Anybody have them? I'm having them now. There are two men I work with, one is gay and out, very masculine and older, mid to late 50's. The other I was neighbors with and the going theory is he's gay also, early 50's. I'm MWM mid 40's. The out guy has had several encounters with married men here, a friend said he tells him after he swears not to tell. That's why I could never ask, or try anything with them, cause I know it would get out. So I just get chubbies that I have to hide when they're near...lol. Also two different type fantasies, older more dom, show me the way type, younger mutual play equal basis. I just had to tell somebody.