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Why do older men become bi-curious?

A long time ago, I had an older friend who was well endowed for his age. We used to camp out together and we’d lie in the tent and chat. My hand would roam around his stomach and keep advancing to his cock. I’d feel it through his underwear and feel it getting more and more excited. All the while, we’d just talk about various subjects, sometimes about girls. We’d never acknowledge that I was making him very aroused. I’d soon hand my hand under his jockeys and directly on his erection. I’d take it out and press it against my face and nuzzle against hid balls. I loved the feel and smell of it. I’d open my mouth and put it over the head but would never let it touch me. I’d exhale on it so he knew how close we was to me. After several minutes of this, I’d put it away and we’d go to sleep. It must have driven him crazy but neither of us wanted it to go to the point if me actually sucking him, even though I wanted to.
 
andrewgoogle said:
I was in my early 40s when I became curious about other men sexually. I remember coming across a video of two men having sex. It was the first gay video I had ever seen. I wasn't repulsed, but intrigued. Both men were well-built and handsome. I watched that particular video a number of times and was fascinated by it. It was so different by what usually attracted me when I was the surfing the web.

Now I am in my mid-50s and enjoy videos of of men with other men. It is not something unusual or odd now. I really enjoy erotic stories of (mostly straight) guys experimenting with each other. I still prefer heterosexual porn, but gay porn is a niche within me.

I have never done anything with another guy except engage with "I'll show you mine, if you show me yours" when I was just a kid. And it is doubtful that I will act on any male curiosities now. But it doesn't stop me from fantasizing about it.

I think that one of the reasons men may find themselves fantasizing about other guys when they enter mid-life is that my this time in life we are probably more comfortable with our sexuality and willing to discover any eccentricities when may discover. Maybe those impulses and yearnings were there all along. Maybe they are new. I'm not sure that it matters. Also, we live in a different time sexually than we did thirty+ years ago. Not only have there been huge advances for gays and lesbians - bisexuality is more embraced now than previously. Maybe we feel that is more okay to explore sexually than previously in our lives.

One particular fantasy of mine is about mutual masturbation with another guy. If that were to ever happen in real life, I'm not sure that I would have to have a deep emotional connection for this to take place. But when it comes to something more intimate - like oral or anal sex - I think I would need to have some sort of intimacy or emotional bond for this to happen. That said, I just can't imagine loving a man the way I love women. But I could see such intimacy growing out of deep friendship.

This is an interesting thread. Let's keep up the conversation.

Dru
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Yes, I am a woman and I enjoy watching 2 men together too. I find that men are more vulnerable with each other than they are with a woman. I think that is because they are both men so they don’t have to play the macho male role. There is more sensuality, passion and erotica in gay porn. A guy knows how to please a guy because he is a guy. So in short, maybe guys start to be bi curious, because being with a guy means they can let all their inhibitions go and just be the,selves since they are able to connect on a more empathetic way. It’s like the same reason a guy find 2 girls together very titillating. We are more sensual with each other because we understand each other on a different level than a male. We know how to touch each other’s bodies and give the woman pleasure. Anyways that’s just my 2 cents.
 
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HersheyBelle said:
Yes, I am a oak and I enjoy watching 2 men together too. I find that men are more vulnerable with each other than they are with a woman. I think that is because they are both men so they don’t have to play the macho male role. There is more sensuality, passion and erotica in gay porn. A guy knows how to please a guy because he is a guy. So in short, maybe guys start to be bi curious, because being with a guy means they can let all their inhibitions go and just be the,selves since they are able to connect on a more empathetic way. It’s like the same reason a guy find 2 girls together very titillating. We are more sensual with each other because we understand each other on a different level than a male. We know how to touch each other’s bodies and give the woman pleasure. Anyways that’s just my 2 cents.
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You might be right.

When I've been with another man (happened twice in my life) I've certainly felt like I knew what do do more than with a woman. I'm married and naturally had sex, but it's more obvious with a man as to what's working and what's not regardless of how much talk goes on.
 
As much as anything else I think it’s companionship. I’m here looking to chat & share with. Looking for somet that’s lacking at home.
 
TempSpawn said:
You might be right.

When I've been with another man (happened twice in my life) I've certainly felt like I knew what do do more than with a woman. I'm married and naturally had sex, but it's more obvious with a man as to what's working and what's not regardless of how much talk goes on.
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I think the more obvious thing is a huge turn on for me. I had my first real gay experience well into my 30's. It feels so natural for me to have a man's cock in my hands/mouth and vice versa. It felt like freedom and was really easy to know when he was at the height of being turned on. This is especially true with the second experience with a guy who I kinda clicked with. It's all about sex for me with guys though at least when we get beyond the sex experience anyway. I felt close to this guy when we were making out and cumming hard. Unlike with women where it's about the sex, and more outside of sex.
 
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