Are there any groups of women out there who form erotic fan clubs for short men?

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BlackShanglan and others seem to assert that short men are equally as sexually popular (or unpopular) as fat women.

Any comparison of facts says this is total bullshit; in that plus sized women have many fan clubs and admirer groups, and even some cultures (i.e., Mexico) look at them as being quite attractive; and that the same exceptions do not exist among women for short men - generally, a short guy who has a girlfriend/wife has some other, major plus in his life (money, fame, seriously good looks) that compensates.

Plenty of guys say "I love me some voluptuous women (in general)", but how many women say "I like short guys" the way they say "I like tall/rich guys (in general)"?
 
Of course there aren't. Not saying short men can't bag beautiful women, they just need to work much harder.
 
VermilionSkye said:
you make it sound like being short is a bad thing.
I wish it weren't a bad thing, but reality says it is very bad for a man's sexual marketability value.

Go back and look at the lit polls for starters - lots more women openly say they won't even touch them, than women who say they will. For once, this reflects what transpires in real life.

Imagine some guy saying "no fat women, please". Well, at least a fat woman has a chance to lose weight. Statistically, how many men have raised their height without the help of platform shoes? So, a woman who says "No short guys for me" (the majority of women) means if you're a short dude, you have an absolutely zero percent chance of being with her. Ever.

Now the short guy is stuck with competing with a legion of men for the few women who will overlook his lack of height.

And I can take you to any major city near you, in Texas, and show you a thousand women dating guys at least 12 inches taller than them.

So men chasing those short ladies who will date men at or near their stature? They've got competition literally towering over them.

Like I said, I wish it weren't a bad thing, but if either of our children had been boys, I would sure as hell be giving them growth hormones.

As for me, I'd rather be dead than 5'6.
 
Joaquin1975 said:
What about short/rich guys?
(From my first post)

a short guy who has a girlfriend/wife has some other, major plus in his life (money, fame, seriously good looks) that compensates.
 
LovingTongue said:
I wish it weren't a bad thing, but reality says it is very bad for a man's sexual marketability value.

Go back and look at the lit polls for starters - lots more women openly say they won't even touch them, than women who say they will. For once, this reflects what transpires in real life.

Imagine some guy saying "no fat women, please". Well, at least a fat woman has a chance to lose weight. Statistically, how many men have raised their height without the help of platform shoes? So, a woman who says "No short guys for me" (the majority of women) means if you're a short dude, you have an absolutely zero percent chance of being with her. Ever.

Now the short guy is stuck with competing with a legion of men for the few women who will overlook his lack of height.

And I can take you to any major city near you, in Texas, and show you a thousand women dating guys at least 12 inches taller than them.

So men chasing those short ladies who will date men at or near their stature? They've got competition literally towering over them.

Like I said, I wish it weren't a bad thing, but if either of our children had been boys, I would sure as hell be giving them growth hormones.

As for me, I'd rather be dead than 5'6.
I'm in ND now, and there are a lot of attractive short guys here. I'm guessing I'm not the norm when I say it wouldn't bother me. I've dated short guys. It's all in how you carry yourself and selfconfidence to me, I guess. I've run the gamut in heights, from 6'6" to 5'...
 
VermilionSkye said:
I'm in ND now, and there are a lot of attractive short guys here. I'm guessing I'm not the norm when I say it wouldn't bother me. I've dated short guys. It's all in how you carry yourself and selfconfidence to me, I guess. I've run the gamut in heights, from 6'6" to 5'...
So you're one of the few who don't mind their height as long as they're attractive. That's a good mark for humanity in and of itself.

I'm looking for any evidence of women who actually look for these guys, the way many men look for BBWs.
 
LovingTongue said:
So you're one of the few who don't mind their height as long as they're attractive. That's a good mark for humanity in and of itself.

I'm looking for any evidence of women who actually look for these guys, the way many men look for BBWs.

Personally, I have not seen any, but I am sure they must be out there. Different strokes for different folks and all that.
 
LovingTongue said:
So you're one of the few who don't mind their height as long as they're attractive. That's a good mark for humanity in and of itself.

I'm looking for any evidence of women who actually look for these guys, the way many men look for BBWs.
Attractive? Well, not to all the people I have known. But it's not always someone's looks that attract me. It could be how they treat others, it could be how they make me think and feel, laugh... a chemistry.
They're are some truly gorgeous men out there who are absolutely ugly.
 
VermilionSkye said:
I'm in ND now, and there are a lot of attractive short guys here. I'm guessing I'm not the norm when I say it wouldn't bother me. I've dated short guys. It's all in how you carry yourself and selfconfidence to me, I guess. I've run the gamut in heights, from 6'6" to 5'...

The criteria varies for different people, but in your case for example, the criteria cannot just be "the guy has to be this tall and he is in"...

From what I understand from what my wife and step daughter said before, height may be a factor, but other things play into the entire picture.

Oh I got the clarification in your last post. Never mind.
 
;) no worries
Joaquin1975 said:
The criteria varies for different people, but in your case for example, the criteria cannot just be "the guy has to be this tall and he is in"...

From what I understand from what my wife and step daughter said before, height may be a factor, but other things play into the entire picture.

Oh I got the clarification in your last post. Never mind.
 
VermilionSkye said:
Attractive? Well, not to all the people I have known. But it's not always someone's looks that attract me. It could be how they treat others, it could be how they make me think and feel, laugh... a chemistry.
They're are some truly gorgeous men out there who are absolutely ugly.
That's because, again, you're on the far right side of the bell curve.
 
I have to get in on this one.......

I prefer short men. I'm only 5'4" so anything over 6'2" is not comfortable for me. Besides, I prefer men who are fairly broad shouldered/stocky so that means, the taller the guy is, the broader he is, and the less likely it will be that I will be able to get on top (I have short legs). So, if I have to choose between short or tall (with all other things being equal), I'm going to go with short.
 
Vermillion is right. Women love short guys. Remember, it's what's on the inside that counts.
 
GranniesJizz said:
Vermillion is right. Women love short guys. Remember, it's what's on the inside that counts.
No, she said she doesn't mind short guys. She didn't say she, or anyone else, seeks them out the way men seek out BBWs.
 
short people


Short People got no reason
Short People got no reason
Short People got no reason
To live

They got little hands
And little eyes
And they walk around
Tellin' great big lies
They got little noses
And tiny little teeth
They wear platform shoes
On their nasty little fett

Well, I don't want no Short People
Don't want no Short People
Don't want no Short People
Round here

Short People are just the same
As you and I
(A Fool Such As I)
All men are brothers
Until the day they die
(It's A Wonderful World)

Short People got nobody
Short People got nobody
Short People got nobody
To love

They got little baby legs
And they stand so low
You got to pick 'em up
Just to say hello
They got little cars
That got beep, beep, beep
They got little voices
Goin' peep, peep, peep
They got grubby little fingers
And dirty little minds
They're gonna get you every time
Well, I don't want no Short People
Don't want no Short People
Don't want no Short People
'Round here
 
Vermillion, I made some cocoa for you because you're good and kind. You could come over. I put out two cups, one for you and one for me. I'll be here. I'll wait for you.
 
I'm only 5'3", and I've been involved with two guys who were my height and one who was shorter. Didn't bother me at all. I've also seriously lusted after some other short guys.

Was it *because* they were short? Not really. Shortness neither added to nor detracted from their attractiveness.

None of them were rich, famous, or stunningly handsome.
 
hiddenleaf said:
I'm only 5'3", and I've been involved with two guys who were my height and one who was shorter. Didn't bother me at all. I've also seriously lusted after some other short guys.

Was it *because* they were short? Not really. Shortness neither added to nor detracted from their attractiveness.

None of them were rich, famous, or stunningly handsome.

I would be willing to bet all three were confident, secure in themselves and made you comfortable when you were with them.

Insecurity is a wicked thing. Some men are so insecure, they have to catalog things to be insecure about, just to keep it under control.

The "short man" insecurity is a common one. It supposes for every inch in height a man grows, there is larger group of women who will find him attractive. What is really at work here is the idea, "I have so little to offer, if I was a little taller, it would be an improvement". It doesn't matter how tall a man actually is, because if he has "short man insecurity", he will thank God he is not any shorter than he is, because any loss of height would mean he had nothing to offer a potential mate. Its a sad judgment on the woman who finally accepts him. She is the one who had to settle for him, because of her own physical defects, could not get a taller man.

Height is not the problem here. Its a sad attempt to take reponsibility away from himself and place it on the woman, who rejected him. He sits there going over his list of things which can't be changed, not tall enough, not rich enough, not black enough, etc. Its not his fault she want consider him so it must be hers.

The confident man, of any height does not waste time on the women who don't want him, whatever the reason might be. He just noticed a woman across the room who just smiled in his general direction and he is going to go introduce himself.

The last thing he is worried about is whether or not there are women forming clubs to worship men his height and shorter.
 
Well who the hell keeps propagating the myth that men have to be taller than their partner?

I blame George Bush.
 
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