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PrettyLilPussy19 said:
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Have you ever gone out of your way to learn more about a partner's specific kink? How did you go about it? What was the result (i.e. how did your partner feel about it)?
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Pee play. I was NOT down for being peed on, peed in, swallowing pee. Nope. No. I am now a big fan of watersports! I can't say I went out of my way to learn about it. This was more of a "I like it so you'll do it" kind of a thing. Let's just say, after a bit of convincing and compromise, I learned to enjoy the connection.

My husband was interested in urethra play. I wasn't. I did read up on it, we went to a "lab" / demo and saw it up close, we started slow. He bought a set of sounds, wrapped them up and presented me like it was a diamond necklace. Kind of sweet. The result was amazing. :) It's something I'm interested in exploring.

The first dominant I had a relationship with asked me to call him Daddy. I totally didn't get it. He also turned me on to cock worship as an actual act of service.

With the Daddy thing, I did a lot of exploring online about the different kinds of DD/lg relationships. His was more from a guiding, mentoring, treat me like a kid thing. I eventually outgrew him. He didn't seem interested in growing with me. So that didn't work out. I see a lot of that mindset with some "Dominants" - they're interested in newbies only, inexperienced submissives. I call bullshit - it seems like a cop out. That's probably a whole different thread. That being said, I do have a better understanding of what "Daddy" can mean and I like aspects of the dynamic.

As to his philosophy and training on cock worship -- let's just say that's worked out very well for both me and subsequent partners. :rolleyes:
 
cookiecat said:
He didn't seem interested in growing with me. So that didn't work out. I see a lot of that mindset with some "Dominants" - they're interested in newbies only, inexperienced submissives. I call bullshit - it seems like a cop out.
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Mmm cookie, that'll preach. Even just mentally, you have to be able to grow together.
 
AveryElle said:
Flat out made me clench right there. Eeek
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Haha! Anal in general? or ripping his wang out?

cookiecat said:
I eventually outgrew him. He didn't seem interested in growing with me. So that didn't work out. I see a lot of that mindset with some "Dominants" - they're interested in newbies only, inexperienced submissives. I call bullshit - it seems like a cop out. That's probably a whole different thread.
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PrettyLilPussy19 said:
Mmm cookie, that'll preach. Even just mentally, you have to be able to grow together.
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Bullshit cop out, i feel that. Somebody needs to start that thread.
 
#34

Topping from the Bottom

Have you experienced it? How? How did you handle it?
How do you avoid or help your partner avoid it?
 
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