something like that about someone?

 

[sweetnlovely]

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I am very happily married, but also very curious about females. i would just like to have an experience, you know? my husband is very supportive. i just want to know what it would feel like to have a woman exploring me and making me feel sexy!

Oh boy, do I understand it. I've been thinking about this for a few years now...okay, obsessing...lol, my hubby is all for it, as long as he can be involved...MEN! lol, which I'm okay with, but I have no idea where to start looking! I love the thought of a woman's soft hands and mouth (no stubble, hahaha) all over my body, and reading stories on here, especially about women's first times, really turns me on! I guess what I really need is a more experienced woman who can take the lead, since I'm not quite sure what to do and how to do it.

I have to agree, though, that personality has everything to do with it. I've met women that were physically amazing, but did nothing for me, and others who were average but they just oozed sexuality and made me drool. It's like liking sex and being confident about it sends off pheremones or something!

 

[dizzylia]

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Oh boy, do I understand it. I've been thinking about this for a few years now...okay, obsessing...lol, my hubby is all for it, as long as he can be involved...MEN! lol, which I'm okay with, but I have no idea where to start looking! I love the thought of a woman's soft hands and mouth (no stubble, hahaha) all over my body, and reading stories on here, especially about women's first times, really turns me on! I guess what I really need is a more experienced woman who can take the lead, since I'm not quite sure what to do and how to do it.

I have to agree, though, that personality has everything to do with it. I've met women that were physically amazing, but did nothing for me, and others who were average but they just oozed sexuality and made me drool. It's like liking sex and being confident about it sends off pheremones or something!

I totally agree about the sexiness. For me, finding someone attractive has rarely had anything to do with their physical appearance.

And as for the first part, that sounds pretty familiar. I'd had this torturous crush on my best friend for a couple years. I never brought it up, but we discussed sexuality every now and then. I never said I was bi, but I never said I wasn't, either. She was always sure to tell me how straight she was, though, so I just kind of put my little crush down as a "lost cause" and tried to move on.

Eventually I ended up moving in with my best friend and her family (husband and two kids), both to help out the family and to save myself from the New England rent rates. Of course, this only increased my torture. Unknown to me, however, she had begun to think of me in a sexual way. When she brought it up with her husband, he said he wouldn't mind as long as he could join in.

So one night, she shared that with me. Imagine my shock.

That was about half a year ago now, and we've since exchanged their full-sized bed for a king-sized bed. *grins* You just never know.

 

[sweetnlovely]

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If you need an extra pair of hands and a digital camera, I could probably scrounge up a volunteer for a photo session with ya.

Isn't just the thought of a photo session erotic...being told how to position yourself in order to look your sexiest, while the camera clicks away? ...sigh.... One of my fantasies entails someone clicking away while my hubby and possibly others play!

 

[Guest]

I am so happy I discovered this thread! I have only just begun to accept and explore my feelings for other women, with a little help and advice from some wonderfully warm, supportive and more experienced people here. I finally had my first real experience last weekend, and it was all I had ever hoped for and fantasized about, and so much more! The amazing thing is that I now feel so free and brave and eager to be as adventurous in every aspect of my life. What on earth was I waiting for all these years?

 

[dizzylia]

I am so happy I discovered this thread! I have only just begun to accept and explore my feelings for other women, with a little help and advice from some wonderfully warm, supportive and more experienced people here. I finally had my first real experience last weekend, and it was all I had ever hoped for and fantasized about, and so much more! The amazing thing is that I now feel so free and brave and eager to be as adventurous in every aspect of my life. What on earth was I waiting for all these years?

I know exactly what you mean. For me, I think it came with realizing first of all, who I was. And after that, discovering that I could really be who I was, if that makes sense.

 

[Guest]

You make perfect sense. If you're at all like me, you've probably always been attracted to women--I was, from the first--but found those feelings confusing and scary even to accept, much less to act upon. But in the end, the more I tried to deny them, the stronger they became, until they were impossible to supress.

The amazing thing is that I feel this sexual power now, this vitality that's so exhilarating.

 

[dizzylia]

You make perfect sense. If you're at all like me, you've probably always been attracted to women--I was, from the first--but found those feelings confusing and scary even to accept, much less to act upon. But in the end, the more I tried to deny them, the stronger they became, until they were impossible to supress.

The amazing thing is that I feel this sexual power now, this vitality that's so exhilarating.

It did take me a while to realize what it was I was feeling. I wasn't exactly sheltered as a kid... but I guess I just never felt the need to examine my feelings. Once I hit college, though, the realization hit with a bang. And I guess I just never looked back. It was a bit of a thrill, to be honest.

 

[Guest]

A bit of a thrill? Just a bit?

Your stories are great!