Denial Versus the Forced Orgasm

[cutedemon]

Having just dealt with my first denial orgasm, I feel compelled to pipe up in this conversation.

I found my orgasm was more intense after being brought to the brink a few times. It made me feel closer to Him because he was in tune with what was happening to my body and reminding me that I couldn't without his permission every time I got close. Reminded me how much control he had over me.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: fighting it

I guess my involvement in BDSM is much shallower than that of many people here ...

Welcome regardless. Based on what you've said in this thread, i believe you think and share admirably. i enjoyed your post and it provoked some thoughts and questions.

... when I'm in the submissive role, one of the biggest turn-ons for me is to find myself in a position where I have to try to fight off an orgasm as hard as I can, knowing full well that ultimately I won't be able to. The feeling of fighting and fighting it in vain and finally being forced to give in to it is really powerful for me in a lot of ways.

The board has discussed "failure" before in other threads. Care to elaborate on, "powerful for me in a lot of ways?"

 

[ntp]

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[sifer]

I think you worded it very well.

I to love the point were controle both physicaly and emotionaly are lost to me. Wether she is making me cum after telling me I am not allowed to or holding me on the brink for an extended period of time. When she makes the decision of what my body will do regardless of what I want is the ultimate.

 

[Princessintrng]

Denial vs Forced

I have a real problem with having orgasms, I have so much self control that bringing me to the edge and no letting me cum is not an easy task. After about the second or third time, something in my mind just kind of shuts down and it is not an issue for me. However; being forced to have an orgasm makes me feel completely owned. It is almost impossible for me to let go and have an orgasm with someone, for the most part I need the feeling that I have no choice in the matter to be able to have an orgasm. For me I have to cast my vote with forced is far more humiliating, and makes me feel much more submissive.

 

[Kajira Callista]

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