Cock Talk

[Lord Pmann]

Yes, in response to a post made by Bry in S&S that came off as harsher than I think was intended. i think folks did jump on the person but why not educate them in S&S why bring it so another thread? (And if it was addressed in S&S I apologize I pop in out don’t follow it all of the time.)

I'm going to need you to go back and read it all and catch us up on what happened. The Cliff Notes version is fine and please include all boob pics posted. Use your discretion with vagina pics.

 

[Photog1rl]

I'm going to need you to go back and read it all and catch us up on what happened. The Cliff Notes version is fine and please include all boob pics posted. Use your discretion with vagina pics.

NMK but if I’m wrong I’m sure someone else can clarify. plus the boob pics poof. If you are having a lack of boobs in your box check out one of the threads…show us your chest or something similar. You could also search tits and I bet you’ll find what you are missing.

 

[Amanda330]

Agreed, SnS definitely is the dominant thread on the forum. But I don't think that it makes for a place to get to know people. In fact, I'd say that particular thread is quite the opposite. It's a place for people who know one another to banter.

I have to say, I disagree with this completely. Sex and shenanigans is where I found my place here - I've made some very good friends there. Before I started posting there I didn't really know anyone - I was new and it was hard to really interact in other threads. Lit can be an overwhelming place for newcomers and sex and shenanigans, while fast paced, gave me the opportunity to be silly and actually talk to people. It's become my safe place on lit. And it's definitely not always fast paced.

But I think using SnS as the poster child for inclusivity shows that you probably don't understand what Woody was saying.

Sex and shenanigans is a good example for inclusivity. I've never seen people exclude anyone there without reason. That doesn't mean bad behavior or creepy behavior is accepted... It's definitely called out. People who genuinely have something to add to the conversation are valued and welcomed in my experience.

 

[Lord Pmann]

NMK but if I’m wrong I’m sure someone else can clarify. plus the boob pics poof. If you are having a lack of boobs in your box check out one of the threads…show us your chest or something similar. You could also search tits and I bet you’ll find what you are missing.

I already have active subscriptions and notifications for all of these things.

I have to say, I disagree with this completely. Sex and shenanigans is where I found my place here - I've made some very good friends there. Before I started posting there I didn't really know anyone - I was new and it was hard to really interact in other threads. Lit can be an overwhelming place for newcomers and sex and shenanigans, while fast paced, gave me the opportunity to be silly and actually talk to people. It's become my safe place on lit. And it's definitely not always fast paced.

Sex and shenanigans is a good example for inclusivity. I've never seen people exclude anyone there without reason. That doesn't mean bad behavior or creepy behavior is accepted... It's definitely called out. People who genuinely have something to add to the conversation are valued and welcomed in my experience.

Sure. I believe that people will certainly have different experiences with different threads. There is truly not going to be any one size fits all kind of thread. I would be shocked if your story is the norm. But perhaps it is and maybe I am just wrong about that particular thread.

And for what it's worth, my comment on that thread being exclusionary wasn't because I believe it's intentionally so. My assertion is that the nature of a fast moving thread makes it more difficult to interact for newcomers who don't understand the jokes that are often referenced in that kind of speedy interaction. That's not to say that my perception is necessarily correct, either. I'm sure your story isn't an isolated instance at all. I may be looking at it through my lens as someone who prefers threads with more girth.

 

[Amanda330]

Sure. I believe that people will certainly have different experiences with different threads. There is truly not going to be any one size fits all kind of thread. I would be shocked if your story is the norm. But perhaps it is and maybe I am just wrong about that particular thread.

I think lit is a very individualized experience no matter who you are. Everyone is looking for something different here and a lot of the time the experience is heavily influenced by what you make of it. If you act like a creep people aren't going to want to talk to you. If you're kind and well meaning it makes take time but you'll form friendships and connections with people.

And it's no one's responsibility to educate anyone on the way to properly interact with strangers. You know when you're being a dick. Don't be a dick. Lol

I may be looking at it through my lens as someone who prefers threads with more girth.

@crazychemgirl 's girth is unquestioned. That's why I call her daddy.

 

[positiveflirt]

I understand why people would back away from s&s because it does go nuts sometimes, but I've had the pleasure of meeting some amazing people through there and PG in general and I'm not someone who does socialising well at all. I get it can be daunting on arrival though.
I'd encourage anyone to just take their time and be themselves. Unless you're a dick.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

If you act like a creep people aren't going to want to talk to you.

Fuck.

If you're kind and well meaning it makes take time but you'll form friendships and connections with people.

Fuck.

@crazychemgirl 's girth is unquestioned. That's why I call her daddy.

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[Photog1rl]

I have to say, I disagree with this completely. Sex and shenanigans is where I found my place here - I've made some very good friends there. Before I started posting there I didn't really know anyone - I was new and it was hard to really interact in other threads. Lit can be an overwhelming place for newcomers and sex and shenanigans, while fast paced, gave me the opportunity to be silly and actually talk to people. It's become my safe place on lit. And it's definitely not always fast paced.

I want to start by saying that I am glad that you have found a place in S&S. There are some amazing people in that thread and genuine connection can be found-for sure.

With that being said, as someone that has felt incredibly included, included when I have excluded myself and completely ignored in S&S your experience is not the majority experience. I am not saying that the majority experience is exclusion but what Pmann said, “ It's a place for people who know one another to banter.” Really holds true. The number of folks that receive hostile or negative responses is low and often deserving. TSWoody coming in hot to a thread where they presumably don’t know the situation is not a great idea. However if you watch the thread you will see that some posters receive a lot of responses or feedback and some little to none. This is where I see it as a place for folks that are familiar with each other to get to know chat and banter with each other.

I am not saying S&S is bad-at all but sometimes folks that receive responses and have others interact with them do not see it in the same way.
As for being fast paced I think S&S is th fastest paced thread on lit on average if you look at how many pages have been generated and how much time it took.

Sex and shenanigans is a good example for inclusivity. I've never seen people exclude anyone there without reason. That doesn't mean bad behavior or creepy behavior is accepted... It's definitely called out.

who is deciding this? What is a good reason? Is exclusion actively being mean or just not engaging? Actively mean is not seen often but not engaging-seen a lot more frequently.

People who genuinely have something to add to the conversation are valued and welcomed in my experience.

And who is deciding this? I am not asking for myself but as a person who was a part of the thread at its inception and has been a part of this thread actively and then not so I think the bigger picture may be different than your experience.

I am also not comparing this thread to any historical threads or pre and post covid as I can not speak to that. Looking at one particular thread and what happens can be just as important as comparing changes in lit over history.

And again, I am not saying there is anything wrong with S&S but it is not a perfect example of inclusivity and open acceptance.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

*secret top tier handshake*

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[aussiegeekygal]

You're very.... wordy.

Just an observation.

It is an author's forum

 

[Lord Pmann]

And it's no one's responsibility to educate anyone on the way to properly interact with strangers.

Well, that's what the Lit Welcome Committee is for. They help the new, doe-eyed Listers find their way.

Lit is absolutely individualized. But one can't help but notice that an attractive girl is going to have a very different experience than, say, an average man or woman. I don't mean that in any negative light. But the experiences of many people here are definitely based on a number of factors, looks being very high on that list. To your point, that is part of why the experiences are so individualized.

 

[Lord Pmann]

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Nailed it. (The handshake, I mean)

 

[Amanda330]

I am not saying S&S is bad-at all but sometimes folks that receive responses and have others interact with them do not see it in the same way.
As for being fast paced I think S&S is th fastest paced thread on lit on average if you look at how many pages have been generated and how much time it took.

I'm not saying everyone should post there but there are definitely slower days. If people are uncomfortable with the pace I can understand them staying away - but then it's not really exclusive. It may be fast paced at times but that's because people are enjoying the conversation and company... And there are some hilarious people there. I've found it to be incredibly friendly.

who is deciding this? What is a good reason? Is exclusion actively being mean or just not engaging? Actively mean is not seen often but not engaging-seen a lot more frequently.

Have you not experienced people who come off as creepy and predatory? That's the type of behavior I'm talking about. I don't think I've ever seen anyone be mean to another poster there. Calling out bad behavior, sure.

And who is deciding this? I am not asking for myself but as a person who was a part of the thread at its inception and has been a part of this thread actively and then not so I think the bigger picture may be different than your experience.

Your experience is your own. I'm only speaking from my own experience. As we all do.

 

[Lord Pmann]

but what Pmann said, “ blah blah blah.” Really holds true

Quoting this so she cannot delete it later.

 

[Amanda330]

Lit is absolutely individualized. But one can't help but notice that an attractive girl is going to have a very different experience than, say, an average man or woman.

If I was a cunt it doesn't matter how pretty the packaging is... I wouldn't have made many friends.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Holy cock, this thread blew up while I was busy this week! It’s going to take me until next weekend to catch up

Simply my impressions...

1. (Speaking only for myself, but I'd guess this is similar for many men.) I'm more proud of seeing my little soldier stand at full attention than I am at seeing what he is standing on.

2. When I'm standing up and I'm aroused, it's very likely my dick is blocking the view of the balls that lie behind my bat.

3. Probably the most important of them all, it's anatomy. When aroused, my testicles retract up into my body and effectively disappear. They also retreat when cold (aka naked) to protect your sperm. So when I'm aroused, there is simply less ball to be appreciated. Those sneeky little buggers have a mind of their own and could care less if you want them on display.

This is a very thorough and helpful answer

I'm low key obsessed with the faces we make when we come. Those who are just uninhibited and deep in a moment of ecstacy....

I wonder how it looks and feels when I'm riding someone and come. It's intense on my end and I'm sure it's similar to experience on the other end

I think watching someone’s face while they come is incredibly erotic. I had a partner for years that I would play with online and watching his face while he came (sometimes only his face) especially when I couldn’t play right then…

Log on and there’s an ass shot with a starfish over a lady garden from someone I know? Best day.

This made me laugh out loud. I enjoy the unbridled enthusiasm.

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Quoting Larry to me will make me laugh and then make my clothes disappear

 

[aussiegeekygal]

You missed my penance boobs and nudes

Holy cock, this thread blew up while I was busy this week! It’s going to take me until next weekend to catch up

 

[aussiegeekygal]

If I was a cunt it doesn't matter how pretty the packaging is... I wouldn't have made many friends.

Are you sure about that?!

The thirst is strong up in here.

 

[Amanda330]

Are you sure about that?!

The thirst is strong up in here.

Yeah, but the thirsties aren't who became my friends.

 

[Photog1rl]

I'm not saying everyone should post there but there are definitely slower days. If people are uncomfortable with the pace I can understand them staying away - but then it's not really exclusive. It may be fast paced at times but that's because people are enjoying the conversation and company... And there are some hilarious people there. I've found it to be incredibly friendly.

Have you not experienced people who come off as creepy and predatory? That's the type of behavior I'm talking about. I don't think I've ever seen anyone be mean to another poster there. Calling out bad behavior, sure.

Your experience is your own. I'm only speaking from my own experience. As we all do.

I at no point questioned your experience. I think I was as neutral as I could be-I truly don’t dislike the thread-but i do not understand how you can not see that some folks are not treated the same as others.

I am not talking about people that are creepy, predatory, assholes-as I said. And I’m not talking about me or my experiences.

If you watch the thread or look back at the thread you will see that some folks get more likes or responses than others. Some people get absolutely none over and over again. They choose to be there and they are presumably not complaining however they are not included.
What I am saying is that S&S is not the inclusive garden or Eden of Lit. I am also not saying it needs to be. There is no judgement of your experience but it is not universal.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

If I was a cunt it doesn't matter how pretty the packaging is... I wouldn't have made many friends.

Are you sure about that?!

The thirst is strong up in here.

She definitely would have turned off some people, but Aussie you're 100% right that a decent portion would've looked past it. It would be a really interesting experiment to run!

 

[Lord Pmann]

If I was a cunt it doesn't matter how pretty the packaging is... I wouldn't have made many friends.

You aren't a cunt at all... agreed. You're actually one of the people to whom I referred that goes out of their way to be kind to people. I mean that; and not just because you post your boobs.

But I don't think that being a cunt has kept any attractive person here from having friends at lit. Now, the depth of that friendship is definitely questionable. But there are number of magnificent (i.e., large, not fantastic) cunts here who have loads of friends. There are even Covens of Cunts where they pride themselves in their bitchcraft. They are certainly not without friends.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

not just because you post your boobs.

But for the love of God, please don't stop doing that.

But I don't think that being a cunt has kept any attractive person here from having friends at lit.

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[Lord Pmann]

But for the love of God, please don't stop doing that

Oh, no one was asking that. Dear God, if I was unclear, please let me restate. In fact, I think the true way to end sadness at Lit is to post boobs. Or PM them to me.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

You aren't a cunt at all... agreed. You're actually one of the people to whom I referred that goes out of their way to be kind to people. I mean that; and not just because you post your boobs.

But I don't think that being a cunt has kept any attractive person here from having friends at lit. Now, the depth of that friendship is definitely questionable. But there are number of magnificent (i.e., large, not fantastic) cunts here who have loads of friends. There are even Covens of Cunts where they pride themselves in their bitchcraft. They are certainly not without friends.

I'm fucked by a coven of witches