Do you "objectify" men?

[Frimost]

I was just watching the Simpsons last night and Marge (really the female version of Flanders IMO) and other "do-gooders" was complaining about men "objectifying" women. That used to be a big rallying cry for the feminists (I don't know if it still is today) in the 1990s.

But how about you women, are you guilty of "objectifying" men, all I ever hear it used for is to describe men's behavior and not the other way around. Personally I don't really give a shit but life’s a two way street and fair is fair, so why isn't it used both ways instead of the edge cutting one direction?

 

[badasschick]

I know I'm objectified everyday, so yeah I'm guilty of doing the same.

 

[Frimost]

I've noticed allot of women like it to a certain extent, as long as its not to salacious, blatant, or crude in character.

On the way to Barnes & Noble last night there was a female jogger wearing a tight green neon tank-top and shorts running by the road side near disk in the 84 degree weather. Her chest was heaving, her breasts were going bouncy-bouncy all over (and they were very generous sized). I slowed down a bit as I was driving by to get a good look (hey-some one that HOT you cant help it) and although I didn't gawk or drool I'm sure she knew I was checking her out. I scoped her out in the rear-view mirror as I went by and I could distinctly tell she was smiling about the whole thing-amused by it all (damned tease-lol).

But hey, I'm the same way when I notice a woman looking at me in that way, its flattering IMO and a good ego boost (so I guess I'm also a damned tease at times as well).

 

[p_p_man]

Dunno whether American women objectify American men but...

they've had them demasculated for decades.

ppman

 

[Laurel]

I objectify life.

 

[Frimost]

I agree BUUUUT that’s like the pot calling the tea-kettle black? If I am not mistaken you are British and you do you think STARTED the whole trend to sissification?

So yea our men have been demasculinized, but its been happening for only about two generations here while its been going on in Britain for at least 100-years or more! lol

But I guess its caled "gentrification" over there, isn't it?

 

[KillerMuffin]

I'm all about pecs and ass. Cock, too, but not in the first thirty minutes.

 

[Nora]

But how about you women, are you guilty of "objectifying" men?

Every damned chance I get, bud.

 

[Frimost]

I bet pro wresling must be the female equivalent to what Baywatch is to men, all the skimpy-clad, in-shape, men wrestling with each other and sweating and stuff. lol

 

[Nora]

no, gay porn is the equivalent. Those fake "pro" wrestlers are icky!

 

[teddybear4play]

Re: Re: Do you "objectify" men?

Every damned chance I get, bud.

Hey, an honest answer, for once.

I hate when I get called a male pig for following a biological instinct of looking at women, especially when the same women will turn around and stare at some guy's ass. It's not our fault we're not good at doing it secretively!

TB4p

 

[Nora]

Ok, a more complete answer then. I think that looking at people who are attractive to you is as natural as breathing. As I like to say, "I don't care if you admire the artwork, but it ain't gonna fit on our livingroom wall." In other words, looking doesn't mean buying.

As far as pornography being "the objectification of women" uh...and? So what? Presuming they're there of their own free will, that's their job. Ditto with males in porn. So what? If someone can't separate a porn queen/king from the people they meet in their day to day life, the problem isn't with porn.

 

[badasschick]

I bet pro wresling must be the female equivalent to what Baywatch is to men, all the skimpy-clad, in-shape, men wrestling with each other and sweating and stuff. lol

Nah, "OZ" is.


damn, if only prison inmates really looked that good.

 

[Private Vasquez]

I sure as hell do. Not to their face, though.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

no, gay porn is the equivalent. Those fake "pro" wrestlers are icky!

Amen !!!

 

[Nora]

I sure as hell do. Not to their face, though.

Well yeah. Their butts are so much better, anyway!

 

[Siren]

 

[Frimost]

Well yeah. Their butts are so much better, anyway!

I beg to differ, women's asses are so much better then men's butts!

 

[Private Vasquez]

I'd have to second that emotion.

Men have the hands and shoulders and biceps, triceps, pecs, traps, hands...and all that other good stuff.

 

[Nora]

I'd have to second that emotion.

Men have the hands and shoulders and biceps, triceps, pecs, traps, hands...and all that other good stuff.

Agrees wholeheartedly with PV!!

Did I mention that I also objectify Barbies?

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Butts

I must diagree with that ... some men have nice asses.

That peach ass ...plumb and delicious.

 

[Nora]

Re: Butts

I must diagree with that ... some men have nice asses.

That peach ass ... plumb and delicious.

I like 'em all. *swoon* Well, except the pancake butt and the really serious bubble-butt. Anything in between is umm..*cough* Up for grabs! *eg*

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Re: Re: Butts

I like 'em all. *swoon* Well, except the pancake butt and the really serious bubble-butt. Anything in between is umm..*cough* Up for grabs! *eg*

There is some thing about smacking that ass .. lately that is all I have been thinking of ..... * day dreaming *


O' but back to the asses .... I agree I like them all ... xcept the dreaded " pancake butt".

 

[Nora]

For me it's squeeeeeeeeezing, not smacking. Although there's definitely something to be said for a nice, resounding thwap. *sigh*

I really hate the baggie pants on guys trend...ya know, the little DJ Jazzy Trevor look...makes 'em all look like they got pancake butt. =(

 

[Frimost]

How's mine?

Is mine alright?
This was taken a few months ago and since then I've lost some weight and gone with the "clean-shaven" look. Plus the angle isn't all that great...but what do you think, is it "grabable"?