Am I the only one who doesn't like oral?

[JohnSm123]

In fact, most of the time, oral disgusts me. My biggest problem regarding sex stories I read has always been that oral is the main action performed.

I'd like to read stories with no blowjob, no handjob, no cunnilingus, no anal, no jacking off etc. Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

Am I the only one who feels like that?

 

[twister947]

Gawd, I hope so!

 

[luvslingerie200]

In fact, most of the time, oral disgusts me. My biggest problem regarding sex stories I read has always been that oral is the main action performed.

I'd like to read stories with no blowjob, no handjob, no cunnilingus, no anal, no jacking off etc. Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

Am I the only one who feels like that?

In my early twenties I had dated two girls on separate occasions (sisters actually) Neither of them would allow me to go down on them. They would give me blow jobs however.

 

[Carnevil9]

Am I the only one who feels like that?

You are certainly unusual, I would say. Especially round these parts. I have known a few women who didn't like oral (some didn't like giving, some didn't like receiving, some didn't like either) but I don't know any men like that. But hey, your feelings are your feelings, and you are entitled to them as much as anyone else is.

 

[IARainman]

Well, you be you. I love the variety of ways to please a partner. Not sure you’re going to find a lot of writers so vanilla here. Good luck.

 

[IARainman]

Oh, and you left out analingus

 

[Susscrofa]

In fact, most of the time, oral disgusts me. My biggest problem regarding sex stories I read has always been that oral is the main action performed.

I'd like to read stories with no blowjob, no handjob, no cunnilingus, no anal, no jacking off etc. Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

Am I the only one who feels like that?

While it doesn't disgust me, I'm mostly indifferent to oral, giving or receiving. While I've had some good experiences on the receiving end, but to me it often seems like a waste of sexual energy that I'd rather spend on penetrative intercourse. When I've performed oral on a woman, it was usually to please her rather than because the act particularly turned me on.

I also have zero interest in anal sex. So yeah, you're not alone in being "vanilla" by the standards of many other people on this site, at least as far as actual sexual acts are concerned.

 

[NancyPan]

“meant by nature to be?” Where did you come upon those rules? People have been “naturally” doing these “other things” for centuries.

Arousal patterns are uniquely different and set very early in life. There is no “supposed to be.” It just is. Good luck finding what rocks your boat (probably not on Literotica).

 

[bux_fan]

My wife says she does not like receiving oral but gives amazing blowjobs. I want nothing more than to let her feel the pleasure.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

You are only the second i’ve heard of!.

Wife had a prior bf who wouldn’t let her give him head and of course he wouldn’t give head to her.

If there’s two, there’s probably three?

 

[live4thebj]

In fact, most of the time, oral disgusts me. My biggest problem regarding sex stories I read has always been that oral is the main action performed.

I'd like to read stories with no blowjob, no handjob, no cunnilingus, no anal, no jacking off etc. Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

Am I the only one who feels like that?

Ummm all you listed is sex. This site isn’t for you.

 

[live4thebj]

You are only the second i’ve heard of!.

Wife had a prior bf who wouldn’t let her give him head and of course he wouldn’t give head to her.

If there’s two, there’s probably three?

A girl told me that once whom gave amazing bjs she doesn’t like guys going down on her. Well one day I went down on her and she came so hard she squeezed my head like a Vice.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

I’ve had woman tell me the don’t like receiving oral and that they can’t cum that way. Challenge accepted.

I’m happy to have changed their minds.

Yes, yes. It’s possible they were just being coy.

I enjoy a blow job but I’ve never cum from one.

 

[Stromer]

In fact, most of the time, oral disgusts me. My biggest problem regarding sex stories I read has always been that oral is the main action performed.

I'd like to read stories with no blowjob, no handjob, no cunnilingus, no anal, no jacking off etc. Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

Am I the only one who feels like that?

And your posting on the Fetish board of Literotica because???? Good luck finding what your looking for.

 

[letsusethethinkingchair]

No, you're not the only one. I’m AFAB and I hate it. There’s not enough stimulation and it just feels weird (although the few times I tried it I was with someone who didn’t treat me well so that could also have something to do with it).

 

[StrongMaster7]

I love oral sex.

However, for me it's only enjoyable if the woman wants to do it. And it's better if she really wants to do it. The best for me was a college gf who thought she was the blowjob queen and really wanted to show me how good she was at it. I loved it! Years later, I coerced my wife into sucking my cock and she very reluctantly agreed to. My stiff cock wilted as she sucked it as if it was poison.

And yes, I've known horny, willing women who did not want a man to go down on them, EVER. I assume they had a bad experience somewhere along the way or were raised to believe it was bad. Their loss. The most gratifying compliments I have ever gotten were from women who thought I was an amazing pussy-eater.

 

[JessGabriel]

My wife says she does not like receiving oral but gives amazing blowjobs. I want nothing more than to let her feel the pleasure.

I'm like this too. I get into receiving when I can tell he's getting off on giving, but I could honestly take or leave it. I'm obsessed with giving blowjobs though.

 

[saintcero]

My wife does not let me give her oral which I would dearly love to do if she enjoyed it. She doesn’t give blow jobs either so I have stopped asking. She likes to fuck though and asks for it twice a week even though she had a hysterectomy years ago. I am grateful for that as many guys get nothing at all.

 

[policywank]

Many women do not orgasm with penetrative sex alone. They require additional clitoral stimulation. Fingers or tongue are best. To each his own of course but a man who is unwilling to engage in that additional stimulation is going to find that what he is doing just isn't enough for quite a few women.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

In fact, most of the time, oral disgusts me. My biggest problem regarding sex stories I read has always been that oral is the main action performed.

I'd like to read stories with no blowjob, no handjob, no cunnilingus, no anal, no jacking off etc. Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

Am I the only one who feels like that?

Yup.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife wasn't a big fan of sucking cocks, primarily because of her first bj experience. She was forced to take a cock and full load of cum in her mouth when she was in college. She eventually would give oral, but not to orgasm and only when she couldn't fuck for some reason. Then one night I was fucking her, pulled out, and let her suck her own juices off my cock. She really liked that, and it has been part of our sex life ever since. I still don't cum in her mouth, but I prefer shooting my load inside her pussy.

 

[lil_jenni]

Stories that are just about pure sex, the way it is meant by nature to be.

I agree with the idea to each their own. Some guys don't like blowjobs. My flippant response is they've never received one from me. . But seriously, there was a time in my life where I didn't like men going down on me. I didn't climax from it. At that time, I'd had three women do it, and all three had made me come. Conversely, I sure liked giving head to guys but I only went down on one of the three women. Nowadays, I like giving and receiving from men (well, one man) and women. A lot of it is about what you are comfortable with at a given time in your life.

Having said that, like others have pointed out about the bit quoted above, WTF? Sure, intercourse can be awfully damn good. But if we view it as the only 'pure sex' in nature, shouldn't it's natural consequence be part of the equation too, not just the pleasure? And do you want pregnancy or risk thereof depicted as well, since that is the natural consequence of 'pure sex'? After all, isn't that what separates intercourse from other sexual gratification?

Personally, I consider any sexual gratification to be sex of one kind or another. Sure, intercourse is the unmarked instance (usually does not require a modifier), but the idea it is more natural is a judgement, not a reasoned analysis. As has been pointed out above, the marked instances of sex have been practices for millennia. They also can occur among other species for the purpose of sexual gratification. That argues toward natural, methinks.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Its great if you have a partner who you can have plain ol normal sex. Penis in vagina. But if you have a wife like mine who has had health issues and no sex drive, oral is the other option. Oh wait… my wife hates oral sex and isnt good at it. So my alternative, hand jobs, on birthday and anniversary. So the oral happens with other men. I suppose id love sex the way nature intended. But nature played a dirty trick on me. I dont care what other people like or dislike, were free to share and do what pleasures us. So for me ill continue to get on my knees and suck a cock, sit back and get sucked, and then perhaps both at the same time in a 69. And then when my buddy asks if i want to fuck him, ill get behind as hes on all fours and experience the intense pleasure that i have doing it.

 

[live4thebj]

Many women do not orgasm with penetrative sex alone. They require additional clitoral stimulation. Fingers or tongue are best. To each his own of course but a man who is unwilling to engage in that additional stimulation is going to find that what he is doing just isn't enough for quite a few women.

Well said!

 

[lil_jenni]

Well, I've been jacking off since I was X So, according to your definition, I had sex in the XXXXX grade.

There are a whole plethora of issues implied from your post, but it would be a violation of Lit rules to really get into them. My one question is whether sexual gratification, not merely a physical gratification, is possible at the age mentioned. If so, then it was a kind of sexual activity.

But like I said, 'sex' alone (without a modifier) usually means intercourse. Further, the phrasing of 'having sex' even more strongly aligns with intercourse. But the category SEX is more expensive than intercourse. So is masturbation a form of sex (i.e. a sexual activity)? Why yes, yes it is. Is it 'having sex' as that phrasing is colloquially used? No.

But your misunderstanding (I'll choose to pretend it was such) is not unexpected based on your posts that I have seen.