❓ Inquiring Minds Want To Know - Discussion Thread

[Wild_Honey_66]

#35b

Voyeurism follow up

Have you ever asked for specific videos or pictures from someone? What was your motivation? (Seeing someone you'd gotten to know? Nudity is always good? Were you trying to see what you could get someone to share?) Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

Yep, I've asked. Typically for one of two reasons:

1. I'm crazy about them and i want to see every inch of them. Every. Inch. This is limited to crushes and partners, and it's really the only time that I'm an off-the-chain voyeur.

It gives me major warm fuzzies that they want to show me. And because my top love language is Physical Touch, it increases the sense of emotional intimacy for me. I am one of the people for whom sex *is* love, or the expression of it anyway, so heck yeah, when i'm attached to someone, i want to see as much as they want to show me. I have been known to ask for nudes on a daily basis. Nothing fancy, just, 'Can i see you? ' Their understanding that it means a lot to me, and their willingness to indulge me makes me feel

Which is also why i generally don't want to see it from someone I'm not close to.

2. They are an exhibitionist, i know it would please them to be asked, and i am feeling magnanimous.

2a. They are an exhibitionist, i know others would want to see them, and i am in a position to facilitate that happening. E.g., a fair amount of my AmPics threads. I stay long enough to get the ball(s) rolling and then i unsubscribe. It's a service i provide because it makes other people feel good, and i like feeling useful (and sometimes appreciated).

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

This doesn't appeal to me at all, from either side.

It has happened in the heat of a rollicking conversation, when someone calls the other person's bluff, and it's not the end of the world, but i always end up regretting having not been more careful with the situation after.

 

[AlwaysFara]

#35b

Voyeurism follow up

Have you ever asked for specific videos or pictures from someone? What was your motivation? (Seeing someone you'd gotten to know? Nudity is always good? Were you trying to see what you could get someone to share?) Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

I’ve asked if I really like someone.

I actually don’t trust people who won’t share pics. That goes for friendships, too. I do.

I have no motivation except for lust.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I have no motivation except for lust.

Lol!!

Regular pics or nakey pics?

 

[AlwaysFara]

Lol!!

Regular pics or nakey pics?

Nakey is lust. Or love. I don’t want to see a naked person I don’t love, and that includes friendship love.

I like all “regular” pics. I like to see what everyone looks like.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Nakey is lust. Or love. I don’t want to see a naked person I don’t love, and that includes friendship love.

I like all “regular” pics. I like to see what everyone looks like.

I like to see what everyone looks like, too.

 

[Apisto42]

#35b

Voyeurism follow up

Have you ever asked for specific videos or pictures from someone? What was your motivation? (Seeing someone you'd gotten to know? Nudity is always good? Were you trying to see what you could get someone to share?) Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

I’m equally voyeur and exhibitionist I suppose. It’s fun when you have a connection to share. I have very rarely asked for a specific picture/pose/activity still-life. Those were particular situations. Asking for something in particular feels a little ... pervy to me.

One particular case that I remember clearly was because she had told me she liked being pushed. I built up to it and it was very memorable when I received exactly what I had asked for. It wasn’t a conquest, but more of a shared achievement. Like a lot of things that delve into D/s stuff I think.

And recently I sent a pic out of the blue with no warning to someone who asked for a long time in a joking way. THAT was fun. Cause her reaction came through very clearly.

 

[AlwaysFara]

The question may very well be, have you asked for dick pics?

The answer?
I might have, Rabbit, I might.
-the Sgt from Bugs Bunny

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It wasn’t a conquest, but more of a shared achievement. Like a lot of things that delve into D/s stuff I think.

*likes*

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

#35 (suggested)

Pure Voyeurism

Is there a time when you just like to watch your partner? Do you like it to be obvious - directing your partner, watching them masturbate, watching them with someone else even, etc? Or do you prefer something a little more subtle or unseen? Have you ever purely watched something that has stayed with you?
Do you feel that in the age of the internet we have all become more voyeuristic?

PLP asked on the PG (in Name a Thread) to see more posts here. Here goes.

I love watching her masturbate, and she knows it, and does it often for me. Of course that usually leads to me joining in. On the more subtle side I like watching her dress and undress. Not "strip" as such, just the common act of removing her clothes. Maybe its because I know how it will end: with a naked woman nearby. As for the thing that stayed with me. Its a common porn scene, but i found it extremely hot when she licked her own nipple. (I know: not every woman can do that, and frankly its her that I want to see.)

#35b

Voyeurism follow up

Have you ever asked for specific videos or pictures from someone? What was your motivation? (Seeing someone you'd gotten to know? Nudity is always good? Were you trying to see what you could get someone to share?) Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

A woman has sent pic of a specific body part to me. She has posted lots of sexy pics. When I asked if she had done a specific one, she simply sent it to me. I have also sent a nude pic on request. Just once. I kind of enjoyed it. It made me feel pretty good about myself. I have since posted a couple of pics here. I get why folks do that: it feels good. It is empowering. And, who doesn't like a compliment? (Look if you like, but do it quickly: the naughty bits will come down soon.)

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

PLP asked on the PG (in Name a Thread) to see more posts here. Here goes.

Thanks for joining in!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Thank you Tan!!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

#35b

Voyeurism follow up

Have you ever asked for specific videos or pictures from someone? What was your motivation? (Seeing someone you'd gotten to know? Nudity is always good? Were you trying to see what you could get someone to share?) Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

I have asked for specific pictures or videos before. Less out of wanting to see a certain body part and more out of wanting something just for me. I don't keep a stash of filth in a folder somewhere so I don't like getting a stock photo that he had sent 10 other people. Even if the subject matter is the same, I like things that are "just for me". I also like the "this is what you've done to me" picture. Mhmm... .... .... sorry what were we talking about? Oh!

Conquests - not for me but I do have this feeling about other people. That feeling that, I've seen every other pair if tits and I want to see yours just as check off the list. I'm by no means an exhibitionist so, for me, pics and videos are a big deal and I dont just blast them to people who I don't believe really want to see me.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I don't like getting a stock photo that he had sent 10 other people. Even if the subject matter is the same, I like things that are "just for me"...

... I'm by no means an exhibitionist so, for me, pics and videos are a big deal and I dont just blast them to people who I don't believe really want to see me.

All of this.

Actually, I've become increasingly reluctant to send any pics at all, to anyone, anymore.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

<checks my Skype>

But Honey, please!

LOL!! Have i ever told you no? No.

Be a little patient and you'll get something.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

<checks my Skype>

But Honey, please!

LOL!! Have i ever told you no? No.

Be a little patient and you'll get something.

Yes ma'am.

You two are making every man (a a good many women) jealous.

Well done Ladies

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

You two are making every man (a a good many women) jealous.

Well done Ladies

Oh, come on! You've seen one set of tits, you've seen them all!

Right?

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Oh, come on! You've seen one set of tits, you pretty much want to see the rest!

Right?

I fixed that for you

 

[hotwords229_A]

Oh, come on! You've seen one set of tits, you've seen them all!

Right?

Incorrect. It is my stated goal to see all of them.

#35b

Voyeurism follow up

Have you ever asked for specific videos or pictures from someone? What was your motivation? (Seeing someone you'd gotten to know? Nudity is always good? Were you trying to see what you could get someone to share?) Has making someone exhibit themselves ever felt like a conquest?

Yes, kind of, pretty much, yeah. My motivation was to see something that I like from someone that I like. And to see what kind of creativity would be utilized in coming up with the pic (I've been on both ends of this and I understand that it is harder than it seems). Nudity is always fun, but a tease works too. I wasn't trying to see what I could get them to share or trying to accomplish a conquest (that would make me feel like a dick) it was more of just a fun little thing to do--a sexy project that we could both enjoy.

Also, I wouldn't ask someone who is uncomfortable with this type of thing to do it, on the contrary, I would encourage them not to do it if they were uncomfortable. But if they like a little harmless exhibitionism and they enjoy the thrill, then why not challenge each other to have a little photographic fun?

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Ah, then my work here is done.

<end scene>

(Seriously Honey - thank you. As always, you're stunning.)

That was cute.

Right up to the last sentence.

That was cruel.

We're in the right place:caning:

 

[AlwaysFara]

*bump*

 

[base10]

*bump*

So I generally can't remember my dreams, but I woke up this morning horny and thinking about humiliation. So what was I dreaming about?

 

[AlwaysFara]

So I generally can't remember my dreams, but I woke up this morning horny and thinking about humiliation. So what was I dreaming about?

Who was the humiliated?

 

[base10]

Who was the humiliated?

She was, she was there as I wanted her

 

[AlwaysFara]

She was, she was there as I wanted her

So, my professional assessment is: You need to get laid.