Any girls enjoy gay/bi men?

[BlowTheseDice]

How many girls like to see gay/bi men getting it on? Or being apart of it?
The MMF with 2bi is a fantasy I've got right now. With the gal getting off watching it and speaking her mind on what's happening. So what do you ladies think?

 

[BohemianEcstasy]

(19/F/bi/ND-MN)

Oh, yeah--one of my closest boyfriends I've ever had was bisexual. That's actually how he and I met: he needed advice in dealing with his recently discovered bisexuality because he was having a hard time with it. I was like "hunny, your best friend and long-time soccer teammate just blew you cock and your mind--it's okay." Hehehe, YEAH, I thought it was the hottest thing ever. Ideally my SO would be bisexual, regardless of his/her gender. Anyway, as far as gay guys are concerned, I think that intimacy between them seems so much more tender and beautiful than that of most straight couples. So...YEAH, I'm all over the boi-on-boi action.

 

[John Doe]

I'm a dude, but I would totally love it if my girlfriend (who is also bi) wanted to watch me do it with another guy.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

my exgf had 2 fantasies:

1. fuck me with a toy
2. have me give or rec oral with another guy

sorry to say that the only fantasy she fulfilled with me is to fuck me with a toy.

she never fulfilled her other fantasy with me but since then ive often wondered what it would be like to give or rec oral with another guy.

 

[College_geek]

I've only enjoyed that image for about three years (which, in the scheme of things, is long, figuring I'm not even 19 yet). I especially like watching two men just be intimate with each other, even if it doesn't include sex. I have this feeling a lot of other women secretly like this type of things as well, they just don't admit to it.

 

[Cazper]

I recently have been having lots of thoughts on this very topic. I've talked about it with my wife... we've both always been completely straight, but the more we talk about it the more it seems that we'd both like to experiment a little.

 

[Tink77]

Although it is a wonderful fantasy, to ever include a third partner in any kind of serious relationship with someone of either gender is complety out of the question. Ive seen it ruin far to many relationships.

Just my two cents

 

[south_florida_bicur]

I too have seen it ruin a relationship. Many people try to spice up their lovelife by involving a 3rd person = big mistake.

It takes a great deal of trust to bring a 3rd person into a relationship.

Lets say that the husband played with another guy and told the wife about it afterwards (or visa versa) , would you call that cheating?

 

[BohemianEcstasy]

I too have seen it ruin a relationship. Many people try to spice up their lovelife by involving a 3rd person = big mistake.

It takes a great deal of trust to bring a 3rd person into a relationship.

Lets say that the husband played with another guy and told the wife about it afterwards (or visa versa) , would you call that cheating?

Because I'm bisexual, I would consider that cheating, 100%, no questions asked. What does the gender matter if intimacy is being exchanged with a third-party without the partner knowing? Just because he can't (yet) run away and marry the man doesn't make their relationship any less threatening, even if it is only sexual.

However, if he had his partner's permission beforehand, I'm less likely to be against it. I still acknowledge that it can confuse things and make things difficult in the relationship; however, some people can pull it off with no problems.


And I'd agree with you, College_geek, that many women probably secretly find male gay intimacy attractive, or would if they'd let themselves.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

I recently have been having lots of thoughts on this very topic. I've talked about it with my wife... we've both always been completely straight, but the more we talk about it the more it seems that we'd both like to experiment a little.

Well Cazper you and your wife can look up CG and I if your ever interested ^_~ hehehe...

-Zergplex

 

[TechnoSlut]

Nah, threeways (and fourgies!) can bring a wonderful completeness to a relationship if you're botjh not monogamy minded. It's a mistake to think that monogamy is an ideal all people can aspire to or fulfil, some of us don't work that way, and we're going to be single forever if we don't find each other and allow each other to grow sexually with each other.

I love watching my boirfriend suck cock. He loves watching me eat pussy. It works for both of us.

 

[College_geek]

It really does depend on each individual. Sometimes I think couples will try to spice things up by bringing another member into bed, but they'll do so without really discussing and thinking it through. If both partners are definitely okay with the added person, that's great, but if there are any doubts anywhere along the line, it should be stopped before things get worse. Participating in a threesome is a fantasy for me, but I doubt I'd ever want it to become a reality.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

I adore watching two guys get it one: either by themselves or with a girl involved. I have quite a bit of porn that I get off to involving such scenes.

My best friend is gay and just watching him kiss his boyfriend is a very big turn on.

My b/f is *mostly* straight, but has been with guys in the past and is very interested in the idea of me, him, and another guy having a get together. We just haven't yet met another guy that we're interested in yet.

For the time being, we're just sufficing with me doing some anal play with him.

As for the repercussions of threesomes, I think its something that needs to be thoroughly discussed and thought through ahead of time. I've never had one before. My b/f has had quite a few, including a full blown poly relationship. He says he'd never want to live with two girls again. Too much work,lol! However, he does believe that an *occasional* threesome (with someone whose not going to be around on a regular basis) can spice things up, and I tend to agree with him.

 

[Lorrie Flash]

Although it is a wonderful fantasy, to ever include a third partner in any kind of serious relationship with someone of either gender is complety out of the question. Ive seen it ruin far to many relationships.

Just my two cents

Monogamy has also ruined lots of relationships, especially regarding the jealousy issue.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Lets say that the husband played with another guy and told the wife about it afterwards (or visa versa) , would you call that cheating?

In my case no, my wife and I understand that things can happen spontanously so thats one of our rules. Full disclosure when we get home.

 

[Lorrie Flash]

It takes a great deal of trust to bring a 3rd person into a relationship.

But if there isn't a great deal of trust in each other, why does the relationship exist?

 

[south_florida_bicur]

From what i've been reading by most that are acceptable and approving to the idea of bringing a 3rd (or 4th) person into the relationship are not a married couple. Until you are married, you are in reality still single. Yes, you are probably in a committed relationship but you are still single.

In my opinion when a 3rd person is brought into a married relationship, I dont think it will work.

I thought that in order for it to work then all persons must be present at the time the sexual act is taken place. This will prevent anyone from feelng left out or cheated on. The problem is everyone has a bit of jealousy in them. Once your partner does this act behind your back, the jealousy will come into effect.

Yes, there are probably a few exceptions but on the majority I dont think it will work.

OPINIONS PLS

 

[Lorrie Flash]

I thought that in order for it to work then all persons must be present at the time the sexual act is taken place. This will prevent anyone from feelng left out or cheated on. The problem is everyone has a bit of jealousy in them.



OPINIONS PLS

Jealousy isn't 100% synonymous with being irrational; it isn't always a negative. Jealousy in a small degree actually can be a positive in a relationship.

If you're constantly dwelling on the negative side of jealousy, you will definitely fuel any insecurities you have, which will probably lead to a deterioration in the relationship.

 

[Algol]

Speaking in my wife's word, she's bringing this fantasy of me being with another man every time we make love. She would loooove to watch me fucking and being fucked by a man. And her actual choice of porno is bisexual intercourse betwen two or more couples (and it's a hard time to find good bisexual porno, at least for me (Any suggestion?))

 

[College_geek]

I recommend the movie "Chasing Amy" for an example of a possible scenario. The chance and idea of a threesome goes wrong in it, which doesn't always happen, but it is a possibility.

 

[mac_crazy]

It's a mistake to think that monogamy is an ideal all people can aspire to or fulfil, some of us don't work that way, and we're going to be single forever if we don't find each other and allow each other to grow sexually with each other.

So fucking well said! Beautiful!!

Still waiting to find "that" woman who feels just like this.

 

[RobHammer]

As far as women who like the idea of two men together, there certainly are. I've run into women shopping the gay and bi sections of the adult store. It just doesn't seem to be a collective female kink.

The last movie my wife picked out of the pile to watch was Tranny Hunter 5, and she's straight. I commented that it must be because there is more dick. And it's "her" Bone Island.

OK, she's a bit hung up because she just wants a "normal" husband. She never did get the warm and fuzzies about swinging. When her transvestite friend was enamored by me in a Tux and I kissed him on the cheek, she said I hadn't seen him in action.

Algol asked about movies. A few that come to mind:
Goosed for 3
Remembering Times Gone Bi
Mile Bi Club
Miss Kitty's Litter
These are all very expensive.

Dropping it down a notch:
Bi-Sexual Tales
Bisexuals: The Adventure

And another notch:
Biwitched

As far as good quality affordable pansexual smut, I'm working on it my friends.

 

[geishaGirl]

In my case no, my wife and I understand that things can happen spontanously so thats one of our rules. Full disclosure when we get home.

What my husband and I have decided is that its totally OK for spontaneous occasions and then telling each other about it afterwards. (Though we haven't had a chance for it to happen yet!) As long as there's been talk between both people involved and you're aware that your partner wants to do things with other people then I wouldn't consider it cheating.

If however, one of the couple aren't aware or haven't been comfortable with the idea they may certainly interpret the event as having been cheated on.

 

[Mary Hall]

I`m a dirty little girl, i like the idea of 2 men fucking

 

[south_florida_bicur]

geishaGirl

i agree that communication is the key.

my exgf's fantasy was for her partner to be with another guy. I was 100% str8 without any bi tendencies until we started chatting. I guess she opened up a side of me that even i did not know existed.

we were going to take it to the next level where we would involve another guy but only if she was present. she was not going to participate but she wanted to be present. she felt that if she was not present then she would feel that i was cheating on her.

some people feel different but the bottom line is communication. we did not get that far because we did break up but she also mentioned that even though it was her fantasy she did not know if she can go thru with it.