Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

[nostuff]

I want to be penetrated by cock. He can have my mouth, and he can have my ass. I'm happy either way.

But when it comes to me as the fucker, I'm really not interested. Not because it doesn't feel good. I got a blowjob a couple months ago that was absolutely incredible. The guy was just that good. And yet, there's something in my head that keeps me from truly enjoying it.

I guess that's what makes me a bottom.

 

[comegently]

I have no great desire to either give or receive oral.
I do have a desire, with no intention of putting it into action, of receiving, but not giving, anal, while feeling and presenting completely feminine.
I have given anal to one woman who asked for it and the same woman gave me strapon, which I enjoyed.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I love both giving and receiving equally.

 

[2wayroad]

Always happy to receive, especially for cocky self centered guy who will never return the favor.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I want to be penetrated by cock. He can have my mouth, and he can have my ass. I'm happy either way.

But when it comes to me as the fucker, I'm really not interested. Not because it doesn't feel good. I got a blowjob a couple months ago that was absolutely incredible. The guy was just that good. And yet, there's something in my head that keeps me from truly enjoying it.

I guess that's what makes me a bottom.

A good bottom, I am sure! I would love to top your liquids.

 

[shemyezza]

As a good sissy sub I am much happier in the femine role , If my partner wants to leave my clitty locked away ,thats fine as the longer I am denied the more horny and WILLING I get , if he wants to release me and play with my clit ,well thats just another way of giving him pleasure

 

[starfish71]

I want to be penetrated by cock. He can have my mouth, and he can have my ass. I'm happy either way.

But when it comes to me as the fucker, I'm really not interested. Not because it doesn't feel good. I got a blowjob a couple months ago that was absolutely incredible. The guy was just that good. And yet, there's something in my head that keeps me from truly enjoying it.

I guess that's what makes me a bottom.

I can relate to this... I have no interest in topping... I don't mind a blowjob, but don't don't expect it.

 

[Sigmund7]

I think I'd rather give than receive but I'd have to try both before making a decision.

 

[meflash]

before the covid hit I had 2 married guys that would visit me for a quick blow-n-go and I didn't miss getting any thing but there cum! I miss them since I moved away.

 

[Iwillgo]

I think I'd rather give than receive but I'd have to try both before making a decision.

I'm not going to do the research but my guess is there are way more of us givers on lit than there are receiver's. Receiver's should just come take us one by one, like shooting fish in a barrel.

 

[Replicant2018]

As a good sissy sub I am much happier in the femine role , If my partner wants to leave my clitty locked away ,thats fine as the longer I am denied the more horny and WILLING I get , if he wants to release me and play with my clit ,well thats just another way of giving him pleasure

Love to play with your clit and ass

 

[shemyezza]

Love to play with your clit and ass

OH YOU TEASE , you know just how horny i am and how i longf to be used

 

[wallio]

there are a lot of guys out there that like a blow n go nothing wrong with it at all

 

[Just2Kinky]

Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

No... it doesn't stop you from getting a great no obligation blow job. I'll suck cock all day long and if only 1 in 10 is willing to reciprocate its just a bonus for me. Sure, I like to get off but I like the thrill of the spasms that precede my getting my reward for a job well done perhaps even more.

 

[Starlust]

When it comes to anal it's usually me thinking about taking a hard cock in my big arse, occasionally I do fantasise about rimming or fucking a hot twinky guy though.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

No... it doesn't stop you from getting a great no obligation blow job. I'll suck cock all day long and if only 1 in 10 is willing to reciprocate its just a bonus for me. Sure, I like to get off but I like the thrill of the spasms that precede my getting my reward for a job well done perhaps even more.

Very well said. And for me, 1 out of 100 who wish to suck me is fine!

 

[oxfordsea]

All About That Top . . .

Everything I know about being on top or bottom suggest I'd be giving on top. So why the ultra fast erections and urges when it comes to seeing guys receive. I could graduate to being on top, but I know I'd be sitting on some dudes lap, or on all fours doggy style being bottomed first.

 

[Jcam1980s]

Never actually done anything but in terms of screwing i only fantasise about being used, and cum inside. In terms of bj's, i only fantasise about things like my wife tying me up, then watching as a fuy blows me and im powerless to stop getting hard or cumming

 

[tristantrotsky]

So Disappointing

before the covid hit I had 2 married guys that would visit me for a quick blow-n-go and I didn't miss getting any thing but there cum! I miss them since I moved away.

Such a sad little story. You do so have my sympathy.
I can quite easily understand how very much you must miss getting your mouth fucked by those two horny married friends.
But please don't despair, there will be many other men and many other cocks for you to enjoy sucking in days to come...

 

[newhere2learn]

there are a lot of guys out there that like a blow n go nothing wrong with it at all

Yes I've met guys both sides of the fence. I've had no obligation BJs from gay guys who just wanted to please.

Equally, I've sucked cock that's owner had hangups. Couple of occasions the deal was I'd be naked in a cock cage, so they could enjoy the view and my torment but I got them off only. NGL it was hot both ways.

 

[Hardon4u21]

I know there are lots of us that love to suck and swallow, need nothing in return. I do love getting sucked, but I love sucking so much more, love to bottom too. I'm definitely on the submissive side.

I have never done either, but my fantasies usually involve me sucking cock until the other guy is hard and then taking it firmly up my ass.

 

[txfuncouple]

Always have that desire to be the receiver. Don’t mind giving, but if we’re talking where do I enjoy things the most, its being the enthusiastic receiver for an excited giver.

 

[oxfordsea]

Yes

Always have that desire to be the receiver. Don’t mind giving, but if we’re talking where do I enjoy things the most, its being the enthusiastic receiver for an excited giver.

Well said.

 

[little cletus]

I’d rather receive anal, and definitely more interested in giving head to a man than getting it from one, but I would object if they wanted to reciprocate after I’m done.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I’d rather receive anal, and definitely more interested in giving head to a man than getting it from one, but I would object if they wanted to reciprocate after I’m done.

You sound like fun!