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Just imagine choosing to spend your time somewhere you hate. Wild!

12.10.19

Are there any areas of your life where you self-sabotage? How and why do you do it?

I don't think so. If there are, I don't spot it right now. I suppose I don't always have the very healthiest behavioural patterns sometimes but I'm not sure anything really qualifies as self-sabotage.
 
Sometimes I feel like being completely ignored or overlooked is worse than being insulted or called a name.

I understand that feeling. For the most part, I no longer care...but there are a few that still never have understood how easily they can punish me. For what it is worth...i am sorry. Empty words from someone you dont know, but they are real and honest.
 
12.12.19

What's the worst Lit insult? The stupidest Lit insult? What about the best Lit compliment?
Worst Lit insult? I think the least pleasant thing aimed at me was a threat to publish private messages on the boards. Not sure that counts as an insult but that breach of trust hurt.

Stupidest Lit insult? Probably ones where someone suggests performing a sexual act with a random object. "Go jerk off with a cheese grater!" may have sounded grown up when you Googled 'Witty Comebacks', but actually nobody is going to think "Ooh, never thought of that but it seems a really great plan...hey! That hurts!"

Best Lit complimemt: When someone has a physical and emotional response to what you write.
 
Ohhh, actual insults? Yeah, I've had a few. I'm not going to repeat them but ouch.

Funny, i only remember the ones that came from people i was close to.

People can be super shitty sometimes.
 
When i was 22, i dated and lived with my 38 year old boyfriend. I learned fairly quickly that 16 years difference is too much. I am 33 and would say my age range is probably something like 30- 40. I dont care a ton about age, but i want someone active and silly and fun, but also in control and kinky :)
 
12.12.19

What's the worst Lit insult? The stupidest Lit insult? What about the best Lit compliment?

The first two are easy because they’re beautifully encapsulated in an anon comment to one of my stories. Add in the comedy and a spelling mistake and it’s gold 👍.

“Your a nigger loving racist.”

Best compliment/comment, this would probably be close,

“Holy shit. I came here to read dirty stories, not to read a fantastic emotional tale with some sex tossed in. Thanks for bringing a tear to my eye. Well done.“
 
12.12.19

What's the worst Lit insult? The stupidest Lit insult? What about the best Lit compliment?

I think the worst insult is to say someone is untrustworthy. Reputation is all you have here and people never forget when you make a mistake.
It's not exactly an insult but one of the worst things I can know about you is that you're a "nice person" in private but a turd in public. All that let's me know is that you're in control of how you're perceived and you are choosing to act like a twatwaffle.

The stupidest insult goes something like "You're an attention whore. Go make another thread!" I've seen it aimed at me and and a few others who create threads that people like to participate in. It makes me wonder what the insult hurlers think people do when they come to Lit? I don't make threads for me to show off. I'd have an AmPics thread if thats what I wanted. I like making places for other people to participate and have fun and talk.

The best Lit compliment has always been "you make Lit a better place". Which is incredibly kind but I dont know how true. I like being here. I like people generally. I like being curious about them and their lives and their kinks. I've always tried to be kind and respectful.
Recent events have me feeling distrustful and disappointed and unwanted. I really don't know what I want to do going forward.
 
I think the worst insult is to say someone is untrustworthy. Reputation is all you have here and people never forget when you make a mistake.
It's not exactly an insult but one of the worst things I can know about you is that you're a "nice person" in private but a turd in public. All that let's me know is that you're in control of how you're perceived and you are choosing to act like a twatwaffle.

The stupidest insult goes something like "You're an attention whore. Go make another thread!" I've seen it aimed at me and and a few others who create threads that people like to participate in. It makes me wonder what the insult hurlers think people do when they come to Lit? I don't make threads for me to show off. I'd have an AmPics thread if thats what I wanted. I like making places for other people to participate and have fun and talk.

The best Lit compliment has always been "you make Lit a better place". Which is incredibly kind but I dont know how true. I like being here. I like people generally. I like being curious about them and their lives and their kinks. I've always tried to be kind and respectful.
Recent events have me feeling distrustful and disappointed and unwanted. I really don't know what I want to do going forward.

Don't let that jerk make you reconsider something you enjoy doing that brings people together in an open discussion of things that are not always easy to discuss in the real world. His opinion doesn't matter. There are real people here that support you and the space you have created.
 
I think the worst insult is to say someone is untrustworthy. Reputation is all you have here and people never forget when you make a mistake.
It's not exactly an insult but one of the worst things I can know about you is that you're a "nice person" in private but a turd in public. All that let's me know is that you're in control of how you're perceived and you are choosing to act like a twatwaffle.

The stupidest insult goes something like "You're an attention whore. Go make another thread!" I've seen it aimed at me and and a few others who create threads that people like to participate in. It makes me wonder what the insult hurlers think people do when they come to Lit? I don't make threads for me to show off. I'd have an AmPics thread if thats what I wanted. I like making places for other people to participate and have fun and talk.

The best Lit compliment has always been "you make Lit a better place". Which is incredibly kind but I dont know how true. I like being here. I like people generally. I like being curious about them and their lives and their kinks. I've always tried to be kind and respectful.
Recent events have me feeling distrustful and disappointed and unwanted. I really don't know what I want to do going forward.

Starting threads is because one is interested in a subject, wants advice. Turning all of your comments and replies to be about oneself is is an attention whore. Not something I've seen you do.

I tend to think you as generous with your time and making this a more fun place.
 
12.12.19

What's the worst Lit insult? The stupidest Lit insult? What about the best Lit compliment?

Worst insult? Being ghosted it’s ignited by someone you thought was a friend.
Stupidest insult? I honestly don’t know. But I’m not on much.
Compliment? I want to have phone sex with ‘your man’. Knock yourself out! The brit addicts are real.
 
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