Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Replicant2018]

Well thank you

Anytime sweetie. You know how I feel about you.

 

[Rayjay507]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I’m 68 mwm and yes more and more curious. My wife actually got it started. About 3 years ago she would start a role play while I’m eating her pussy. Always another guy coming into the room jacking his meat watching us. She always ends up having him rubbing his cock on me then closer and closer to my mouth, ultimately me taking him in my mouth at her encouragement. Always ending with him cumming in my mouth. I went along in beginning because it got her so hot. But the longer this has gone on this has me craving cock sometimes so bad I can’t stand it. I’m not attracted to a guy at all. But a hard cock standing at attention is my fetish. Absolutely gorgeous.

 

[tonycurinmass]

You maybe onto something here. I'm mid 50s and for the last 2 or 3 years I can't stop thinking about sucking cock. I just want to pleasure a man. I'm married with kids and consider myself straight. I'm too afraid to act on it but have considered befriending and older man, maybe mid 60s upward ideally straight and curious.

OMG, you described me EXACTLY! I feel the same way and would do it in a second if I knew it was safe and I would not be found out. (Don't want to mess up what I have at home. Kids, etc)

 

[Jander1]

I had a consistent hook up to play with a guy...our chemistry was great...his cock tasted wonderful...he moved, and nothing since. It is so difficult to find when you need to be careful and all.

 

[Oldsucker]

That is very interesting. Being male if peak testosterone kicks in at 19, personally mine remained very high until reaching my late 40's in age. I became tremendously bi-curious at the age of 55. My attraction to bi-sexual, then strictly gay porn only increased as I aged. I am one of the men whose body, or hidden sexual desires, gave my oral and anal virginity away on the same day. The fantasy's had overpowered me for 8 years. I knew they were real, I did sexual things I'd never dreamed of before in my entire life.

I gave a man my first blow job when I was 63. I was thrilled to do this, and felt delirious with sexual freedom as I swallowed his cum. Your post makes perfect sense in my personal experience. And I believe many men have homosexual thoughts as they age for the same reasons you have stated, and other's like a marriage desolving because of sexual loss of interest. I've no idea how many men have done what I have, but the temptation I believe is undeniable if your 50 or older.

I never even considered the hormones in my body could have possibly aided my sexual transformation to become a cock sucker. Now, I hope it just fueled the tremendous appeal that homosexuality gave to me later in life.

Much appreciate your post!

Very interesting. I have started wanting and sucking cocks in my sixties. plus I want / need my nipples stimulated. You may be on to something.

 

[Oldsucker]

OMG what a powerful, attractive cock. Would beg to suck that, no question.

I want that cock. Wow.

 

[One_ping_only]

I had a consistent hook up to play with a guy...our chemistry was great...his cock tasted wonderful...he moved, and nothing since. It is so difficult to find when you need to be careful and all.

Youre so correct. As much as I'd love to drop to my knees and suck a hard cock every day I'm fully aware there's risk involved. It's part of reality so my or our conundrum!!!

Not only do we need to be careful for the obvious reasons ........ we also have that issue of who woukd be interested in having his cock sucked by another male?? My " cocksucking radar " has been on the blinks so that guy I passed at the park or nodded hello while getting my coffee could had shot their loads down my throat but nope.

There's a few hook up apps that I believe can help and someone even mentioned to me Reddit is a decent way to meet a local guy?! It just may be safer and easier to just quickly masturbate and get it out of my system so to speak?!

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I'm sure it's already been said - perhaps many times - but, here's my case.
My wife's desire for sex has all but disappeared. We have sex very occasionally, but only after persistent hinting and innuendos on my part. Even before, the sexual activity that I crave, and that which she's been amenable to, have almost never been equal.

As a man who had a dedicated male Cocksucker when I was young, I've never really stopped having my urges to have my cock sucked by a man. So, in my visits to ABSs to relieve my sexual tensions, I've almost always found another guy who was anxious to suck cock. And in many cases, he got his wish with me. I've been reluctant to be the oral bottom, but as an oral top, my desire hasn't diminished, but increased, given my sexual situation at home.

 

[Filipinawife]

I'm sure it's already been said - perhaps many times - but, here's my case.
My wife's desire for sex has all but disappeared. We have sex very occasionally, but only after persistent hinting and innuendos on my part. Even before, the sexual activity that I crave, and that which she's been amenable to, have almost never been equal.

As a man who had a dedicated male Cocksucker when I was young, I've never really stopped having my urges to have my cock sucked by a man. So, in my visits to ABSs to relieve my sexual tensions, I've almost always found another guy who was anxious to suck cock. And in many cases, he got his wish with me. I've been reluctant to be the oral bottom, but as an oral top, my desire hasn't diminished, but increased, given my sexual situation at home.

Nice.

 

[RoanMtn]

Interesting thread as I think I may be bisexual, but a few years ago...ugh. Now I occasionally masturbate to sucking cock and being penetrated. Go figure.

 

[ukjack]

Youre so correct. As much as I'd love to drop to my knees and suck a hard cock every day I'm fully aware there's risk involved. It's part of reality so my or our conundrum!!!

Not only do we need to be careful for the obvious reasons ........ we also have that issue of who woukd be interested in having his cock sucked by another male?? My " cocksucking radar " has been on the blinks so that guy I passed at the park or nodded hello while getting my coffee could had shot their loads down my throat but nope.

There's a few hook up apps that I believe can help and someone even mentioned to me Reddit is a decent way to meet a local guy?! It just may be safer and easier to just quickly masturbate and get it out of my system so to speak?!

Of course you have to only go with what you're comfortable with, but in my limited experience everything built up until I just had to try it. Had a few encounters, just met up with them first to confirm they were sane and nice people then went for it. I'd probably not recommend finding someone *too* local though - might be embarrassing bumping into them at the supermarket

 

[Escierto]

Interesting thread as I think I may be bisexual, but a few years ago...ugh. Now I occasionally masturbate to sucking cock and being penetrated. Go figure.

Who can explain it? Believe me, I have tried but it is what it is.

 

[idahobicouple]

For those of us born in the 60's. Gay was a very fucking bad word. No one had anything good to say about gay men. But 2 women was a very hot topic. then a porn mag would come your way and the women were enjoying and cumming. Then in my head the girls i was involved with really enjoyed sucking cock and having the asses played with. Then you play with your own and it felt good. Then you you find yourself in adult arcade and a gay video pops up and you skip past it thinking, ah man that's fucked up. Then you watch one for a couple minutes and its stuck in your head and you play with your hole when your jacking off. Then your slowly think about it more and more. It's just a slow progression as you and society relax on all the hate. Then fast forward, your cock is in its cage and your girlfriend is jacking a guy off right in to your mouth or ass.

 

[Swuchmann]

Two things. First little sex with my wife. Second, I have found I can balance the stress of being an alpha in public by being sub to dominant men.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

For those of us born in the 60's. Gay was a very fucking bad word. No one had anything good to say about gay men. But 2 women was a very hot topic. then a porn mag would come your way and the women were enjoying and cumming. Then in my head the girls i was involved with really enjoyed sucking cock and having the asses played with. Then you play with your own and it felt good. Then you you find yourself in adult arcade and a gay video pops up and you skip past it thinking, ah man that's fucked up. Then you watch one for a couple minutes and its stuck in your head and you play with your hole when your jacking off. Then your slowly think about it more and more. It's just a slow progression as you and society relax on all the hate. Then fast forward, your cock is in its cage and your girlfriend is jacking a guy off right in to your mouth or ass.

The progression is right on. I remember masturbating to the Penthouse girl on girl pictorials and the Letters. And skipping past the gay videos at the ABS arcade, until I watched and got the idea of using a dildo in my ass while I'd masturbate - then trying to cum in mouth, but most of the time wound up giving myself a facial. Pretty close, except on 2 points. My cock has never been in a cage. Not interested in the cock cage or a guy in my ass, but I could go for my wife jacking off me or another guy right into my mouth.

 

[Crios]

The progression is right on. I remember masturbating to the Penthouse girl on girl pictorials and the Letters. And skipping past the gay videos at the ABS arcade, until I watched and got the idea of using a dildo in my ass while I'd masturbate - then trying to cum in mouth while Pretty close, except on 2 points. My cock has never been in a cage. Not interested in the cock cage or a guy in my ass, but I could go for my wife jacking off me or another guy right into my mouth.

Have to agree with you about cock cages. Not my thing either.

When I was younger, I was, sad to say, homophobic. Was raised Catholic and homosexuality was "sinful" and "dangerous." I've always been attracted to girls/women anyway so never considered man-on-man sex. That started to change in my early twenties when I stumbled upon a tranny video in a booth at an ABS. I was mesmerized. So that was the first "crack" in my armor. Over the years, I've met, worked with and become friends with many gay and lesbian people. Those experiences have helped me realize that sex between consenting adults, regardless of gender or orientation, isn't evil or wrong.

Today, I'm still happily married to my wife of over 40 years but do very much regret closing myself off from experiencing men before marriage. Nowadays, I probably watch more gay porn than straight porn. If my wife ever wanted to experiment with me and another man, I'd jump at the chance. It'll never happen--she freaked when we started watching a MMF flick--so it'll just have to remain a fantasy.

 

[PersonalFavors]

The progression is right on. I remember masturbating to the Penthouse girl on girl pictorials and the Letters. And skipping past the gay videos at the ABS arcade, until I watched and got the idea of using a dildo in my ass while I'd masturbate - then trying to cum in mouth while Pretty close, except on 2 points. My cock has never been in a cage. Not interested in the cock cage or a guy in my ass, but I could go for my wife jacking off me or another guy right into my mouth.

I wish there were Penthouse stories here. Those were great. Sometimes I find stuff written like that in kristen Archives. Like here lots of looking/reading before getting a rise.
No cages or butt stuff. Which seems to be a common thread in the stories and modern porn. I liked the hetero photos in Ph and Hustler. Although they did make me think I had a little hairy dick for the longest time!

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I am also a MWM in my “golden years.” I have felt through the course of my life I have always been curious. It wasn’t until I reached retirement age that I acted on that curiosity.

Wow! When I took a beautiful cock in my mouth, and tasted his cum for the first time, I look back with regret that I didn’t start to appreciate the enjoyment and wonderful feeling of finally letting go. I only wish I had started long ago.

We only go around once and this experience is overwhelmingly powerful. Enjoy.

 

[saintcero]

I am also a MWM in my “golden years.” I have felt through the course of my life I have always been curious. It wasn’t until I reached retirement age that I acted on that curiosity.

Wow! When I took a beautiful cock in my mouth, and tasted his cum for the first time, I look back with regret that I didn’t start to appreciate the enjoyment and wonderful feeling of finally letting go. I only wish I had started long ago.

We only go around once and this experience is overwhelmingly powerful. Enjoy.

I have. Happy for the both of us.

 

[Uncut1969]

I am also a MWM in my “golden years.” I have felt through the course of my life I have always been curious. It wasn’t until I reached retirement age that I acted on that curiosity.

Wow! When I took a beautiful cock in my mouth, and tasted his cum for the first time, I look back with regret that I didn’t start to appreciate the enjoyment and wonderful feeling of finally letting go. I only wish I had started long ago.

We only go around once and this experience is overwhelmingly powerful. Enjoy.

Sounds like me ! Good for you

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

I never thought about sucking cock until I hit 57 or 58 i have not sucked one yet and im 64 but i sure have practiced on some dildos. I also admit that there are days that i seem to think about it all day

Sounds like me ! Good for you

Hello
After I gave in to my natural instincts I had several men. I became acquainted with them through the Silver Daddies site. I advertised for a MBM and met him. He was a very hot man my age. He was hot, handsome, and had a wonderful 8”, thick cock. He said I was the best head he ever had. He had never been deep throated before. Now I am addicted to BBC. Once Black there is no going back. Give in you’ll Love It!

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I'm going to have to agree with you once you go black it's hard to go back. Something about a nice thick black cock.

 

[policywank]

For those of us born in the 60's. Gay was a very fucking bad word. No one had anything good to say about gay men. But 2 women was a very hot topic. then a porn mag would come your way and the women were enjoying and cumming. Then in my head the girls i was involved with really enjoyed sucking cock and having the asses played with. Then you play with your own and it felt good. Then you you find yourself in adult arcade and a gay video pops up and you skip past it thinking, ah man that's fucked up. Then you watch one for a couple minutes and its stuck in your head and you play with your hole when your jacking off. Then your slowly think about it more and more. It's just a slow progression as you and society relax on all the hate. Then fast forward, your cock is in its cage and your girlfriend is jacking a guy off right in to your mouth or ass.

I tend to think that the progression mainly represents a peeling back of the layers of oppression and expectation imposed upon men by society to reveal that which was there all along. That as opposed to a man actually being changed. But I suppose it could be both.

There are so many differences between men and women that it is hard to compare. But it is worth noting how many women have tried same sex relations at some point. A lot of us. We just don't face the same kind of judgment or compulsion to analyze what it means. I have been with women many times. I prefer men. But I don't feel any need to declare myself bi or straight or whatever.

I think it is unfortunate that society doesn't tend to give men as much latitude to explore. But I think that with age comes a decreased concern about what others think so it only makes sense to want to explore.

 

[SPORTZDOK]

Like the last response, yeah, I think it is peeling back the layers of acceptable and doing what you want and screw what people think. I have increasingly gotten more curious and was able to bring it into one relationship with a GF from a few years back, which would never have happened 20 years ago.

 

[canogagrizz]

I tend to think that the progression mainly represents a peeling back of the layers of oppression and expectation imposed upon men by society to reveal that which was there all along. That as opposed to a man actually being changed. But I suppose it could be both.

There are so many differences between men and women that it is hard to compare. But it is worth noting how many women have tried same sex relations at some point. A lot of us. We just don't face the same kind of judgment or compulsion to analyze what it means. I have been with women many times. I prefer men. But I don't feel any need to declare myself bi or straight or whatever.

I think it is unfortunate that society doesn't tend to give men as much latitude to explore. But I think that with age comes a decreased concern about what others think so it only makes sense to want to explore.

Good points. I think another factor is (for me anyways), was always the extra thrill abotu "how worng" it's suppose to be. That part increased my desires to try m2m sex even more and made any acts that more thrilling the "naughtiness" of it all. That part (the naughtiness) is the only reason I was ever willing to explore & unwilling to admit (on the very few occassions I had with the same sex) that it thrilled me & got me hard & excited. Sex was alway better & more enjoyable for me with females though. I always found it odd (although ok & just fine to me) that the little few m2m enclunters I ever had, I still got excited & hard. It was the nauthiness/forbidden part of it all that made it so eciting & appealing. For myself anyways. Like a quick rush.