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[Mei5ter]

Worst insult? Being ghosted it’s ignited by someone you thought was a friend.
Stupidest insult? I honestly don’t know. But I’m not on much.
Compliment? I want to have phone sex with ‘your man’. Knock yourself out! The brit addicts are real.

In fairness, you don't have to be a Brit addict to want phone sex with your man.

<knocks self out>

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'd settle for phone sex with my man.

 

[Dribble]

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The best Lit compliment has always been "you make Lit a better place". Which is incredibly kind but I dont know how true. I like being here. I like people generally. I like being curious about them and their lives and their kinks. I've always tried to be kind and respectful.

They were 100% right.

I don't say what I feel publicly often...but you are a rarity. Our one and only PLP. Thank-you for being you.

 

[AveryElle]

In fairness, you don't have to be a Brit addict to want phone sex with your man.

<knocks self out>

Well, a few of those are the ones that have made comments. You’re welcomed to it! And no, I have no interest in listening in.

 

[IhateClowns]

12.12.19

What's the worst Lit insult? The stupidest Lit insult? What about the best Lit compliment?

1). Anytime anyone takes this place too seriously. Where they let the negativity bleed over into their real lives.

2). The stupidest insult is for those that get “cheated” on. they are shocked that the person they have been talking to has been talking with 10 other people as well.

3). I agree the compliment of you make this a better place is always nice. For me it is someone going out of there way to private message me. No matter what the context is. I’m really bad about responding in an appropriate time. However, I sincerely appreciate when I do receive a message. That’s the best compliment for me.

 

[riverj]

The best Lit compliment has always been "you make Lit a better place". Which is incredibly kind but I dont know how true. I like being here. I like people generally. I like being curious about them and their lives and their kinks. I've always tried to be kind and respectful.
Recent events have me feeling distrustful and disappointed and unwanted. I really don't know what I want to do going forward.[/QUOTE]


Hi PrettyLP,
To my way of thinking you should not worry about what the respondents to your threads / questions / themes post and or say about the subject matter you have presented. You are creating discussion forums for folks based on ideas and thoughts you have either had or have read about. You like the back and forth that the forums provide and so initiating discussions for you is the best way to create banter and thought provoking response.

There is nothing wrong with that. That I believe is part of the design plan here.

Just as there is in every forum - blog - editorial page - board - suggestion box - and bar in the country there will be here a mix of browsers / passers by / dissenters / argumentative MFers / casual readers / interested folks / and legitimate discussion oriented posters. By definition the discussion will prevail.

You need to filter out in your mind the people who type with their head up their ass ..... think of them as non participants in the discussion at hand.

A good thread will thrive based on the subject matter and not be killed by fucksticks who might want to sabotage it.

Merry Christmas

 

[sally_sparrow]

12.12.19

What's the worst Lit insult? The stupidest Lit insult? What about the best Lit compliment?

1. Ghosting sucks.
2. Insulting me to feel better about themselves. I hate that if I respond to a PM it's automatically assumed I want to fuck them, and once I make it clear I'm not interested I get insulted.
3. Honestly, being kind is everything. A note saying they like my thread, or my story. Those are nice.

 

[AveryElle]

I’m guilty of not thinking lit is real life and it’s easy to ignore the bad parts. Or thinking because you haven’t met, you don’t really know if you’re in love.

I think those were just ways to protect myself from the inevitable - female friends ghosting, or thinking someone would go after the guy I loved in here because we’d been public about our time together. I know these are very real feelings and for those who are hurting, it’s very real pain.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

12.18.19

In conversation with someone recently, they mentioned learning "the language of Lit". What are some words, phrases, patterns, etc that it took you awhile to get used to on Lit? What do you still not understand?

 

[Trekka]

*uses asterisks*
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For dramatic effect.
#ForumNerdage ==> [insert emoji of choice here]
Catroar is my fave.

 

[Sexybritches69]

12.18.19

In conversation with someone recently, they mentioned learning "the language of Lit". What are some words, phrases, patterns, etc that it took you awhile to get used to on Lit? What do you still not understand?

Ymmv. (What does this mean???)

 

[TTawhere]

Ymmv. (What does this mean???)

Your mileage may vary.

 

[Sexybritches69]

Your mileage may vary.

Oh

 

[parker77]

years ago, it took me a while to proper read anything Blade used to write in his N Florida hick vocabulary. now i’m trying to translate the secret lexicon of breast size.

 

[Dribble]

12.18.19

In conversation with someone recently, they mentioned learning "the language of Lit". What are some words, phrases, patterns, etc that it took you awhile to get used to on Lit? What do you still not understand?

Remember that Christmas movie...what is it called? A Christmas Story I think. Red Rider BB gun...you'll shoot your eye out. That one. Classic. Anyway, he sent off for the Little Orphan Annie decoder ring. And what was that week's message? "Dont forget to drink your Ovalteen". That is Lit.

What more is there to understand? Lot's of buildup...and then the realization of what is.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

12.26.19

Before we look forward, let's look back.

What's been the most significant thing that happened in 2019 for you? What about your country?

 

[JediSurfer]

12.26.19

Before we look forward, let's look back.

What's been the most significant thing that happened in 2019 for you? What about your country?

For me? I’d say leaving a very toxic relationship that I finally had my eyes opened to.

My country....maybe the president being impeached, but I’d rather not get political.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

12.31.19

Alright we have to do it!

Do you have any New Year's resolutions? Is there something you want to make happen this year? Something you want to stop doing or change? Any special projects for personal growth this year?

Or do you think resolutions are dumb?

 

[AveryElle]

I think resolutions are dumb. However, Jan 1 is as good a day as any to wipe the slate clean.

I have goals and hopes but not resolutions.
- spend less money. I’ve already started brewing my own coffee (which is a big deal) and cleaning out the pantry/freezer for meals
- to that, less food waste. We are a small family so it’s very difficult to shop for us without waste. When things are on the edge of bad, I’ll post on a local buy nothing page.
- plant more of our own vegetables. We do peppers and tomatoes but I want to add to that.
- TRY to be less negative about myself. Two of the most important people in my daily life regularly say that but it’s difficult. I don’t believe words manifest themselves into reality but I know my kid can hear me. It’s not just saying it, but trying to believe it. Which is even harder because I see a lot of that as arrogance. Self aggrandizement is one if my pet peeves but maybe there’s a line there I can balance.
- I’ll never be a trusting person. I’ll always have thick, juicy walls. But I am TRYING to be more open when asked things about myself.
- hopefully, I’ll get pregnant this year. Lots of time and money invested. And emotions about what could be - names, cute clothes. A second chance to deal with PPD/PPA instead of keep it all in.

So that’s about it.
And I’m NOT looking forward to the gym resolution people. Fuck the first three crowded weeks of January.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

12.31.19

Alright we have to do it!

Do you have any New Year's resolutions? Is there something you want to make happen this year? Something you want to stop doing or change? Any special projects for personal growth this year?

Or do you think resolutions are dumb?

I think the idea of changing your life in a year is a little silly. But I agree, it's a good time to think about things and a natural starting place.

I have the normal boring resolutions - to be better with money, to be healthier. But this year I'm adding being more conscious of the waste I create - buying things with minimal packaging, recycling, consuming less in general.

This year is going to be full of huge changes for me anyway so I'm trying to be really flexible and roll with the changes as they come. I think I'm also looking to be more self reliant.

My main fun thing I'm doing this year is to read more historical biographies. Last year I made an effort to explore more of the town I live in and I really enjoyed that and got to see some cool stuff along the way.

Overall 2020 is full of possibilities and hope.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

12.26.19

Before we look forward, let's look back.

What's been the most significant thing that happened in 2019 for you? What about your country?

The most significant thing that happened for me this year was a person.

 

[AveryElle]

12.26.19

Before we look forward, let's look back.

What's been the most significant thing that happened in 2019 for you? What about your country?

I didn’t get to this.
Country? Oh lord have mercy. This place is going to the shitty. Trump is destroying this place and I’m thankful I actually don’t know anyone that supports him.

To me? I took a trip. My first real trip in a long time. Saw Alpine. Saw places I hadn’t been in a long time. It was pretty nice and even though I can’t do it again in 2020, and possibly not 2021, I will do it again. Second significant would be starting the process of having another baby. I am exhausted.

 

[beachbaby179]

I don't make resolutions anymore. But I have a goal to be well enough to get back in the gym. And I'd also like to get on the road and meet a couple of Litsters. Let's say 2 in 2020.

Under promise. Over deliver.

 

[beachbaby179]

We don’t count because we’ve met, RIGHT??!

Right. I meant two MORE.

 

[BadAmy]

The most significant thing that happened for me this year was a person.

Agreed.
Not you. me

But you

And
Me

Each other....
Together
But separately.
Cuz...them. ya know?

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Naahmeen?