Cock Talk

[aussiegeekygal]

My spouse makes no noise. It's always frustrated me. I don't care what you sound like within reason, but silence makes .e feel like he's not enjoying it. I, on the other hand couldn't stay quiet to save mmissed! I try to keep it down if the house isnt emlty. One time he "shooshed" me because he was afraid of being overheard. My orgasm evaporated. I was so pissed!

I've gotten noisier with age.
I used to be fairly quiet. Now I'm a throaty, moany mess when I'm enjoying myself.

 

[Photog1rl]

I think I have gone back to being noisy as I’ve gotten older. When I was first with my husband, I was really uninhibited and very vocal and then when we had kids, I kind of changed how I felt about sex, and I was less vocal less likely to initiate it and more likely to not wanna have sex. now that the kids are grown, I am much more uninhibited again and more likely to be the initiator and more of the demanding partner. I am vocal again, and I don’t care who can hear me. I think it really speaks to how I viewed myself during my, many years of parenting.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I think it really speaks to how I viewed myself during my, many years of parenting.

Word.

 

[hotwords229_A]

My spouse makes no noise. It's always frustrated me. I don't care what you sound like within reason, but silence makes .e feel like he's not enjoying it. I, on the other hand couldn't stay quiet to save mmissed! I try to keep it down if the house isnt emlty. One time he "shooshed" me because he was afraid of being overheard. My orgasm evaporated. I was so pissed!

Silence is frustrating because, other than feeling, you don’t have those cues.

I sometimes think about how we all grow up masturbating and trying not to make noise, because certainly nobody knows what we’re doing in there, and how that then transfers over to that moment when it’s okay to make noise, necessary even. And like you said, if you then have kids in the house now you’re back to trying to be quiet again.

It’s all very strange.

 

[morelikeasong]

My spouse makes no noise. It's always frustrated me. I don't care what you sound like within reason, but silence makes .e feel like he's not enjoying it. I, on the other hand couldn't stay quiet to save mmissed! I try to keep it down if the house isnt emlty. One time he "shooshed" me because he was afraid of being overheard. My orgasm evaporated. I was so pissed!

I could have written this.

Except mine sometimes puts a hand over my mouth to shush me and I am into that.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Except mine sometimes puts a hand over my mouth to shush me and I am into that.

Times like this I wish I could add a and a reply.

 

[Endless_Night]

Except mine sometimes puts a hand over my mouth to shush me and I am into that.

Times like this I wish I could add a and a reply.

Nope. Not embarrassed.




Or...anything else.

 

[__Nathan1968]

I have a question about orgasms and sounds made or words used. Do you think you sound the same or similar when you climax or is each one unique? Do you have any tells?

My wife’s tells are usually physical, and I can almost always predict orgasm. I have gotten a bit more vocal in my approval. Couldn’t tell you if I sound the same each time. Pretty sure I scared the dogs last night.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Always check your backgrounds people!


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This may be a Cock Talk first! I had questions submitted to me to ask! (I may have tweaked or added a few myself)

When taking or receiving sexy selfies, what is typical . . .

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?
Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?
Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?
Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?
How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?
What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?
Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?
Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Except mine sometimes puts a hand over my mouth to shush me and I am into that.

My ex was very vocal, which I loved, but also into having public sex where we would almost get caught. She never came out and said it, but I think she was into the hand over her mouth thing as well.

There was one time when we were in an apartment building that had the pool table in a locked room, with one door into the clubhouse and one to the outside, with that end being a glass door with a floor to ceiling window beside it. We started playing pool, and one thing led to another, and we were on the floor, beside the pool table. Someone tried to get in from the clubhouse side, shaking the door, and then they went around to the glass door and were pulling and shaking it. We had the pool table between us, but we could see them from the waist down through the glass, and if they bent over slightly, they would have had a perfect view of me pounding into her. She looked over at them, wrapped her mouth around my forearm beside her head, and used that to muffle herself as she screamed while she came, really hard. I had her bucking under me, and the vibrations of her screaming into the bones of my forearm just...echoed through my body.

It was a little bit hot...

 

[Wand3rlust]

I have a question about orgasms and sounds made or words used. Do you think you sound the same or similar when you climax or is each one unique? Do you have any tells?

I think each one is different. But similar.

Depends who I'm with. And who is causing the orgasm and how. And what number orgasm it is.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I have a question about orgasms and sounds made or words used. Do you think you sound the same or similar when you climax or is each one unique? Do you have any tells?

I have always been pretty vocal. I am a moaner, and a groaner, and a bit vocal-- dirty talk, encouraging talk, and, with someone more submissive who liked it, orders.

And while on Lit, I have discovered auralism, recording for and listening to a partner masturbating, and that awoke something in me deeply. (I am actually new to a lot of this, so I made my first recording not knowing there was a word for it, just as a response to her.) So as well as being audible, and more so, I have become more descriptive and narrative at times (though at the climax it is less eloquent and more moaning and "oh, god, you are making me come.") And I found that that tendency to be audible has now carried over into masturbation, even when I was not recording.

 

[Endless_Night]

When taking or receiving sexy selfies, what is typical . . .
I'm not sure I would consider what I've done sexy selfies, but here goes.

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?
I am not a pic poster. Just not my thing. However - at a certain point I decide to take the plunge and play (e-sex), but no-one approached. A girl friend who was much more savvy in these matters said that I needed to post pics. Otherwise, guys thought you were either super unattractive or a dude!

(I am still somewhat insulted. )

So, I girded loins and took a couple of pictures. One, a body shot (with mask) while out on Halloween, and a bra pic. Much later there was a bare back pic, for, reasons.

The first two went in my profile pic for a bit, and the bra pic flashed in Litiquette at some point The latter went in Endless Ends for a hot minute. There was a bare leg pic, too, in the EC.

That's my pic posting life. NO MORE. Those few just about gave me a nervous breakdown.

Oh! Forgot. A handful of shoe pics. I like pricey, sexy shoes.

Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?
Sexy, teasing, I guess? No Naked!

Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?
No! But . . . more suggestive maybe?

Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?
No naked pics!!! (All these naked questions! )

How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?
N/A

What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?
Ummmm. I'm sorry. I don't understand this question.

Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?
For the love of all that is holy do not surprise me with an unsolicited pic.

Oh, man. Once, back when I was playing with someone, they sent me a pic of their *ahem* nether regions. It was not expected. I was dithering about opening the link, and told them so. They backtracked quickly (knowing my hangups), said not to worry, and then

SENT IT TO SOMEONE ELSE

At that moment. In a thread we where both posting in where there was heavy, but not serious, flirting banter. The other person then mentioned it in said thread.

What happened next? Picture Apocalypse Now.

IT WAS MY PIC

MINE

Was I going to open it? Possibly not. Entirely not the point!

His (horrified) response: But, you didn't want it! I thought it would move the thread along!

And that is my nether region pic story.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?
This is one of the great mysteries of the universe.

 

[FormerAllStar2]

I have a question about orgasms and sounds made or words used. Do you think you sound the same or similar when you climax or is each one unique? Do you have any tells?

Having kids has really thrown a wrench in my vocalizations. Like other people have said, the sounds are similar, but not exactly the same each time I cum. Is a whisper grunt/growl a thing? That’s what most often happens.

I did have a day not long ago where the house was empty, so I was able to take my time with myself. The climax was…not quiet. And it really added to the experience.

 

[FormerAllStar2]

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?

I've done both, but I'm more likely to keep them private.

Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?

I guess teasing pics. Some nudes showed up on the old account in the early days, but I'm more subtle nowadays.

Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?

Yes, when necessary.

Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?

I'm not overly shy about sharing, but I'm more likely to share with someone I've at least interacted with on the threads.

How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?

Used to be semi-regularly, now it's rarely or when requested.

What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?

Probably the first pic I ever posted back in the day, which was of my upper back and shoulders with my hands behind my head. I honestly didn't think much of it, but it got a great response. I had been working out pretty hard, and it was a much-needed ego boost at the time.

Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?

I don't think I've ever received a truly unsolicited pic, but I don't think it would be a problem. It does mean a little more if it's from someone I've got a connection with.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?

I'll never understand the unsolicited dick pic epidemic. It just doesn't make sense to me. But, with the right people, and when it's been given the green light, I don't mind sending a shot. How often in real life do you get to show off your cock? For me, it's not that often, so if a woman wants to see it and I'm comfortable with her, I'll load her [in]box.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?
mostly in threads
Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?
more naked
Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?
I think I have put it all out there publicly
Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?
I am not really very discriminating...
How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?
off and on
What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?
I have no idea
Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?
love to get pics in PM's It is a very very very rare occurrence
Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?
Probably because men as well as women have hang-ups about how their bodies look and figure their dicks are sexual so must be hot to look at.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Probably the first pic I ever posted back in the day, which was of my upper back and shoulders with my hands behind my head. I honestly didn't think much of it, but it got a great response. I had been working out pretty hard, and it was a much-needed ego boost at the time.

Those are the kind of pics that get them!

I have no idea

How can this be? You never took a pic of yourself and thought, “Hey, who is that guy? I’m definitely sharing this one!”

 

[UnquietDreams]

When taking or receiving sexy selfies, what is typical . . .

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?

For the most part, I have only posted in a thread.

Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?

There are some outstanding looking men on Lit who post pictures. I am a 97.5% straight man, and I find them sexy.

I am not that guy. I don't have a good body, and I am not sexy at all. But what I have (or at least attempt to have) is a sense of humor. Almost all of my pictures are either jokes or punchlines from jokes. I don't have the body most of the guys who post here do, but I am willing to use what I have to make someone laugh, or at least smile, and there is purpose in that. It isn't mocking myself either, it is just coming at it from a different direction, and I am happy with that. I have posted one "Dick Trick" video as well, and that was a Scooby-Doo reference, so a joke as well.

And none of them are full nude. (Well, other than the dick trick video...)

Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?

I generally do not do PM pics.

Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?

There has to be a purpose to it. It has to fit a theme, or a joke somehow.

How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?

Rarely, but WAY more often than I ever thought I would when I joined Lit.

What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?

There had been a discussion in Sex and Shenanigans on the attractiveness of an arborist. Bearded, kind of nerdy in his knowledge of trees, rugged, and dressed for the outdoors. I posted a pic in Chaos of me on my bed, completely naked except for an open flannel shirt, wearing a pair of muddy work boots, covering my dick with a book on trees, and captioned that I was studying for my next career. Not particularly hot, but that is my vibe.

Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?

I need a connection. Almost weirdly so. I received a link to a picture once, not unsolicited or unexpected, and had to talk to the person further before I would click on the link. I may be neurotic that way. And I don't receive a lot of pics one way or the other.

I have received some unsolicited pics from women, though. For a while, my tag line was "Shy and demure," which some people took as a challenge to get me out of my shell, heh. When I got a picture from a rando I didn't know, I didn't click.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?

I do not know. I have shared a grand total of one actual dick pic, in a PM, as part of a mass birthday celebration. And even then, I contacted the person beforehand to make sure that that was something she wanted before sending it. So...not a dick pic guy.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Oh, man. Once, back when I was playing with someone, they sent me a pic of their *ahem* nether regions. It was not expected. I was dithering about opening the link, and told them so. They backtracked quickly (knowing my hangups), said not to worry, and then

SENT IT TO SOMEONE ELSE

I can see how this happened. I’m not saying it’s cool that it happened, but if he took (what he considered to be) a great pic, he wanted someone to see it.

This may be the reason why I , generally speaking, would rather share a pic publicly than privately. The private ones then feel like they belong only to the person you sent them to. Just seems easier.

It’s like crack, you get them hooked with your public dick pic then they come back (to PM) looking for more! (<—worst analogy of all time!)

 

[UnquietDreams]

It’s like crack, you get them hooked with your public dick pic then they come back (to PM) looking for more! (<—worst analogy of all time!)

Oh, that's why some guys refer to it as their "rod and tackle!"

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Always check your backgrounds people!


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This may be a Cock Talk first! I had questions submitted to me to ask! (I may have tweaked or added a few myself)

When taking or receiving sexy selfies, what is typical . . .

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?

Both really. If I'm talking one on one I'll send a pic making a funny face or looking cute. But I've posted in the selfie thread many times too if I'm feeling it.

Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?

Its rare but I've posted sexy teasing pics here and there. There's one of my butt that came out really nice. If im in a moment where I'm feeling myself I might share.

Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?

Oh yeah. In PM or Skype/Discord convo I'm more likely to show my deeyuck.

Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?

Depends on the vibe really. If I do share something of the nature I make sure I have enthusiastic consent. I do my best to read the room. That is important.

How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?

As much as humanly possible. Or in the rare moments I feel like it.

What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?

It's a nude mirror shot that shows both my face and my butt. There are also toys around. I showed one of my nearest and dearest and she said "this pic is so YOU." Which is a huge compliment.

Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?

Depends on the energy really. I like when people are open and playful. It definitely helps if we vibe.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?

Exhibitionist streak I think. I think it's totally cool to be proud of your body and sex positive and all that. You just need to read the room as to how you do the actual sharing and who you do it with. If you wanna be smooth, you got to play it cool.

 

[Endless_Night]

I have always been pretty vocal. I am a moaner, and a groaner, and a bit vocal-- dirty talk, encouraging talk, and, with someone more submissive who liked it, orders.

And while on Lit, I have discovered auralism, recording for and listening to a partner masturbating, and that awoke something in me deeply. (I am actually new to a lot of this, so I made my first recording not knowing there was a word for it, just as a response to her.) So as well as being audible, and more so, I have become more descriptive and narrative at times (though at the climax it is less eloquent and more moaning and "oh, god, you are making me come.") And I found that that tendency to be audible has now carried over into masturbation, even when I was not recording.

This completely interesting.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?
Probably because men as well as women have hang-ups about how their bodies look and figure their dicks are sexual so must be hot to look at.

Huh. This answer . . . actually makes sense to me.

 

[Endless_Night]

It’s like crack, you get them hooked with your public dick pic then they come back (to PM) looking for more! (<—worst analogy of all time!)

I see. So this is what is happening?

 

[Apisto42]

I'm low key obsessed with the faces we make when we come. Those who are just uninhibited and deep in a moment of ecstacy....

I wonder how it looks and feels when I'm riding someone and come. It's intense on my end and I'm sure it's similar to experience on the other end

 

[Apisto42]

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?

PM most likely.

Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?

Rarely, but more often than I thought I would before being online.

Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?

Yes. Probably have the boys on display more. Maybe some pre-cum. Maybe a bit more of me.

Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?

Depends on context and what’s requested and who’s requesting. I’m shy at first, but more likely to send more if I have a connection.

How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?

Very very rarely on the threads. More so in pm.

What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?

I have a hard time (haha) describing any of my own pics as sexy. It’s the reaction that’s important to me. Did they like it, turn them on? Make them have erotic thoughts?

Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?

From a stranger? Not really my thing. Log on and there’s an ass shot with a starfish over a lady garden from someone I know? Best day.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?

I’m proud of my little tot. He’s done good by me and I’m happy to spread his love around.